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Brother Feng said that education is a compliment to children.
? Feng Yu Ge Wen Yuan Parent-child Thematic Writing Series

? 0 1 God sent you to us, and happiness is with you.

Milla is pregnant and excited with her husband Xu Feng for a long time.

"Son, you are the most precious gift God has given us!" Milla folded his hands.

"Ah ha ha ha! I'm going to be a father! " Xu feng was so excited that he choked on the saliva.

"Son, your arrival is our luck!" Milla's eyes are moist.

"God gave you to us, and happiness and you came to our hearts at the same time!" Xu feng chimed in.

For parents, children are given by heaven. The arrival of the child is happy.

02? New parents, a little flustered.

Nine months later, the child was born. Listening to the baby's crying and watching the child, Milla's heart melted into a ball.

"Wife, you have worked hard!" Feng Hsu saw Milla with a full face of sweat and said lovingly.

"Husband, look how cute this child is!" Milla looked at the child with tender eyes.

When Xu Feng saw the soft and waxy child, his heart was like spring in March, and the whole sky was clear.

? "Wife, take a rest and recover." Feng Hsu tucked in the corner of the quilt.

Watching his wife fall asleep, the child still has his eyes open and his little hand is pulling his wife's skirt.

Xu feng stretched out his hand several times to hug the baby, but he was afraid to hug it. He was so small and soft that he was afraid that he would be clumsy and hurt his child, and the father and son looked at each other.

As a new father, Xu Feng was a little flustered with excitement.

The baby's mouth shriveled and began to cry. Milla woke up as soon as the child cried.

"Wife, the child is crying ..." Xu Fengzheng is scrambling to know what to do. Seeing Milla wake up is like seeing a savior.

"Husband, help me hold the baby." Milla is in pain all over, so she needs to recover slowly.

? Feng Hsu gently held the baby to Milla, and Milla told Feng Hsu to turn around and nurse the baby herself. The child refused to eat and burst into tears.

Hearing the child crying, Milla panicked and got out of bed on airs.

"Wife, you lie down, I'll hold it, I'll coax it." Xu hurriedly said.

When Milla was pregnant, Feng Hsu read parenting books. Remembering how to coax a child in a previous book, I tried to pat him gently.

"Is the baby wet? Honey, give me a hug and have a look. " Milla saw that the child was still crying and said.

Milla just panicked and temporarily forgot to read the previous parenting book. The parenting book says:

The baby cries, either hungry, sleepy or wet; If not, it is sick.

Xu feng put the baby on the bed and groped for a diaper change. After changing, pat the baby gently.

After filming for a while, the child fell asleep, and xu feng felt more fulfilled than talking about a big list.

"Husband, you also have a rest." Seeing the baby asleep, her husband was so tired that he was sweating profusely. Milla asked him to have a rest.

Feng Hsu looked at the sleeping child with a smile on her mouth and a thick spoil in her eyes.

After sleeping for a while, the baby opened his eyes and began to cry.

"Maybe I'm hungry." Xu Feng said.

Milla fed him and he fell asleep again. Looking at the child's sleeping face, Milla couldn't turn away the soft light and couldn't bear to close his eyes to sleep.

"Husband, give the baby a name."

"Wife, you come and get it."

"If the baby is handsome, call it Xu Zijun."

? ……

Being a parent for the first time, both husband and wife are a little flustered. Explore slowly, master slowly, and stop panicking slowly.

03? Babble, toddler

? Xu Zijun is half a year old and babbles all day. Although he didn't understand what he was saying, Milla liked talking to him.

? "Baby, do you want your mother to tell you a story?" Milla asked softly.

? "Ah ~ ah ~" said the baby.

"Don't? Then wait for dad to come back. Now let's take a nap. Do you like squatting? " Milla cheated her husband while helping her children to practice their neck and arm strength.

? "Ya ~ Ya ~ Ya ~" The baby doesn't like to lie prone and protests loudly.

? "Like lying down? Then take a nap. " Milla walked over to say.

After lying down for a while, Milla picked up the baby and gave him a full-body massage.

