After Bao Xiao was born, he also had the experience of taking care of children. At the same time, I also listened to many parenting classes and read many books on parenting, so I have a theoretical and practical foundation. Although Bao Xiao was 35 weeks premature, he took good care of him, much better than Dabao when he was a child. Of course, if you have a fever before the age of two, you will be given antipyretics according to the situation. After the temperature drops for an hour, you will change into dry clothes and sleep by yourself. Febrile drugs generally do not burn too high within four hours after meals. If there are virus infection and bacterial infection at the same time, it is generally difficult to get rid of it, or it will burn twice in less than four hours. If the blood test during the day determines the cause, when you have a fever at night, you will try to turn on the indoor air conditioner and adjust it to 26 degrees, so that your child can wear thin clothes and dissipate heat as easily as possible. At the same time, you will apply a cold towel on your forehead and try to make your child feel comfortable after taking antipyretics.
A child's fever is a process that often takes several days. As long as the children are in good spirits, parents need not worry too much. Drink plenty of water and have a light diet. Parents of children who will have convulsions and syncope need special attention. When they have a fever, they should try to make relevant written records and take corresponding measures according to the situation. Once the situation is not good, you should send it to the hospital in time without any mistakes.
Children are most afraid of fever when they are young. A relative of my husband had a fever when he was a child, but his parents didn't notice it and ignored it, which led to epilepsy. A few years ago, they came to Beijing Haidian Hospital for surgery. Fever is a common symptom in children. If not found in time, it may lead to other diseases.
Therefore, every time my child has a fever, I dare not sleep. I wander between waking and sleeping all night, occasionally take a nap and stick my body on my child, so that once the child has a fever, I can feel it at the first time. Sometimes when I fall asleep and suddenly wake up, I quickly touch the child's forehead and neck to see if there is a fever.
When I was young, my son had a fever for three days at a time. I have to take care of the child myself, not because my husband doesn't take care of it. I have been worried that he sleeps too fast. He doesn't know that the child has a fever. When children were young, they always slept beside me. I can wake him when he rolls over or moves, but my husband sometimes calls him several times before he wakes up.
So every time my child has a fever, I will get sick once, not seriously, but I am anxious to get angry and my throat hurts. Fortunately, both children are in good health and seldom get sick. If it is true that the child has a fever so often, it is really too painful. I understand how parents feel. When the child is older, his physique will get better. My boss is 9 years old, and he has very few fevers, twice a year at most. I trust my husband will take care of him. Take your time. When the children grow up, they will be relieved.
I feel that children are particularly prone to fever before they are four years old, and then they rarely have a fever.
Children have a fever when they are one to two years old, and parents are particularly anxious. The child's small expression is not clear. Especially at night, I'm so scared!
I am not a doctor. I rely on experience, what the doctor told me, what others said and what I saw on the Internet. First of all, it is to paste antipyretic stickers. Some people say that the antipyretic paste is useless, please rest assured! Furthermore, if the child has a low temperature below 39 degrees, I will wipe the neck, the inside of the arm and the inside of the thigh with warm water to physically cool down. Children generally don't sleep too hard when they are sick. Rub it more at night. Of course, if the temperature is above 39 degrees, you will usually go to the hospital and listen to the doctor.
However, children's antipyretics will always be at home. If the child's body temperature is too high, he should still take antipyretic drugs, and can't recite them hard.
When the child is older, three or four years old, the child will have a fever again, so he will not be so scared. Tension is inevitable!
We have a saying here called "burning for a long time", which means that the child's fever grows fast! Sometimes I comfort myself like this!
I think children need to exercise, exercise regularly, and their resistance will get better and better, so I will let them exercise in the future. I learned badminton before, but I didn't because of the venue. Later, I learned basketball, but after studying for one year, I was interrupted by the epidemic. This year, let children learn to swim and learn to save their lives at critical moments. These studies, once a week for one or two hours each time, are very tiring and exercise children.
It seems that only I am a broad-minded mother. My child is 9 years old. Since birth, she has never taken any medicine when she occasionally has a fever. It happened that she had a fever two days ago, and she will be fine in two days.
