The more willing parents are, the better their children will be.

1. Be patient

Willing to encourage

Willing to use children

Useful children are spoiled and useless children are spoiled.

Spoiled children are pets, spoiled children are personalities.

Always doing things for children, children will feel worthless.

4. Willing to invest in yourself

Investing in your own time, investing in your own brain, and investing in yourself are the most secure.

5. Be willing to tell your love for your children.

The purpose of shutting up is not to stop you from talking, but to say something useful, something that children like to hear, with energy and realm, so that children can feel it.

6. Willing to spend time with you

At different stages, the way of companionship is different.

Accompanying is to grow up with children and improve themselves together, not to supervise them as a supervisor. Companionship is spiritual, not physical.

7. Willing to let go of your children

All love is for the purpose of gathering, and only parents love their children for the purpose of separation.

Parents are less involved in what children can do independently.

How to grow up with children

1. Any effective communication with children requires parents to be fully prepared;

1. Preparation above the content;

What do you want to say and express through this chat? The less words, the higher the gold content. Better talk less and listen more.

Communicate with your heart first and express your heart with your mouth.

2. Preparation in manner and attitude;

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Empathy is a connection with children's hearts.

3. Pay attention to the time and place when communicating;

Don't talk too much to your children before eating, your digestion will not be good, your communication style will be wrong, or you won't even eat, just throw chopsticks and leave.

Don't communicate before going to bed.

When criticizing him, the fewer people the better. When encouraging him, the more the better.

Second, educational guidance should be leveraged by many parties.

1. Positive books and movies

Go to nature

3. Borrow school teachers, excellent friends and high-quality resources.

Wise parents go their own way and their own fields.

Stupid parents follow their children's path, leaving them nowhere to go.

In the process of children's growth, parents should always pay attention to themselves

Third, use your behavior to infect children.

What kind of family style will have what kind of children.

Well-behaved love, proper love and meticulous company.

Parental upbringing is the upbringing of children.

Fourth, make yourself happy.

Pass on happiness to children.

Parents' anxiety is a vicious circle of education. Education cannot solve the problem at all. It will make children form a vicious circle, keep circulating and never get out.

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Suggestions for relieving mother's anxiety:

1. Don't disturb him unless the child invites you.

What disturbs him is your behavior, which actually disturbs the child's thinking.

Parents should improve their educational methods and upgrade themselves.

Try to take a step back in your child's life and give him some space.

Give the child space to think, space to be alone, and let her grow up by herself.

Parents need to rest assured and really need to have a down-to-earth heart.

Accepting our own imperfections and accepting our children's imperfections is what we have to do all our lives.

Perfect parents can't raise a complete child.

In the process of getting along with children, learn to adjust your emotions and don't get caught up in them.

A bad mood is a heartless knife.

Growing up with children, please ask parents to follow the rhythm of children, not children to follow the rhythm of parents.

Walking slowly will give you time to enjoy the surrounding scenery.

Summary:

Always pay attention to your own growth and grow up with your children. Parents who give up self-growth are easy to pass on their life expectations to their children, so they will have control over their children. People who care about their growth will improve themselves and share what they know with their children.

Growing up with children is a lifelong topic for parents and something we have to do all our lives. No matter what our job is, we should leave some time for our children. Any career success can't make up for the failure in education and the shortcomings brought to children. No matter how much you care about yourself, you can't teach your children how busy we are. What a child needs is spiritual satisfaction, and her parents give her more love and more time.