Gorky said: "Whoever doesn't love children, children don't love him. Only those who love children can educate them. " . Teacher's love is incomparable to any kind of love in the world, because it is an unrequited, selfless, extensive and unrelated love, which is extremely sacred and more important than profound knowledge. Being able to get the care of teachers is the minimum psychological need of every child. Teacher's love is a good moral edification and spiritual edification for children, and it is also a spur and encouragement, which has a great impetus to children's healthy growth and all-round progress. The target of preschool education is all children aged 3-7. They are young, like newly unearthed seedlings, and need the care and cultivation of "gardeners". At this time, teachers need to moisten them with love like spring rain and cultivate them with love like spring, which is the best way to carry out good moral education for children in the embryonic stage of personality and moral quality formation. From this perspective, moral education for young children should make them feel love, know how to love and learn to love at all times in their lives and activities. Therefore, I think children's moral education. Love is an eternal theme.
First, love is an emotional communication.
Sow with words, water with sweat, and moisten with painstaking efforts. Educational activities full of love for children seem to open a window for children, let them see a colorful new world, and let them feel the broad mind and lofty spiritual realm of teachers. As a preschool teacher, I love the post of preschool education. I love children with a passionate heart, get to know them, understand them, care about them, make friends with them sincerely, and let them feel the sincerity and dependence between teachers and students, so that education will succeed.
I remember that the children went to the middle class and gradually got their own good friends. In an outdoor activity, Xiao Tao came to me and asked, "Teacher Yang, do you have any good friends?" Who is your good friend? " I smiled and replied, "My good friend is you!" Suddenly Lili said loudly, "Teachers are teachers, but teachers are not friends. If she is a friend, why not swing and climb with us? " "Yes, why?" The children began to talk, and I didn't know what to do at the moment. At this moment, Zhang Xixi came to hold my hand and said, "Teacher, let's go rock climbing together!" " "Say that finish, threw me on the climbing platform, looking at the children's expectant eyes, I" bravely "grabbed the rock wall with my hand. Although it seems that my body and childish climbing the wall are so inappropriate, I feel very happy to see the children happy, because I am no longer the distant teacher in their hearts, I have become one of them and I am their trustworthy friend.
After that, I became closer to my children and their feelings with me deepened. So I often communicate with them as friends, guide them to get along with friends correctly, sprout their love feelings in emotional communication, and understand the friendship between friends. It also makes me feel that the power of love is so great. I left a string of solid footprints with love, and the children were less arrogant, suspicious, selfish and indifferent, and the class had a good atmosphere of unity, friendship and mutual help. Children help each other, teachers and students are talking and laughing. With the common concern of teachers and students, our class has become a paradise for study, life and growth. To my surprise, when I made them feel love, they also gave me sincere love in return. I remember I caught a cold, which was very serious. I went to give lessons to hoarse children, and it happened that I wore a new dress that day.
Just entering the classroom, the children gathered around and shouted, "Hello, teacher!" " I was about to open my mouth to calm them down when suddenly a voice shouted, "Stop arguing! The teacher lost his voice! The teacher is hoarse! "Suddenly the whole classroom was quiet, and the children sat straight in their seats and looked at me quietly. When I opened my mouth to let them read children's songs with me, a child raised his hand and suggested, "Teacher, let's learn to sing today!"! "! We can follow the tape by ourselves, so that your voice will get better faster. Mom says if you are hoarse, talk less! "What sensible children, I only know that they usually make me angry, but I don't know that they also know that they care about me! After class, the children insisted on stuffing peeled oranges into my mouth and said, "Teacher, eat!" " ! Eat your throat and you'll be fine! "At that moment, I found that children have learned to love others. Facing this golden love, I suddenly burst into tears. Isn't this what Gorky said: "whoever loves children will love them, and only those who love children will educate them." "Indeed, love is an emotional exchange. When you pass on your passionate love to your child, it will arouse the child's emotional return to you and be willing to accept everything you give.
Second, love is an action experience.
Education is the resonance of love and the echo of heart to heart. As teachers, we should sow love to every student and let them rekindle the fire of hope with love. When the child comes to me with a runny nose, I will personally wipe it with a paper towel; When the child leaves his parents in tears, I will hug him like a mother and give him warmth and comfort ... I express my love with my actions, a casual touch and an encouraging look, so that the child can feel that the teacher cares about him, likes him, trusts him and cares about him.
Small class children have just entered the park, and crying is common. I was also moved when I watched them crying for their mother. At this time, I will go over and pick them up, touch their heads and kiss their little faces, so that they can feel the warmth of their mother ... Taking a nap is a "horrible" thing for some children, such as Zhao Junqi in our class. During the nap, all the children lay down, except Zhao Junqi, who sat quietly by the bed with tears in his eyes. I went over and asked, "Baby, what's wrong with you? Are you uncomfortable? " She didn't speak, but shed more tears. I touched her head. It's okay. So I patiently said to her, "Dear, do you miss your mother?" In kindergarten, the teacher is the mother. Let me be your mother and watch you sleep, okay? "Zhao Junqi looked up at me and said in a small voice," I miss my mother. When I sleep, I hug my mother's arm. I want my mother ... "After wiping my tears and coaxing her to lie down, I said in her ear," The teacher is Qiqi's mother. Did you sleep well holding my arm? "Watching her hug my arm and fall asleep sweetly, I feel the happiness of being a teacher ... In the later days, every time I take a nap, Zhao Junqi always hugs my arm and goes to sleep slowly. One day, Zhao Junqi ran up to me happily and said loudly, "Teachers are like mothers, and teachers are mothers. "This is the excitement of the whole class, mom, mom kept calling, and I was very pleased to hear the sweet cries of the children and tears flowed out.
