Japanese women will not bring their children to the elderly even if they are tired. This is because they are influenced by traditional ideas. They feel it their duty to take care of the children. Moreover, the Japanese family structure has changed a little compared with China. They are still more traditional, that is, after marriage, they are in a state where men earn money to support their families and women are beautiful.

In Japan's middle-class families, most families are in the state that men go out to work to meet the basic income needs of the family, and then women do housework, take care of children and take care of the elderly at home. They have done a really good job in this regard. As long as there is no problem with men's financial situation, families will generally be more harmonious, and women will really handle the things they need at home in order, and then it is natural for them to take care of their children, unless they are in some low-income families.

Taking care of the children for the elderly can only be said to be a last resort. In fact, in our country, it is also recommended not to bring all children to the elderly, because without their parents, the growth of children is problematic for the older generation, and their thoughts are different from those of the mainstream society now. The children they educate may not conform to the society in some living habits, although parents still say that it is better to take care of their children by themselves if allowed, because it is beneficial to the emotional communication between parents and children.

The way of educating children in Japan is really special, because they exercise their independence from an early age, let them do some housework simply, and then simply do some part-time jobs when they are old, or parents at home will reach a certain agreement with their children and give you some pocket money after finishing some housework. This way of cultivating children's independence is really worth learning.