1, using soft education method. That is to say, in the process of educating children, we should not educate children in a hard-hitting way, but educate children in a flexible way, listen to their opinions and listen to their thoughts more calmly, so as to educate children better.

2. Interactive communication education law. Insist on in-depth communication and high-quality companionship with children every day. Through communication with children, we can understand children's thoughts, make progress together with children, and promote children's learning development and improvement of academic performance. This is the most needed education method for 8-year-old children at this stage.

3. Example method. Children of the same age often like to compare with each other. Parents can use this function to change their naughty and disobedient children. You can compare your children's classmates or neighbors, take their advantages as your children's learning goals, encourage your children to learn from them, and tell them that you can do better, so that children are often diligent.

4. Encouragement method. Children in the second rebellious period are very eager to be affirmed by others, especially from their parents. Parents' affirmation is the best and most effective support for children, so parents should pay attention to it and give their children timely and positive praise and encouragement. Increase children's self-confidence and self-identity. At the same time, we should pay attention to avoid being lectured by others, start to pay attention to saving face for children, protect their self-esteem, and don't be outspoken.