At this time, teachers should not only love children with actions, but also influence children with action examples. Because children of this age know and perceive the world through imitation and know the world through their own actions. The teacher is a role model for children, and her words and deeds are the objects that children imitate. As someone said, "A child is a mirror, whose mirror is it? It is the mirror of each of our teachers. " In fact, our usual words and deeds have subtly influenced children. So when you are angry and want to get angry, when your words and deeds are not teachers, please think about it, there is a small mirror looking at you! "So, I attach great importance to the role of role models in front of children. For example, when children come to the garden in the morning, I will take the initiative to stand at the door of the class and say "Good morning, children". When they leave, I always say "goodbye, children". Every time I want to sit down in the classroom, I will gently move the stool over and sit down. At this time, I will ask myself to sit and stand. When the children help me with my things, I always say "thank you!" "I do it myself, and I ask the children to do the same. For a long time, children have been influenced by teachers' long-term behavior and gradually developed good conduct.
In addition to setting an example for myself, in the process of education, I also look for examples among children. Who loves labor? Sanitation? Who was punished? Who talks about civilization? Who is a civilized eater, not picky about food, etc ... I have always paid attention to it and praised and affirmed it. At the weekly selection meeting, I will guide the children to discover the advantages and progress of each child, and make comments, which will be sorted out by the teacher, and finally displayed in the honor column with the children's photos, such as: the quilt is folded, not picky about food, polite and friendly to the children ... At the same time, I will also put forward new requirements for the children on the list. In this environment, children are willing to actively show their advantages and take the initiative to correct their shortcomings. Children's habits are naturally good.
In the process of children's learning, I also don't forget to integrate love into learning at all times. I turn tedious management into understanding and trust for children. Turn excessive control into more communication and dialogue. Distribute all over-concentrated education and teaching to children and use their senses to perceive everything in the world. Remember, in a theme activity of "Animals for Winter", children have many questions. How do small animals spend winter? Will they be cold? What do small animals eat? With questions, we collect information separately, enrich knowledge and perceive this mysterious world, which also makes children love animals more.
Third, love is a kind of understanding and respect.
As a kindergarten teacher, I need more love with understanding and respect. This kind of love should be able to love every child in my heart. Love is so warm and selfless. When children make mistakes, they can be given another chance, and when they make achievements, they can be applauded; When a child is in trouble, he is also the best helper, best partner and most sincere friend in the game. Teachers are the best appreciators when children express themselves boldly. A sweet smile, an encouraging look, a sincere compliment, a friendly attitude and a full love ... Teachers should deeply infect every child's heart with this sincere love.
In real life, everything parents do for their children is often for the purpose of "being good for their children", but because they don't take into account their needs and ideas, they backfire and are opposed by their children, which leads to tension. We should trust and encourage young children, let them do their own things, and let them help others do something at the same time. The "student on duty" system formulated by our class is designed for this purpose, that is, two children are arranged every day to maintain class discipline and take charge of simple affairs of the class, such as distributing bowls and spoons ... every child has the opportunity to do it, so every child has got different exercises and development in this activity, not only learning to do some simple things, but also learning to love the collective and labor, and enhancing the management ability and independence of children. Therefore, adults should see that although children are young, they also have their own thinking and have the ability to do everything well. Forcibly arranging substitutes will make children lose the initiative to choose and give them no chance to think independently. Over time, children will depend on adults everywhere, or have rebellious psychology, which is very unfavorable to their healthy psychology and thinking ability. Adults should attach importance to children's ideas and don't evaluate children with adults' eyes.
Accordingly, children's life world is also a completely different life world from that of adults. Here, children don't look at things according to fixed eyes or so-called scientific and objective standards, and don't analyze whether things are reasonable according to customary conventions or theories, but express whether they are cute according to their own feelings and needs. They often look at things with this kind of imagination or impromptu and strange ideas, so what they see is not fixed, but given changes. What impressed me deeply was that when I was a teacher, I didn't have much rich teaching experience at that time, but I just had a heart that loved this profession and children. I was an intern in a large class at that time, and I was a little nervous and curious. At first, I was helpless in the face of naughty children who didn't like listening in class and sleeping at noon.
For these reasons, I consulted a lot of materials and learned from the old teachers. Slowly, I discovered the child's psychological desire and understood that only meeting the child's needs is the premise of teacher-student communication. Once, when the children were painting, I found that the morning of our class drew a beautiful picture, but the sea water he painted was red. Although I have seen similar examples in books before, I still can't help asking him, "Good morning, your painting is beautiful, but why is your sea red?" Seeing that I didn't mean to blame him, Chen Chen boldly said, "Teacher Yang, it's evening. The sun shines in the sea and the sea is red. "
Oh, I see ... I smiled and nodded. Afterwards, I thought, if I hadn't asked the reason of the matter clearly and forced him to correct it immediately by reprimanding him, then I wouldn't have found the opportunity to communicate with him and I wouldn't know his real thoughts. Therefore, teachers should fully realize that children are developing people, and every child has the possibility and potential for development. Teachers should put down the shelf of "dignity as a teacher" and regard themselves as a listener, a friend, not a dignified judge, and have an open communication with children without spiritual distance.
As Xia Gaizun, a modern educator in China, said, "Education has no emotion or love, just like a pond without water. Without water, it can't be a pond. Without emotion and love, there can't be education. " This should be the consensus of all our teachers. May all teachers be filled with true love and offer different love to different children. Let's plant the seeds of true love in children's hearts, believing that it can take root and sprout and bear gratifying fruits.