How old should children's sex education start step by step? Many parents think that their children will understand when they grow up. Not only are they not in a hurry to educate their children about sex, but sometimes they avoid this problem. In the long run, we will miss the best opportunity for children's sex education. With the development of the Internet, many children have obtained inseparable videos from TV and mobile phones, which leads to the logic of estrus thinking.

With the development trend of the times, more and more parents gradually attach importance to their children's sex education. However, there are still misunderstandings about when to gradually educate children about sex. In fact, when the baby is 1~2 years old, it has gradually been able to distinguish naked parents. This concise division and understanding is called the cognitive ability of gender differences; From two and a half to three years old, babies can establish and understand their own gender; Three years old is the focus of sex education. After the age of three, with the further development of sexual cognitive ability, children are likely to feel shy or unnatural about other people's private parts, thus feeling guilty.

After the child is 3 years old, parents need to gradually create boundaries, not coexist. From the perspective of sex education, children already feel guilty at this time, and sharing a room with friends or parents of the opposite sex will cause a lot of inconvenience and discomfort. At this time, you can try to sleep in separate beds, try not to walk naked or wear underwear in front of the children, and close the door when you pee and take a shower to prevent inappropriate intimate behavior.

As parents of the same sex as their children, they should teach their children to know their personal secrets, and at the same time educate their children about safety knowledge, telling them to protect themselves: only the closest people can have intimate behavior with themselves; Establish and inform children that others are not allowed to take off their personal clothes, so that children can understand that breasts and lower parts are private parts and can only be touched when mom and dad assist in bathing or doctors' physical examination; If someone has done something "weird" to himself, he should be brave enough to tell his parents, and there is no need to hide it.

Many parents educate their children about sex because they help them prevent sexual assault. In fact, this understanding is taken out of context. Sex education first lets children know their bodies clearly. Let them have a clear grasp of the development trend of their bodies. Help children shape the concepts of self-esteem, self-love and self-defense. Secondly, it is to help them build excellent social media. Now they don't want to talk to their parents, but they can discuss it with their friends. Many times, people of the same age are more likely to understand each other, resulting in excellent friendship and excellent communication.

There is another sentence: if you think the child is young, the suspect will not feel young. Therefore, many times, helping children to shape their awareness of prevention in advance is also prevention in advance. Sex education should be carried out gradually from childhood. If children feel guilty because of shyness in adolescence, and rarely communicate with their parents, then sex education will have a poor actual effect. Sex education in adolescence is equally important. You can choose some books suitable for teenagers to read and give them to children to read articles. Or if you don't understand anything else, you can consult an authoritative adolescent psychologist and let professionals help you decide your child's sex education.