1. When children do the right thing and say the right thing, appreciation will stimulate their psychological energy, meet their psychological needs, help them build up their self-confidence and encourage their growth. If a child does something wrong or says something wrong, it is necessary to criticize artistically with the language of "appreciation", grasp the "degree", understand the tolerance of the child, make appreciation and criticism coexist, let the child experience it happily and profoundly, and achieve good educational results.
2. Appreciation brings positive incentives to children, and children are supported and recognized by their parents. Parents appreciate their children's process and cultivate their self-confidence. Children's self-confidence stems from their inner self-identity and is closely related to the positive feedback given by their parents. Children's self-confidence is not established at one time, but perfected in a subtle way.
When children face setbacks, they have more courage to deal with them because of their parents' encouragement. Appreciation education is for children to believe that they can achieve their goals and resist setbacks. This subtle psychological suggestion makes children braver and more tenacious in the face of setbacks. I always didn't know how to be sure of my child before, and I always quarreled with him blindly. The frustration of my child has caused many problems between me and my child. I learned a lot of family education after taking the beautiful family course in Gaodao. Now I communicate with my children much more smoothly and my children are very obedient. I am very pleased!
4. The process of appreciation is also the process of helping children build a sense of security. Adequate security helps children develop an optimistic attitude. Children's optimistic attitude enables them to get rid of negative emotions and have more expectations and longings for life or the future.
5. Children's problem-solving ability is obtained through continuous exercise, and children's problem-solving ability is more easily cultivated with the appreciation of their parents. Children are more willing to accept the change of the environment, because they have the ability to solve problems, and their ability has been improved to a greater extent in the change.
What are the benefits of appreciation education for children's growth?
1, confident. This is the most direct benefit of appreciation education. A child who is often appreciated by others has strong self-confidence and pride in his choice and practice.
2. Face setbacks bravely. They are not afraid of the difficulties and obstacles in life. The psychological hint brought by appreciation is "I can" and "I will", which is similar to the "brainwashing" education method, so that children are not afraid of setbacks.
3. Be positive and optimistic. Human beings need to be recognized, often recognized, which will have a subtle influence on a person's character. From inferiority to optimism, it seems only a moment.
4. Be good at solving problems. The size of the problem is different in the eyes of different people. Children who are often appreciated are bold in their inner world. They are not afraid of problems at all, but will be happy because of them.
How should parents achieve correct "appreciation"?
Language and attitude. Children are a sensitive existence, and a perfunctory attitude is better than not saying anything. It will affect your child's optimism and the intimacy between you and your child.
Specific praise. It's like a teacher praising a student and needing a specific roll call to make people around him envy him. When the child is appreciated, you also need to tell the specific reasons to let the child know where he is doing better.
Encourage in time. There is no need to hoard encouragement. Once this linguistic thing is hoarded, it is worthless and meaningless. Therefore, we must encourage and praise children in time.
The importance of appreciation education to children's growth is shared here. I think, at this impetuous moment, as parents, we should calm down and spend some time to find scientific ways to help our children in the critical period of their personality development, so that they can get long-term and better development! Return to Sohu to see more.