In short, children are a critical period for intellectual development, sound personality and sex education. In early childhood education, it is mainly to guide children to think correctly and cultivate a good learning mentality to cope with the difficulties and setbacks encountered in future study and work. Therefore, early childhood education is a lifelong event that determines the fate and happiness of life.
In life, boys' parents often have a lot of helplessness-
Teach him to be brave, but he always follows Nuo Nuo's lead;
Teach him to be strong, and he often gives up easily;
Teach him to be decisive, but he still drags his feet;
Traditionally, people in China always ask their children to be quiet and always try to restrain their behavior. In fact, parents should understand that it is a boy's nature to be active and adventurous. They need vast space and freedom of movement. They rely on exercise and climbing to burn testosterone in their bodies and promote the healthy development of their brains. Therefore, when your precious son abuses toys or "repairs" small household appliances at home, please don't restrain him, but try to protect his safety, don't interfere with him and trust his ability.
A wise mother treats her son's risky behavior like this:
The 6-year-old tiger suddenly became interested in inductance. One day, he actually took a small wire to try the socket of the wiring board to see if there was electricity. Of course, this terrible behavior was discovered by my mother in time. However, the clever mother didn't order her son to stop immediately, but quickly walked over to the child and said to him, "Baby, what are you playing?" Come on, mom, find something for you. It's much more fun than Suu. "Say that finish, the mother took the child to another room and found a pencil.
When the child touches the socket of the wiring board with the test pencil, the light of the test pencil immediately lights up, and when the test pencil leaves the socket, the light goes out again. Looking at this strange phenomenon, the child clapped his hands and jumped and shouted, "Mom, fun, fun!" " "
At this time, the mother said to her son seriously, "Son, this little toy in your hand is called a test pen. It is used to check whether there is electricity in the wires and wiring boards. " In fact, it is not a toy, but a tool that people use to prevent electric shock. Do you know why mom won't let you play this game with Suu? "
The child shook his head thoughtfully.
"Because electricity is terrible, it will be transmitted to people's bodies through tiny wires, which will make people feel very painful and sometimes even get an electric shock."
"Then why didn't you electrocute someone with a pencil?" The child asked with his little head cocked.
"Son, that's a good question. Mom asks you, what material is the outer skin of the wire made of? "
"plastic."
"Yes, plastic can encase electricity, so the electricity in the wire will not run out. Look at this pencil. Isn't this end in your hand plastic? Therefore, it will not make people get an electric shock! "
After listening to his mother's detailed explanation, the child said to his mother with satisfaction, "Mom, I see, thank you."
Perhaps, in this case, the general practice of parents is to order their children to stop and then tell them about the horror of electricity. But the parent didn't do this because she understood the boy's psychology.
Growing children are often very curious, especially boys have a strong sense of adventure. Although his "electricity test" failed this time, he will try his adventure again while his parents are not paying attention, and the result will often be more terrible. The parents in the above example not only satisfied their children's curiosity, but also let them know the horror of electricity by doing experiments themselves. In this way, children will not only test electricity with wires, but also be cautious about electricity under any circumstances.
Treat the boy's stubbornness correctly
A 3-year-old boy has always wanted to climb a tall fairy tale castle. He is too young, and his mother told him that you can't play this game yet. But the boy didn't seem to hear it, so he pretended that his mother wouldn't let him play and he wouldn't go home.
In fact, the more unrealistic things are, the more boys want to try, which is exactly what testosterone in their bodies is doing. From infancy, boys don't accept setbacks like girls, and they don't like to accept help from others. Usually, he clearly knows that he can't do it, but he can't accept it quickly emotionally. He has to keep trying. At this time, parents should give him enough time to adjust his mentality.
The mother in the example does this:
Mother saw the child's attitude of not giving up until she reached her goal, so she sat in a chair under the castle with her child. After a while, a 7-year-old girl was tired of playing and came to rest in this chair where the little boy was sitting. When the little boy's mother told the little girl that the little boy also wanted to play in the castle, the little girl immediately said to the little boy, "No, you are too young. The game above is a bit dangerous. My mother didn't let me play when I was a child. " Also, almost all children like me will not play with you. "Say that finish, the little girl ran to play again. The little boy seemed to believe the little girl and asked his mother to take him home.
In the process of children accepting the fact that they can't go to the castle, the mother didn't say much, but with the help of other children, she said what she wanted to say. This will make it easier and faster for children to accept this fact. Therefore, when children stubbornly insist on one thing, parents may wish to say what you want to say through their peers.
Teach boys to learn self-discipline
As soon as the neighbor's little sister entered the room, Xiaogang waved his "golden hoop" and hit it. Although it didn't hurt her, it startled her and Xiaogang smiled. After my little sister left, my father gave Xiao Gang a good lesson for his impolite behavior.
In fact, boys are very aggressive, and their aggressive psychology is sometimes because of fun and sometimes because of anger. No matter what the reason, when a child has a tendency to attack unreasonably, parents should let the child know that this behavior is incorrect in time. Parents can tell their children what is right by letting them watch some good TV programs and telling them some good stories.
In addition, parents can raise these TV dramas and stories to the height of values and morality, cultivate children's correct values and morality, and let children use these norms to restrain their behavior.