1 The biographical film Autism tells us the true story of the autistic process of American animal scientists, which reminds me of a sentence once said by writer Yang Shuo, "Everyone has a fire buried in his heart. As long as he is good at fiddling with it, it will burn brightly." For educators, how should we explore the fire buried deep in children's hearts? How to stir the fire of hope in children's hearts? This film shows us a way to respect, understand and appreciate every student.
In my opinion, those eight or nine-year-old children should be happy. In my education, there is such a special student. Her name is Li Jing, and she is a very clever little girl. Unlike other children, Li Jing doesn't want to go to school. Even if she was forced to stay in school, she was silent, hiding in the corner during recess, unwilling to talk in class, and her academic performance was not very good. Why is the sunshine age so cold? I drew a big question mark in my mind. So I contacted his parents, hoping to get an answer from them. Through understanding, I know that she was brought up by her grandmother, who has no education. On weekdays, she just eats her fill and seldom communicates with her children, let alone teaches them. It was almost the fourth grade before her parents took her to her side. Because her parents are very busy at work, she often stays at home alone and seldom communicates with her parents. In addition, the original feelings are very weak and the environment is unfamiliar, which leads to her withdrawn personality and sloppy behavior. At school, she always felt that her teachers and classmates were very cold to her, so her inferiority complex was serious. Many requirements can not be met, unwilling to associate with people, timid. After a long time, they become underachievers in the class.
The children in the class are very enthusiastic about the teacher and often revolve around him. I am also used to calling my children around after class and chatting with them. Li Jing was among them, but in the chatter of my classmates, I saw that she was always hesitant, so I often paid attention to her in the ten minutes between classes and asked her to teach me to play with those fresh toys. Ask her who bought this beautiful new dress. Test whether she has learned it; Tell her that the teacher wants to hear her point of view and that she has made progress these days! I shouldn't quarrel with my classmates today ... tell her that the teacher wants to hear her thoughts ... In this relaxed chat atmosphere, I seized the opportunity of education in time and naturally put forward some requirements for her. At the same time, she called her parents in time to praise her progress in school. After a semester, she is willing to take the initiative to chat with her classmates and occasionally hear her hearty laughter. ......
The change of Li Jing's classmates and the growth of the protagonist's autistic process in the film Autism have made me deeply realize that in educational practice, respect, appreciation and understanding can inspire children. Being appreciated and affirmed by others and realizing self-realization is a kind of advanced spiritual demand that people need to meet in their basic life. Psychological research also shows that the behavior after praise is more reasonable and effective than the behavior after training.
Han Fengzhen, an education expert, once said: "All children who are difficult to educate are children who have lost their self-esteem. Educators should do everything possible to protect children's most precious thing-self-esteem. " Every child has his own "bright spot", and every child is not destined to be an underachiever. Every child has a spark of hope in his heart. As long as we continue to encourage, support and guide children, like Dr. carlock, the mentor in the film, we will stir every fire with respect, understanding and support, care for every fire with appreciation, and care for every fire with the bottom line of "No Child Left Behind". I believe that every fire will burn brilliantly. ...
Self-reflection in the process of autism II. Open a door and break the chain.
Recently, we watched a movie called The History of Autism. The film didn't invite big-name movie stars, didn't have gorgeous special effects, and didn't even do much publicity before it was released. However, it is such a film that left a deep impression and reflection on me and also brought me enlightenment.
This film tells the story of Tambul, an American-born autistic, who is extremely sensitive to hugs and has weak social skills. So she was bullied and discriminated against since she was a child, and the only people who cared about her were her family and Dr. carlock. But even though Tambul had all these troubles, he still didn't give up his ideal. She tried to open a door and finally successfully designed a slaughterhouse facility with her outstanding insight. However, she still tried to go further. She has published hundreds of papers and given speeches in various regions, trying to help more people with autism.
In that special era, everyone knew nothing about mental illness, and it was really surprising that Tambour could develop to this extent. But think about it, how different are we from Temple? We don't have our own ideals, so we fight for them. There are countless people who laugh at and attack us, and most of us finally choose to give up. In fact, we are no different from Tambul, except that she has been walking very steadily and has not given up on herself because of the influence of others.
