Parents are role models for children, and children are parents' mirrors. Parents' words and deeds have an influence on their children.
If parents don't perfunctory, don't break their promises, they will certainly fulfill their promises to their children. Then children will learn from adults and become people with language and faith.
Therefore, parents should act strictly and set an example by their correct words and deeds everywhere. If children give up their efforts because of some setbacks, parents can use their own experiences to encourage them appropriately, help them find problems, correct shortcomings and accelerate their growth.
After parents learn from their own role models and strive to be their children's role models, it will be much easier for children to become excellent people after their parents follow their inclinations. (You know).
Six ingenious ways to educate children are being done by high-class parents.
2 square meters: quell anger in conflict.
The probability of conflict between parents and children in the world is 100%!
In other words, parents and children are bound to conflict! If there is a contradiction between the two sides, the parents' anger will rise and the children's feelings will be more excited. Even on impulse, I broke my mobile phone and ran away from home, which destroyed my parents' love. In the end, it will only deepen the contradiction and affect the parent-child relationship.
In order to avoid conflicts with children, parents should calm their anger, take a deep breath for a minute, drive away the opposite sex caused by bad feelings, and resolve conflicts with children with a peaceful mind.
If you can't control your temper, you will definitely think that the object of anger is your own child. Please leave your child three minutes of calm and seven minutes of love!
Therefore, when there are contradictions at ordinary times, you must remember to restrain your anger with wreaths and talk to your children well.
3 Listening system: master the child's feelings
Even the youngest child has his own ideas, and parents must take the time to listen to their children's ideas.
When children want to communicate their ideas with their parents, parents must put down what they are doing, listen to the children patiently and try to feel what they want to express.
For example, if a child suddenly tells you that he wants to see a movie, it may be that the child wants to have a common topic with his classmates. The child said that he wanted to learn to dance. Maybe children think the dancer's posture is elegant.
The child said he wanted to go to a math cram school. I'm afraid he can't keep up with his math scores.