How can a five-year-old child be educated if he is disobedient?
1, give understanding and respect?
When a child begins to be disobedient, it is the first step for him to build himself and his self-esteem. He did this just to gain room for growth and have the same equal status as you, so don't interfere with his actions easily at this time. When children want to do something by themselves at first, they may wish to meet some reasonable requirements and give guidance when they need help. In this way, the child will feel that you respect him, and the child whose self-esteem is maintained will gain a sense of pleasure and accomplishment, and naturally become an obedient child. ?
2. Satisfy children's curiosity and reasonable requirements?
Under the condition of keeping the child away from dangerous goods, give him enough space for independent exploration. In order to keep children away from dangerous things, one of the easiest ways is to provide him with other substitutes, and at the same time set certain rules for him to limit his exploration, because at this time, the boundaries between touchable and untouchable things are blurred.
Provide some interesting toys and objects to effectively attract children's attention and make him concentrate on activities that can meet the needs of exploration. Try to provide him with more structural toys to put together; Guiding him to innovate the way of playing old toys or using waste as toys, such as rolling old newspapers into balls for football kicks, not only satisfies his curiosity, but also satisfies his desire to operate. He must be very happy.
3. Let children have more choices.
Children around the age of 3-5 may begin to sprout self-awareness, and even learn not to listen to their parents and show a little rebellion. At this time, children should be given more free space and more choices, instead of ordering them to do things rudely. For example, when a child doesn't eat or doesn't want to study, you can ask her whether to study now or play for 5 minutes before studying. After giving such a choice, the child may accept it better.
4. Give children more encouragement and tolerance.
You can't simply and rudely deny disobedience, but you should know that children are self-conscious. For example, children can easily say no to their parents and refuse to cooperate with them. At this time, we should know that children have a sense of striving for independence, so we must give them appropriate encouragement and at the same time let them increase their hands-on ability, such as learning simple cleaning and doing some housework as much as possible, so that they may become more independent.
Five-year-olds are disobedient. How should parents guide?
1. We should not simply and rudely ask children to carry out their parents' orders because their children are young, inexperienced and weak, but should respect their feelings, emotions and ideas, treat them equally, and coordinate the contradictions between parents and children by means of communication.
2. Let the children understand the truth through the events in their lives. If the child has some wrong practices in his life, he should be told in time that it is wrong to do so. For example, children always like to play and jump, especially in the house, which will affect the normal life of the residents downstairs. Adults should stop it in time. ?
3. Cultivate children's good habit of asking questions. Five-year-olds like to ask all kinds of questions. Parents should not avoid answering because of impatience, but try to tell their children what they know, so that they can ask more questions and learn more.
4. Try to provide conditions for children and do interesting and beneficial activities. When children are found to have certain interests, if these interests are beneficial, they can try their best to cultivate them. If the child's interest is harmful, parents should divert their attention and make the child's interest gradually disappear. Don't force children to do things they don't like.