Parents are the first teachers of the children. Plant trees for ten years and educate people for a hundred years. How to educate children is an eternal topic, and the quality of education directly affects children's life. So now more and more parents are constantly changing their ideas and paying more attention to their children's learning and growth. Many parents' education is successful, but there are also many parents who have not achieved the desired results for various reasons. Based on my analysis of children's education for more than ten years, I would like to talk about some immature ideas and experiences for your discussion. First, the purpose of educating children: let children become useful talents to society. Second, there are two ways: the first is to cultivate children's ability to live independently; The second is to cultivate children's ability to learn independently. I mainly educate my children from the following aspects: 1. Cultivate what you can do from an early age and don't develop the habit of relying too much on your parents. 2. Help adults do what they can. At an appropriate time, if family conditions permit, children should be sent to school. In this environment, children can get full exercise and develop relatively independent abilities in food, clothing, housing and transportation. 4. In terms of interest, we should foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, appropriately encourage things of interest, guide parents to learn some knowledge that children are not interested in, and gradually cultivate interest. Parents should pay more attention to things that seriously affect the physical and mental health of teenagers, such as internet addiction, and correct them in time to avoid making up for it. 5, the correct use of appreciation education, according to the children's different personalities and different situations, if children achieve results, don't give too much appreciation, but should cool down in time. If children are frustrated and frustrated, they should give more encouragement, increase their self-confidence, guide them according to the situation, let them develop in a healthy, positive and win-lose direction, and cultivate a spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement. My child took part in the national Olympic mathematics competition in the first day of junior high school. When he was in the school preliminary contest, he felt that he usually got good grades, and it should be no problem to enter the semi-finals. He was impetuous and underestimated his enemy. I corrected him in time and asked the children to correctly understand the difficulty of the preliminary round and not to take it lightly. After entering the semi-finals, the child lost confidence in winning the national competition award and felt that winning the national award was unattainable for him. I encouraged them in time to let the children realize that as long as they work hard, they can get provincial, provincial and municipal awards instead of national awards, and their efforts will always pay off. Through my guidance and the efforts of the children, I won the third prize in this competition. 1. Be good at communicating with children and understand their thoughts in study and life. Parents and children form a relationship of both parents and friends in communication, so as to find out the problems existing in children's growth in time and avoid detours. 2. Cultivate children's different learning methods at different learning stages. In the primary school stage, give as much guidance as possible, so as to form a good learning method and pave the way for the next stage of learning. In middle school, children should learn independently, and parents and schools should cultivate children's ability to study and live independently, focusing on quality education, so that children can get corresponding ability training and exercise at different stages. 3. In terms of ideology and morality, we should cultivate children's honest and realistic healthy personality. In this regard, we have given practical and sufficient guidance on the daily behavior norms of primary and secondary school students. In the daily education of schools and parents, we should pay attention to the education of basic moral concepts, moral knowledge and honesty, etiquette, courtesy and etiquette, and cultivate students' moral cultivation of patriotism, law-abiding, honesty and trustworthiness, obeying order and protecting the environment. At the same time, we should guide students to love the school and be proud of it. Jiaxing No.1 Middle School is a prestigious school with a long history. It has trained a large number of high-quality talents for the society, has a realistic and innovative style of study and a high-quality teaching team, and attracted a large number of outstanding students. Students should be proud of being able to study in No.1 Middle School, win glory for the school, and be proud of having so many good students in No.1 Middle School.