But if we really want to talk about why Tambour succeeded, then this is only one of the reasons. Temple was lucky because all the people who helped her were sincere in helping her. And her own mentality is also very important. She didn't regard those setbacks as setbacks, but regarded them as experiences before opening a door. It is also because of this that she can open the doors in front of her one by one.
Open a door and break the shackles. Only in this way can we succeed!
In the middle of the movie, the woman graduated and opened the first door. She successfully went to school and communicated independently, from being afraid of crowds and noise and hitting people when she was a child to constantly spinning to calm herself down. Later in the summer vacation, I went to my aunt's ranch to get in touch with cows, in a calm way. Later, I went to boarding school and made my own "hug machine" (that is, the way to appease cattle). The first time I was found smashed by the school. The second time, menstruation went to school and quarreled. Keep it. The hostess found a roommate who was in tune with herself, and also found a way to get along with society. She was an excellent graduate when she graduated. She gave a speech on the stage, which was obviously conditioned, and she was very sure of herself and knew herself well.
From internship to work,1970s America was still a man's society, blocked, laughed at and despised. The hostess still loves her career and is committed to the control system of the pasture. How to effectively let cattle die with dignity? On the way, she met a door, changed into a man's suit and volunteered herself. When she was about to explode, she drove all night to communicate with her life coach and her mother. However, her determination to change is greater than her fear. She came out and opened a door. Due to industry factors, her colleagues are all men, and everyone has made intensive negative doubts and contempt. The hostess patiently and professionally answered and revised again and again, so that she could get along with society and human beings more calmly. At the final national autism conference of the film, the hostess was radiant, picked up the microphone from the host and walked step by step to the last door.
Mistress and mother
Love and responsibility are probably not enough to describe mom's greatness. In the movie, the heroine didn't speak at the age of 4, and her reaction and personality were different from those of children of the same age. Her mother took her to see a doctor. Doctors diagnosed her as suffering from schizophrenia and autism because of lack of maternal love and companionship in infancy. Her mother has good knowledge and four years' experience in accompanying her children. She did not blindly believe the doctor's diagnosis, but at the same time paid more love and understanding. It turns out that the heroine is growing well. Communicating with the hostess is listening, understanding, enlightening, empathy, and being an angelic mother. Of course, because I was so scared, menstruation stayed with my mother. Proper letting go is better growth. It turns out that every mother will go through such a time. When the hostess hugged her mother for the first time, she cried. Ordinary hugs are sometimes so precious and rare.
Father's sister
Bolder than my mother, and she loves menstruation. In the summer vacation before college, the hostess spent it with her aunt. My aunt has her own ranch, where the hostess first came into contact with cows and found a new way to calm down. At first, I thought my aunt was a "bad guy". Later, I understood that my aunt's love is like peony, bright and warm, and my mother's love is like plum blossom, lasting and fragrant. My mother and I are good sisters, and I have also enlightened my mother to let the hostess go out of society.
Science teacher
A woman's first teacher is a beacon and a friend. Understanding the hostess and discovering her potential, encouraging her to go to school and develop herself, she also began to understand human society. A door is what the teacher said. A door opens a whole new world for you. All you have to do is make up your mind to finish it.
roommate
Angel's roommate is visually impaired. She is a very caring little angel, listening, understanding and identifying with the hostess. There are not many scenes, but they have a great influence on the hostess. They are her first friends and fans. The only person who can feel what happened and the major achievements of women.
hostess
Many times she relieves herself when she is nervous, or communicates with her mother and science teacher. The hostess is not afraid of change. From the moment she bravely opened a door, she knew that love was always greater than cowardice, and she was even more afraid that she could not do her own thing. Many things are still incomprehensible, but she still wants to make her life meaningful. I like the hostess very much. Break the south wall and never look back. I am brave and smart, persistent and delicate. I know that I have been different from others since I was a child, and I have been doing what I like to accept this setting and make what I like more valuable. That's great.
The film is exquisite and sincere, with moderate rhythm and profound story, which is worth remembering.