I think this may be based on family habits, because I never advocate taking medicine myself. I haven't taken any medicine for so many years. Occasionally a little cold. It only takes two days to drink more water, so I do the same for my daughter.
Of course, after becoming a mother, the child is still very nervous when he gets sick for the first time.
My child had a fever a few months ago, and then my husband and I got scared and went to the hospital. When we arrived at the hospital, we stood in line and the doctor examined us. Then we gave him some medicine and told him to go home and take medicine. But after he came back, the child couldn't take any medicine, so he didn't take any medicine. He will be fine in a couple of days.
So later, I simply didn't go to the hospital or take medicine. My child likes drinking boiled water since he was a child, so I will give him more water.
Even when he has a fever, that is, I am a little tired. When he complains at night, I always hug him and comfort her.
It's day and night. Let him sleep more and drink more water. Generally, he will be fine in two or three days.
I don't raise my child so carefully. I go to the park to play with soil and climb mountains, even if he will come into contact with soil and mud, his resistance and toughness are still quite strong.
Then he was especially able to drink water when he was a child. He drinks several bottles of boiled water every day. Now he is 9 years old, and the habit of drinking boiled water is still maintained, but the boiled water is delicious.
It feels like he hasn't had a cold or fever for a long time.
He is easy to take care of, very good, and I can take care of the children easily.
But he had a fever two days ago, which made me feel how my child felt when he was sick.
Is that he has been tossing and turning in bed. That night, I would pinch his back and head, then bring him water and coax him in various ways.
The child felt nothing when he was not ill or in trouble. His mother was the most tired when he was really ill.
Mother is very anxious, just think that the child is ill and should go to see it, that is, mother. Try not to appear so anxious in front of children, which will convey the feeling of anxiety to children. Even if you are anxious, you should keep it in your heart or tell your family. When facing the child, you should relax and believe that he will get better soon.
In this way, the child will feel his mother's feelings and will not make him anxious.
I hope all babies can be healthy.
I understand how my parents feel. The key to this problem is that our parents should know why their children always have a fever. Once we have a fever, how to deal with it correctly and when to see a doctor. Now let's help parents understand this knowledge, so that they will not be so anxious when they encounter similar situations in the future.
Parents who have had parenting experience will know that in fact, children rarely have a fever before half a year old. That's because of breastfeeding. There are many immune substances in breast milk. At the same time, the newborn baby also brought some immune substances from the mother. Therefore, the baby seldom gets sick and has a fever before half a year old.
With the depletion of breast milk and infants' autoimmune substances, there are few antibodies in infants and their immune systems are inexperienced. When you first come into contact with an antigen, it is often unrecognizable. When the antigen comes into contact again, it will naturally cause an inflammatory reaction, that is, fever.
Fever is the body's immune response. Therefore, pediatricians or experienced parents will understand that a child's appropriate fever is not necessarily a bad thing, because it can exercise the child's immune system and gain immune response and experience. This is why children are always sick and have a fever in infancy.
Fever can be divided into infectious and non-infectious types. Children's infection is caused by viruses, bacteria, fungi, mycoplasma, tuberculosis and other pathogenic microorganisms. Non-infectivity is caused by immunogenicity such as tumor and dehydration fever.
Of course, according to clinical research, viral infection is the most common cause of fever in children, accounting for more than 90% of infectious diseases in children.
Most viral infections in children are respiratory tract infections, such as upper respiratory tract infections caused by adenovirus, respiratory syncytial virus, EB virus, influenza virus and coxsackie virus.
As we have already introduced to parents, fever is only an immune response of the body, which gives us a hint that the child may have some kind of infection, and we need to control the infection in order to let the body temperature drop to normal.
Fever generally has a certain course of heat, such as acute rash in children, measles, typhoid fever, mycoplasma infection, tuberculosis, rheumatic fever, Kawasaki disease and so on. Even if you try to reduce your fever again, your body temperature will rise again and again after a while.
