You still have to beat and scold when it's time to beat and scold. As a parent, you should always face your child's mistakes. If preaching is useless, sometimes you should give him some pain. But we should also pay attention to the method and degree of beating and scolding children. Improper beating and cursing will affect children's growth and will be counterproductive. Indeed, there are many opinions about educating children to be able to beat and scold but not to beat and scold. Different people have different opinions. As an experienced person, I think we should be cautious! Be able to criticize, persuade and educate, and strive to criticize, persuade and educate; Try not to beat and scold.

When a child is a beginner, he always grows up by making mistakes and correcting them. Adults should always pay attention to children's words and deeds, point out and correct mistakes in time, patiently persuade education, and tirelessly let him (her) know the causes of mistakes and the seriousness of the consequences caused by mistakes. If you can't correct your mistakes as required, you will be punished again, and it is not ruled out that there will be beatings. If you don't change your mind after repeated education, then give a moderate warning. It is still necessary to beat and scold moderately. I think the education of children can refer to the following points:

Make rules. Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang. At home, make some rules that you can't do. These rules are made according to the mistakes that children often make, so take them with you. Then supervise the children to do it slowly. When children make mistakes again and again, parents really have no choice. You can clean it once. Note: find the right time and find the right mistake. Cannot be wronged

Give children the feeling of love. Before you beat and scold, you should explain your parents' love to your children. The purpose of doing this is to urge him to correct his mistakes, and also to analyze what mistakes he has made and the serious consequences he has made. Only in this way will the children be convinced. Suffering from the pain of flesh and blood, he will consider the seriousness of the consequences when things happen again. Note: at this time, the beating and cursing should be moderate.

Calm down in time. Don't take it for granted that parents beat and scold, even their own children, after beating and criticizing. It is necessary to appease in time. This time, you can have a white face and a red face. Let the children feel warm in your comfort. Children are constantly growing up, and they will make mistakes as they grow older. Children's education should not be indulged blindly. But there must be a limit to beating and cursing.