Reflection on the process of autism 4 Temple was not satisfied at the age when he should be hugged and touched, so he was autistic and afraid of being touched by others. She can't speak at the age of four, so others can't understand her way of looking at the world. What a poor child to others. When I watched Temple make a peace machine, I guessed that her mother should help her overcome her fears and blend in with the crowd. This is really the idea of ordinary people, and the movie is amazing. Temple was an autistic from beginning to end. She even did experiments and wrote papers to verify the rationality of the machine. This seems unreasonable. I can even imagine that if this film is filmed in China, it will be overcome by my mother under the banner of "You can't live by machines all your life, I am doing it for your own good". The film seems to have a taste of compromising one's shortcomings. Everyone's life has some imperfections, and some imperfections may accompany him all his life, so what attitude should we take to face them? The film tells us that if we can't change it, let him be there, see his own advantages, and then give full play to him as much as possible. Temple's thinking is different from ordinary people, which makes her succeed again in areas that ordinary people are not good at.
The film didn't blindly give in to its own fears, but turned this fear into an image-the door. When Temple bravely opened one door after another, a new world followed. Therefore, this is also an inspirational film. In the face of difficulties, sometimes you just need to be brave to get through it. When he dared not speak to strangers and insisted on speaking his mind, when she got up the courage to walk out of the automatic door like a guillotine, she was just a little braver than usual. So can we.
Temple doesn't know how to communicate with people, and he doesn't know how to read and read. Animals are simple, so she likes to deal with animals. Interestingly, her only friend of the same age is blind. Blind people certainly don't need to play tricks on her. When the lens is close-up on the cow's face, I feel inexplicably moved when I look at their eyes. They look very kind, maybe just because they don't talk, which makes me doubt the meaning of language. Of course, the language of human society is great, but does this actually increase misunderstanding? Temple's works are full of humanitarianism. She and Niu Niu spent a summer vacation at the menstrual home, which made her feel very happy. She saw a horse die in front of her. So she can understand her later work very well. Lying in the aisle, she simulated the feeling of a cow, and designed a corridor full of humanity according to her own characteristics of observing the world. Although the cows will be slaughtered, at least it will make the process look calm. She likes animals very much.
According to ordinary people's point of view, Temple is definitely different. Most ordinary people, such as her roommates, classmates and teachers, don't understand how to treat different people. Ordinary people have ordinary eyes, and the world they see is roughly the same. When someone raises a different opinion, they rise up and attack. This movie actually slapped ordinary people. We should think about whether we should know more about the ideas of different people, not to mention the famous saying that truth is often in the hands of a few people.
Temple gave a speech at the autism conference, one of which impressed me deeply: etiquette and rules are very important at home and at school. This sentence slapped ordinary people again. Ordinary people sometimes have a strange affinity for different people, especially those with mental problems: they just feel sick, so some irregular behaviors are normal. Of course, don't go into a dead end. I thought we talked about adapting to different people. These are two different questions. What we want to tolerate is different from ordinary people's thoughts, and what we want to adhere to is the basic rules of being a man. For example, a genius who is different from ordinary people loves to kill people, then we should not tolerate it.
Besides, what is more important than tolerance is love. Temple's mother loves her very much. There is not much in the film about how the mother taught Temple to speak and obey the basic rules, but this process is definitely rare in the world. As far as reality is concerned, not all autistic people can become great people, perhaps the most common autistic people, so love is obviously more important.
This is a very rich film. There are many people who are easy to be ordinary in this world. This movie should be just the beginning, and more attention should be paid to them.
Reflection on the process of autism 5 "Autism" is a very common mental illness in modern society, which is broadly defined as self-enclosed, lonely, not good at communicating with people and far from the normal social environment. In real life, the pace of our life is accelerating and the pressure of social survival is increasing day by day. Autism is no longer an abnormal phenomenon. Most people are suspicious, contemptuous and even exclusive of autistic people. If you don't understand it, jump to conclusions and classify it as a "mental patient"
In fact, autistic people hide a richer inner world in their deeper pain, which is beyond ordinary people's understanding. The biographical film Autism tells us the true story of American animal scientists' autism. She is also an autistic person, but through her own efforts and persistence, she has become one of the best experts in the design and construction of livestock handling equipment in the world today. The film leads us into this special crowd and feels their inner struggles and dreams.
The first half of the film summarizes Temple's life from the age of 4 to his graduation from college in a fragmented way. At the beginning of the film, Campr's self-introduction opens the film and her life.
Campr has been living in himself since he was 4 years old. She is afraid of being hugged, refuses to communicate with others, only pays attention to what she wants to see and hear, and is extremely sensitive to images.
