Every child always has his own unique side, some are taciturn, some are eloquent, some are kind, some are overbearing, some are clumsy and some are clever. This is everyone's character. I think the essential characteristics of children are the same, and the reason why they have personality is that everyone's appearance characteristics are different. Therefore, the child's playfulness and activeness are only the display of his uniqueness. Because children are influenced by environment, family and heredity, it is difficult to change their personality. "A leopard cannot change his spots, but a leopard cannot change his spots." We should comply with them, respect them, treat their behavior differently, treat them in no other way, tolerate children's extreme behavior, be kind to children's differences, let naughty children feel the sincere treatment of teachers, and thus create an equal, harmonious and happy atmosphere for teacher-student communication. Naughty children, under the active guidance of teachers, will raise the positive requirements to a new height and strive to be a good boy who is liked and capable.
Tigers are aggressive by nature and energetic from morning till night every day. He is either wrestling with this or that, and is always involved in noisy and competitive projects. Gradually, he got into a lot of trouble, and his parents kept getting even with him, and his children didn't want to play with him. However, the child doesn't play with him, but he finds someone to fight, which makes me particularly anxious and anxious. When I heard one voice after another complaining about him and saw his masterpiece with high morale again and again, I was really anxious and angry, and I really wanted to knock him down with one punch. But I try to restrain myself from being so impulsive, because I know that this will not only be useless, but will intensify and lead to more extreme behavior. Every time, I always talk to him patiently and gently and tell him some truth. Although it doesn't have much effect, he can always restrain himself from obeying the rules and find something to do for himself for a period of time. So I took the opportunity to praise Xiaohu without exaggeration in front of the children, and let him feel the teacher's attention and respect for him. At the same time, whenever I have time, I talk to him about TV, comics, books, his happy things and so on, which gradually narrows the distance between me and him. He was a little hostile to my eyes at first, and then he gradually changed from distrust to trust. From my passive speech to his active speech, my kindness made him believe me. Once, he said to me, "xu teacher, that's very kind of you. I was once punished by my teacher for hitting people. Why don't you punish me? " I smiled: "I know you didn't mean to hit people, but you can't help yourself." You like to touch your hands and hit people if you don't pay attention. If only you could pay attention to controlling your behavior in the future! " He smiled. I know that my active guidance has produced results. Since then, his behavior has been restrained. Sometimes when I hit someone, I greet them and glance at me. I always look back at him with tolerant eyes. I think he can realize that his behavior is wrong, which shows that he has self-control. This is progress. Although he will still fight in the future, I have no fuss, but I still give priority to tolerance and have a good heart-to-heart talk with him. I think it is a child's nature to be active. As long as he is on the normal track, we should respect them, be kind to them and conform to their development.
Appreciate and discover
Naughty children are active, competitive and curious. They are good at expressing themselves and can find their own shadow in front of teachers from morning till night. As soon as you take out the picture in teaching activities, he will be the first to rush to the front to see what happened; As soon as the teacher explained the operation requirements, he couldn't wait to open the operation box. During the competition, he was the overlord. He dominates the boys around him, telling them to do this and that. The whole area only heard his roar. You can be more arrogant after class. Running around, you have to compare with this and that. Whoever has a new toy will definitely get it later. Such a child is full of energy, and if the teacher follows him all day to deal with this, it is really exhausted. So I changed the way to wait and see. I endured the resentment in my heart and patiently observed their behavior. The observation results made me deeply realize that people should really be flexible and changeable, and they should not stick to the rules and find no other way along the way. Maybe there will be something embarrassing, comforting and exciting! I kept looking at them, no, I looked at them and envied my naughty boy.
Look! Children are quietly playing with building blocks, and Weiwei is also playing. He first looked at the building blocks in his hand, then began to leave his seat and look around. When he found a toy that suited him, he quickly picked it up and put it in his hand when the child was not looking. He ran twice in a row. He took his suitable toys from seven or eight children and was very agile. Then he went back to his seat and assembled it at once. Soon, a crane and a tank appeared in front of him, and he cracked. Wei Wei's purpose of playing with building blocks, the strategy of holding toys and the skills of assembling toys are far higher than those of children who follow the rules! Look again, when you are free, the corner of the classroom is crowded with boys. What are they doing making so much noise? I quietly walked over and saw that the naughty king and the snot king were playing chess, and other children were cheering. Let me have a closer look. The chessboard is drawn by oneself, one by one like walking a maze, and the chess pieces are watercolor pen sets. Two people guess whether to win or lose. I asked who invented this, and the two kings immediately stood up: "It's me! It's me! " The children next to them said, "Jun Jun didn't lend them chess, they made it themselves." The cleverness of naughty children is impressive, and their boldness and innovation are naturally shown when they meet their own needs.
Indeed, from another angle and in another way, you will go out of extremes, be at a loss, and have a bright future. Looking at naughty children with appreciation, you will find that there are many bright spots in them, which make you not appreciate enough and admire enough, so you have to re-examine these naughty children, measure them, face up to their advantages and disadvantages with a positive attitude, carry forward their strengths and let them develop healthily and lively.
Encourage and guide
Naughty children are nothing more than fidgeting, fidgeting, and fighting with others like a fighting cock every day. They are competitive and indomitable. Our teachers should pay attention to this point, make rational use of this competitive psychology, guide them to build confidence in their learning activities, and thus promote their learning.
Song Song, the king of games, is addicted to toy games all day and plays toy fighting games with people whenever he has time. He has his own way of playing and often wins. But he has no patience for quiet activities, such as painting and writing. He just drew a few strokes and then made a hasty decision. Once, the theme of painting was "magic seven-color flowers". I saw him draw a few strokes quickly and want to stay. I immediately went to have a look and pretended to be surprised: "Ah! The loose seven-color flowers are amazing. What wish have you realized? " He picked up the picture and said, "This red flower is for my mother to make her more beautiful. I want to give this blue flower to grandpa to make him better. " This-"I said," your wish is really good, really beautiful. Can you draw more clearly so that others can understand your painting? The teacher believes that Songsong can do it, because you are the winner, right? "Song Song hesitated at first, but when he heard the winner, he immediately cheered up:" I can draw, just wait and see! " "Then I buried myself in painting for a long time. Through this experience, I have confidence in liberal education. After that, I often use words like "champion" and "final victory" to motivate Songsong to be competitive in other aspects, give him more guidance in his weak links, and give him the confidence to beat himself and others. Unconsciously, the relaxed image has changed a lot in front of everyone, and the children are happy to join him, listen to his interesting things and play some interesting games. He is relaxed and looks like an organizer. Parents were very satisfied with our education and wrote letters of commendation to the principal's office. Our work has been affirmed.
Naughty children are no exception, they are members of the group. We should treat every child objectively and fairly. In the process of educating such children, we should adopt a positive and patient attitude, observe carefully, adopt different methods and measures according to their different personalities, and strive to discover their strengths and tap their potential, so as to inspire them, inspire them and enhance their confidence in winning. Try to control your bad behavior, change your image, make progress in all aspects, and be a naughty but likable smart and capable child.