Standing on the opposite side of the child, you can only see that the child is wrong and disobedient; Stand on the same side of the child, and you will see his fragility and struggle. All modern new parenting styles, including respecting children's feelings, controlling pets' emotions and empathizing with children, are based on "standing on the same side as children".

Read a friend's thoughts:

Sometimes we have to sigh, in fact, our own requirements for children are too high. Parents have been pushing up their children, so that the two sides are becoming more and more antagonistic. Actually, ta is just a child. Many things are not understood or can't be done well, which is actually the most normal phenomenon. We always hope that ta is as sensible and self-controlled as adults, but we are lazy.

Stand in a trench with your children as comrades-in-arms and struggle, so that your children can truly feel that their parents love them unconditionally and help them.

This parenting book is very attractive from the beginning. Ten parents are on the opposite side of their children's bad habits, that is, the simple relationship between police and robbers. After reading this book, I feel a little enlightened. I am more and more anxious about raising children, because I find it more and more difficult to educate them. I really hope I can be a qualified parent. In addition to giving children the most basic living conditions, I really hope that children will be mentally.