Therefore, reducing fever is not the purpose, but after finding out the cause of fever, if the infection is actively controlled, the body temperature can return to normal.
In fact, there is a saying that parents feel that their children have a fever, and our fever has made them feel relatively comfortable.
Because there are individual differences in body temperature regulation, some children still have to play and sleep when their body temperature is 38. And the younger you are, the less perfect your thermoregulatory center is. Therefore, we must correctly handle the child's fever:
1, the child has a fever. Find out the reason:
Because parents are inexperienced, children are more nervous when they have a fever. Therefore, for a baby with a fever, parents should first open the bedding, unbutton the clothes and check whether the child is covered with heat, because the child's body temperature regulation center is not perfect, the clothes are too tight or the quilt cover is too thick, and it is easy to have a fever. At this time, we will unbutton the heat and lower the body temperature in a short time.
If the child's fever is accompanied by poor mental state, such as cough, runny nose, or even shortness of breath, especially if the body temperature continues to rise 1-2 days, or it is repeatedly rewarming, parents should go to the hospital in time to find out the reason.
2. Physical cooling:
Physical cooling is the most important and effective treatment for children with fever. You can repeatedly wet compress lymph nodes and blood vessels such as neck, armpit and groin with warm towels.
You can also use warm water to take a bath, but you can't use alcohol to take a bath, in case of alcohol allergy and sudden drop in body temperature and shock.
3, the application of antipyretics when the body temperature continues to rise:
Parents should remember that the World Health Organization and National Medical Products Administration only recommend acetaminophen and ibuprofen as antipyretics based on the principle that children use antipyretics safely and effectively. In addition, other so-called antipyretics, such as Anemone and Bupleurum, have been banned, and children under 18 should use aspirin with caution. Unless Kawasaki disease requires a prescription, parents are not allowed to buy it for their children in pharmacies without authorization.
Acetaminophen is used for infants under 6 months, while ibuprofen is used for children over 6 months. According to the weight, they can be used interchangeably (for older children), but they cannot be mixed at the same time. Oral antipyretics should continue to cool down physically.
Parents' attention: generally, children with a temperature of 38.5 can consider using antipyretics, and babies should not give drugs at will. If you have no experience, you should take your baby to the hospital for examination.
1, strengthen dress management at ordinary times:
There is a saying: go out and watch the weather, that is to say, pay attention to the temperature changes, add and subtract clothes, and avoid catching a cold and having a fever. The so-called "freezing in spring and freezing in autumn" is to let children gradually adapt to the changes in temperature. At the same time, if the temperature difference between morning and evening or between day and night is within the range of 8- 15, you must dress early and take off your clothes at noon. Parents should touch the baby's back with their hands. As long as you don't sweat and keep warm, it means that the clothes are suitable.
2, pay attention to the law of life, wash your hands frequently:
Children must develop good living habits from an early age, have a reasonable diet and nutrition, pay attention to hygiene, change clothes frequently and wash their hands before meals. Early to bed and early to rise. Pay attention to window ventilation indoors to keep the indoor air fresh.
3, pay attention to exercise:
Children should not be flowers in the greenhouse, but should do appropriate exercise with the growth of age to improve their physical fitness and enhance their immunity. Especially sunbathing, running, playing ball games, sliding slides, etc.
4. Vaccination as planned:
Facts have proved that vaccines are the best protection for children. Vaccination can stimulate the body to produce or increase related antibodies to achieve the purpose of preventing pathogens, such as influenza vaccine, measles vaccine, hand-foot-mouth disease vaccine, rotavirus vaccine, Haemophilus influenzae vaccine, etc.
I will always remember my baby's first fever when he was 7 months old. Nobody wants me to hug her. Sleep in your hands at night and shoot while walking. I slept in my hand until 2 am, and my husband felt sorry for me. No sooner had I picked up the baby than I cried. That night, I held it for a whole night.
Every child's physique is different, so the situation as a mother is different. But for mom, some standing materials and knowledge are necessary.