……

"Husband, you come back from work? The baby said he wanted you to tell a story! Tell me about it. I'm going to cook. What do you want to eat? " After taking care of the baby all day, Milla wants to change her role. Besides, my husband hasn't seen the children all day, so he should spend more time with them.

? "Wife, I'll cook and tell the baby a story after dinner." Xu said and walked to the kitchen.

? "Wait a minute!" Milla stopped Feng Hsu: "You haven't held a baby all day. Hold it first. "

? Feng Hsu washed his hands, kissed him, held the baby high in his arms, and the baby's laughter resounded through the hall.

? "Wife, the baby has teeth!" Feng Hsu seems to have discovered a new continent, and ran to the kitchen excitedly with her child in her arms.

"Well, I have teeth," said Milla. "I was just about to tell you."

Xu Feng excitedly holding the child in circles, and held it high.

"Husband, you can't turn around, you can't hold high, it's dangerous!" M Lamian Noodles said with a straight face.

Feng Hsu busy serious child in her arms, slowly out of the kitchen.

"Son, call dad!" Feng Hsu went to the living room, holding the baby crazy.

"Shh ~ shh ~" The child parrots.

"ah! Call again! Dad ~ Dad ~ "Feng Hsu kissed the child's forehead.

The child can't bite clearly.

"hey!" Xu feng held the baby high, glanced at the kitchen and put it down quickly.

They laid the children flat on the sofa when preparing dinner. Haven't eat dinner, the child has turned over, stretch hand to grasp Liu Meier clothes for a while, and pull Feng Hsu sleeve for a while.

A meal ended in a child's prank.

……

The child tries to climb forward, but the child who just can climb can't lift his ass. The whole little body is like a crawling bug.

In front of the child, there is a toy he likes. In order to get the beloved toy, the child climbed forward with both hands and feet. However, just when he almost caught the toy, Milla moved it again.

? When the child was tired of climbing, Milla stopped moving the toy and let the child get the toy smoothly.

? After the children got the toys, they rolled over and lay down, resting while playing with them.

A few days later, the child's little hand was propped on the floor covered with building blocks, kneeling, with his ass up and climbing quickly.

"Wife, my son is getting thinner and thinner!" Just now, when xu feng was on the phone, the child climbed over and robbed xu feng's mobile phone.

"How can a child not be skinned?" Milla is used to being with her children every day.

After a few months, the child slowly stood up along the sofa or bedside, holding something and moving slowly. After half a month, I took a small step with a small fist.

The couple are very happy about their children's babbling and toddler.

? 04? Read and write with you.

As time goes by, the children grow up day by day and soon reach the age of kindergarten.

? "Mom, do you think my handwriting is good?" Xu Zijun showed Milla the handwriting written by the kindergarten.

? "The baby is great!" Milla was happy despite his son's crooked writing.

? "Mom, the teacher asked us to write two more homework." Xu Zijun said.

"Write, mom will accompany you and cheer for you." Milla said to his son.

Xu Zijun did his homework for a while. Feng Hsu came back, came over to have a look, and went to cook.

The meal is not ready yet, and the homework has been finished. My son is clamoring for cartoons.

After dinner, Xu Feng checked the children's homework as usual.

"This word is not well written, rewrite it!" Xu Feng said sternly to his son.

"Mom, will you stop writing?" Xu Zijun sipped his mouth.

"Listen to your father and write it again. Babies are the best! " In reading and writing, Milla is responsible for accompanying students and Xu Feng is responsible for correcting them. Mainly to see her son's pathetic coquetry, Milla couldn't help but be soft-hearted, so it was always Xu Feng who corrected her homework.

? ……

Xu Zijun went to primary school. He does all kinds of work except homework every day, that is, he goes home to uncover tiles.

At this time, the couple were very puzzled. Too strict education is afraid of touching children's rebellious psychology, and not strict education is afraid of not achieving results.

? Sometimes I can hear Milla's hysterical roar, and sometimes I can see Feng Hsu holding Disciples, almost in French. Either you don't love children or you love them. Expecting a person's success needs a lot of blame.

"Xu Zijun, have you finished your homework?" Milla asked again.

"It's over. It's over. " Xu Zijun is busy going out to play and is a little impatient.