People often say that when God closes a door, he will open another window for you. With the growth of age, Campr's genius in the field of science is undoubtedly revealed. Fortunately, it was at this time that he met carlock, an important mentor in his life. He saw Temple's talent and gave her great encouragement and support. In addition to academic teaching, Carew also told her that whenever she was afraid to try new things and worried, she would imagine a door or doors in front of her, and these doors were the doors to open a new world. As long as she bravely walks over, a whole new world will appear in front of her. It was this little encouragement that supported Campr to walk through high school, enter the university, and finally completed his university studies with excellent results.
Campr has a pure and kind heart. After seeing farm workers raising and slaughtering cattle in an unscientific way, she decided to design a most humanized and scientific cattle production line. In this process, she encountered many hardships and nails, but with her persistent efforts and practice, she succeeded.
Campr's autistic perspective has always been full of sadness, hesitation and helplessness. The film uses scenes of audio images to let silent emotions flow into our calm hearts, arouse ripples and resonate. We wept deeply for the protagonist's bumpy fate. The reality is so cruel. How should we face this complicated world? Campr, who entered the society, did not give in to his fears blindly, but turned them into images-doors. When Temple bravely opened one door after another, a new world followed. Campr not only made a breakthrough, but also made amazing achievements. In addition to talent, Campr has a strong adaptability and a valuable attitude of never giving up. It is this fearless spirit that makes us deeply moved, thinking of us ordinary people and our ordinary work, happy people with good physical and mental health; Happy us, children work happily every day. Are we happy without troubles and difficulties? Yes, and there are too many. How do we treat our life happily? Compared with Campr, we have too many complaints about life, work, society and children. ...
We all have different degrees of "autism". Because we are also very dependent on order and eager to live in a familiar environment, it is normal for us to be content with the status quo and follow the rules in the face of strangeness and change instinct.
At the end of the film, there is a speech, this time she is speaking at the National Autism Conference. She overcame her inner fears and enthusiastically told her experiences to people with autism.
Different from traditional inspirational movies, this movie tries to make people cry with various emotional scenes. It just tells you a real and respectable life with a sincere attitude.
This is a very rich film. There are many people who are easy to be ordinary in this world. This movie should be just the beginning. What we need to do is to give them more attention and care.
Reflection on the process of autism 6 Everyone is a little pearl, which has a flash moment. As long as the dust is brushed off, it will release its own light.
Tianbao is an ordinary girl's name, but she is destined to take an unusual road. At the age of four, she was diagnosed with autism, and the doctor said that she might never be able to speak. But mother Tianbao has a kind of persistence and persistence. She doesn't believe that Tianbao can't communicate with people from now on. She talked to Tianbao from morning till night, taught her to read, and finally she could speak.
She is very happy with animals during her menstrual summer vacation. At the same time, I also found that a machine that calms cows can also calm themselves down. So she made herself such a simple machine to calm herself down when she was stimulated. When he was insulted by a boy at school, Tianbao hit the boy with a book and was expelled from school.
In the process of transfer, she met an important teacher in her life-carlock. Teacher carlock not only tapped all the advantages of Tianbao, but also ignored her symptoms and showed Tianbao's achievements to the whole school. On the same day, Bao asked him what to do in college and said that he didn't want to go to school again. Teacher carlock told her: University is a door. Push it away and you will see a wider field of vision. Yes, all kinds of difficulties on the long road of life are like a door, which will yield success and joy after being pushed open.
There is another person, Tianbao's blind friend. When going out to watch TV, Tianbao is a pair of eyes of a blind girl. Tianbao plays this role with lively tone and vivid words. The blind friend gave Tianbao a precious friendship, and she carefully cared for Tianbao's heart. They supported each other and helped each other on the road. The appearance of these two people has added warmth to Tianbao's inner world which lacks love.
After watching this movie, I have deep feelings for three of them: First, Tianbao's mother, who taught Tianbao to communicate. Secondly, carlock, Tianbao's teacher, tapped Tianbao's potential and showed her new side to everyone. Third, Tianbao's blind friends don't blame Tianbao, which makes Tianbao soft-hearted.
Love is an incurable medicine, which saves people who are closed in their inner world, picks up the cross on their shoulders and reveals a cheerful side. Rainy days are umbrellas, and winter is fire. We live in a world without natural obstacles and should not discriminate against others. We should not alienate those "strangers". We should infect them with love, understand them, care about each other and help them open the door to success in their inner world.