1. There are antipyretics at home, such as Merrill Lynch. Pediatrics have the most children, and even if they go to the emergency department, they have to queue up. And simply waiting is definitely not the way. If you have a high fever all the time, something will definitely happen. Therefore, it is very important to reduce fever before treatment.
It is necessary to improve children's physique. Children's physique, in addition to congenital influence, but also acquired exercise. Often take children to exercise to improve their physical fitness. At the same time, let children eat more fruits and drink more water, and drink less drinks and junk food.
When the child is sick, there will be some symptoms. For example, I don't want to eat, for example, I become inactive. Parents should find these signs.
4. During the flu season, be sure to make preparations in advance, wear masks when going to crowded places, and adjust clothes in time when changing seasons.
Being a mother is really not easy. Mothers have worked hard
Anxious mothers and children have a fever, and the most painful thing is the mother. I don't know how many nights, frightened and anxious mothers care and take care of their sick and feverish children. Mother never sleeps, afraid of burning the child, staring at the child nervously, but can't sleep.
When night comes, the brave mother will not rest. She touched the child's head from time to time and took his temperature from time to time. Motherly love supports her spirit and keeps her awake. Maybe it was instinct. At this moment, there is infinite power to support yourself. Motherly love is like a mountain. Keep it up!
A weak mother Every time a child gets well, the mother falls down. I don't know if the tight string is broken or tired. It is said that women are weak and mothers are strong. In fact, her mother is just a weak woman.
As a mother, by instinct, I will take care of and protect my children at all costs. In fact, a family has not only a mother, but also a father. Mom should not always rush ahead and show weakness appropriately. It is better for marriage, family and parent-child relationship to let dad take care of the children with us. Two people take care of the children in shifts, which can take care of the children without exhausting themselves. May every child grow up healthily and happily!
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The child has a fever, and the most uncomfortable thing must be the mother. Mothers are also the most psychologically sensitive. Sometimes after a good night's sleep, she will subconsciously touch the child, which is really hot.
My boss is also prone to fever caused by upper respiratory tract infection before the middle shift in kindergarten. Every time I have a fever, it's not only the fatigue of adults, but also a great test of our relationship.
Every time he has a fever, my husband and I can't sleep well for several nights. Give him a towel to cool down physically, take his temperature for a while, give him water for a while, and two people take turns to take care of it. It is true that I was alone in the first half of the night.
The most impressive time happened when my husband was on a business trip. I was pregnant with Bauer and my boss burned it for five nights. I just had fun during the day, but it burned in the middle of the night, which really ruined me.
But through my boss's fever, I have accumulated some experience. Now the second child sometimes has a fever, and his heart is not so panicked.
I think,
1, mother must understand that no child is not sick. A fever is not terrible, nor will it burn your brain as the old man said. Moreover, once you have a fever, it should be normal to last for three or four days. Ma Bao should be psychologically prepared to fight a protracted war.
2. When you have a fever, be sure to let your child drink more water. Children sweat a lot when they have a fever. As long as there is enough water in his body, he won't have a seizure. Fruit juice, milk and porridge can all replenish water.
3. When you have a fever, you can give your child antipyretics, and then use a wet towel to help physically cool down. You can also rub your hands or feet for your child. As long as your hands or feet are warm, they won't burn, but they will burn when they are cold. You can also learn some massage knowledge and help your child push.
When you have a fever, your diet should be light and easy to digest. You can make some soft noodles and rice porridge to replenish energy.
As long as the child is in good spirits, he must worry too much, but once the child is depressed, he must go to the hospital in time.
Also, children always have a fever. Ma Bao must pay attention to summing up. What causes the child to have a fever every time? Is the food bad or cold? Is it too thick to wear? We should not only take good care of children, but also pay attention to finding ways to improve their resistance.
If the child's resistance is improved, he will not get sick all the time, and his mother will not have to worry about it all the time.
As a mother, I finally understand what the night sky is like at three in the morning.
As a mother, children are in fear day and night when they are sick.
I don't know what sustained me through those days and nights. In short, looking at the well-being of the children, I am happy in an instant.