First, there is no intention to lie. The very important reason is that the children of young children can't distinguish between imagination and reality, and want to describe some imaginary things in language.
Second, lying on purpose. Usually with obvious cheating purpose, it is easy to become a cheating behavior. Parents don't have to pay too much attention to children's unintentional lies, because this phenomenon will gradually disappear with the improvement of baby's understanding.
In the face of deliberate lying, we should take it seriously. First of all, parents should form a tolerant atmosphere in the family, don't be too demanding and blaming their children, and don't treat their children's faults with corporal punishment, and don't let their babies form fear. For children who intentionally lie, we should seriously investigate and analyze, expose lies with the truth, let children know that lying will be criticized, and prevent children from trying to lie from the beginning.
Debugging method: 1. Parents should give their babies a good demonstration.
2, careful guidance, let the baby understand that "honesty" is a noble quality. This is very important for the healthy growth of the baby.
3. Let the child change the bad behavior of lying from the heart.
4. Pay more attention to children's psychological needs and use less violence in family education.
Debugging method of baby stealing:
1. Talk to children from the perspective of understanding and analyze children's stealing behavior. For children stealing money, some are unintentional, some are unintentional, some are doing good deeds, and some are doing evil. . . . Parents should not generalize, and beat thieves whenever they see them. This will not only help the baby to correct his mistakes, but also form a rebellious mentality, which will lead to the misunderstanding of family education. Therefore, parents should talk to their babies more, find out the reasons, follow the trend and help them correct their mistakes.
2. Be a careful parent and care about children's psychological needs. Children's psychological and physical needs are constantly changing during their growth. Parents should always pay attention to their children. Children have needs and troubles, they will ask their parents for help, and they will not find their own way. Parents should set an example. Parents should not take other people's things casually. When children steal from others, parents should stop them in time. We can't let go
4. Usually limit some wishes of children. Many children's illegal behaviors are due to their parents' lack of discipline and restraint. Let the baby realize that there are many beautiful things in the world and no one can have them all. No matter how good other people's things are, they also belong to others. If you want to borrow them, you should say hello to others and get permission before taking them away.
5. Let children experience the psychological feeling of losing things through empathy.
6. Educate children to admit their mistakes. It is not terrible to tell a child that he has made a mistake. As long as he can get rid of it, he is a good boy. Children should be praised for their progress.
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