Hehe, you just used him so much since childhood that he got used to it. Our family is doing very well, and we don't ask any small questions. It all depends on me, or his psychology is comparing. I don't know how your family's financial situation is. Maybe he is comparing with some buddies around him. It is normal for this kind of psychology to happen at this age and there is nothing to be proud of in young people. You said he had an idea, so. Is he a little male chauvinist? ) men like the feeling of being respected. You can't stop him anyway. Your sister is too worried about him. In fact, sometimes you take everything about him seriously. She is only 22 years old. At this time, as a man, if you don't go to the society to fight for yourself, when will you go? Will you live under your protection all your life? Can you protect her forever? I will speak for him, or let him run into difficulties in society. First, he understands human suffering, and you are actually very rare. Second, he will understand you in the future. Think about your parents' old age. If your brother is still like this, your parents will be so miserable! Third, he won't regret it in the future. If you don't let him do anything, he will blame you even more in the future! Fourth, think about yourself. He is your brother, not your son! You have no obligation to be angry with him. You have your own life.

Also, don't always say that he is useless. He is only 22 years old. His parents are encouraging him, but you look down on him. This is that your education method is wrong. Maybe he's just resisting you. You can let him do something by himself and communicate with him in a good way. It may be difficult at first, but when he touches a nail once or twice, he will gradually appreciate what you say!

You can try, but you have been educating him like that for 22 years, so when you communicate with him now, you must be patient, don't worry, reason, and facts are the most powerful. Stop calling your brother names.

I hope you can succeed!