1. First of all, don't blame the children too much, especially don't pass the teacher's complaints directly to the children. The reason why children hit people may be different from what we adults speculate. If you blame her blindly, it may make him feel wronged, not understood, and close the communication channels with his parents. In this way, parents can't understand the real reason for their children's mistakes. Remind parents that your guess is not necessarily what the child really thinks. In addition, too much blame will make children hostile to school, produce weariness, and may also leave a shadow in their hearts.

2. Secondly, we should talk to our children calmly and understand their real thoughts. Reflect on the influence of family love on children during their growth. Finding the reason is the beginning of solving the problem. One possibility is that in the process of doting on their children, parents have developed an interactive mode. When children hit their parents, parents will not fight back. Gradually, children develop a habit and naturally extend this habit to other people's communication. She may not realize that the nature of hitting her classmates would be so serious.

Thirdly, parents should reflect, which is the lack of children's awareness of rules. Perhaps in the previous family education, children were not clearly told what was allowed and what was not allowed, and there was no firm punishment for violations of the rules. As a result, children's awareness of rules has not been established.

Finally, in the specific operation, parents must hold the following guiding ideology: this mistake is caused by the unfavorable education of parents, parents are willing to bear the consequences with their children, and parents and daughters should change together to help their children make progress.

5. Solve the school problems first. Tell the children that the school's rule is not to hit people and observe discipline. If you want to go to school, you must abide by school discipline; If you can't obey it, you can't go to school. This matter is not for my parents to decide. what do you think? The child may choose not to go to school, or just play hard to get and let her stay at home for a few days. She is tired of playing alone in a few days, or you can use some wisdom to make her want to go to school. When he wants to leave, you tell her to observe discipline. When the child can really persist for a day or two without making mistakes, praise him in time. For a person who has no sense of rules, sudden self-discipline is really hard to bear. It is necessary to establish a rule compliance mechanism, a reward mechanism and a punishment mechanism in batches at home as planned, and children can be involved in making rules. In order for children to integrate into society in the future, I think you, as a parent, will follow your example and help children form good habits. Remember that you can't do it overnight, you must persevere.