"Bring it here and let me check it." Xu Feng said.

"Check what? You are not a teacher. " Xu Zijun replied and went out.

An hour later, Xu Feng's cell phone rang, and some parents said that Xu Zijun had a fight with his child.

Xu Feng was furious. Get a ruler ready, and get a good palm.

"Dad, after his son comes back, ask the reason first. I'm afraid I can't solve the problem. " Milla looked at the blue Feng Hsu and said.

Xu feng exhales-inhales-exhales-inhales, finally suppressing his anger and rethinking how to educate children.

After Xu Zijun came back, xu feng said, "I'll check my homework."

Xu Zijun handed in his homework hastily. Xu Feng read 20 questions, and 5 questions were wrong.

"I'll tell you these questions again. You can do each question 20 times." Feng Hsu crossed out the wrong question and said to Xu Zijun.

"Twenty times? The five questions are not 100 times, and my hand will be broken. " Xu Zijun looked at the exercise book and shouted, "How about five times for each question?"

"If you say one more word, add 10 times to each question." Xu feng put down the fire and dawdled to get it.

Seeing that there was no room for discussion, Xu Zijun stopped talking, silently listened to his father's wrong questions and began to correct them.

? At 1 1 pm, Xu Zijun wrote two wrong questions and three more, and his hands were so sore that he didn't want to move.

Xu Feng and Milla came to their son's homework room and asked, "Have you finished?"

"No, Mom, can you stop writing?" Xu Zijun knew that his mother couldn't bear to punish him.

"Ask your dad." Milla tried not to see his son's pitiful appearance.

"What are you playing today?" Xu Feng asked his son.

? "He deserves to be beaten!" Xu Zijun said.

? "Then write, not less. Mom, let's go. " Xufeng road.

? "Wait a minute! Dad, mom, that boy called me names. " Xu Zijun said quickly.

Most children fight because both sides are at fault. The next day, I contacted the parents of the child who was beaten, made things clear and both sides apologized to each other. This matter has not been mentioned.

……

When Xu Zijun was in the second day of junior high school, he was either in a daze or absent-minded all day, and he loved to dress up, and his grades also dropped sharply.

"Dad, do you think Zijun is puppy love?" Milla asked Feng Hsu.

"No, how old is this child?" Xu Feng replied.

"I think so. His head teacher called to say that he was absent-minded in class and his grades plummeted, "Milla said. "You should talk to your son sometime."

"Well, mom, don't worry, I'll talk to him later." Xu Feng said.

After talking to his son, Xu Feng found himself secretly in love with a girl. Therefore, it is kind and kind, so that children can study hard again.

Think about the days when I was studying Chinese characters with my children. It was really a chicken feather. Fortunately, chicken feathers are not arrows, so they can't fly to the sky. Although the child is naughty, he knows what is right and wrong.

05? Chasing dreams and soaring in the sky

? Xu Zijun graduated from junior high school and was admitted to a key high school. Key high schools are far from home. He lives on campus and can't go home often.

Milla wanted to rent a house next to the school to accompany him, but Xu Feng stopped him.

"Mom, we might as well let our son be independent. The eagle wants to fly high and soar in the sky, and it cannot be attached to the yellow land in front of it. " Xu Feng said.

"His father wants his son to swim in the ocean of love forever, soar in the happy sky, and be safe and happy while chasing his dreams!" Milla is reluctant to part with his son.

"Mom, my son must grow up, be independent, and let go as soon as possible." Xu Feng urged.

"The elder brother of the peak, I know everything you said, just ..." Milla leaned against xu feng's shoulder and choked up.

Being a mother is just right. Milla hasn't called Feng Hsu's brother Feng for many years. He must feel uncomfortable.

Xu Feng hugged Milla, patted her back and comforted his wife silently.

……

Xu Zijun's college entrance examination is in other provinces, further away from home. Xu Feng and Milla didn't say anything about their son's support and encouragement.

After graduating from college, Xu Zijun worked in other places. He was busy with his work and went home less often. He didn't even call.

? Every time Milla receives a phone call from his son, he will be happy for several days.

? As Xu Zijun's parents, Xu Feng and Milla silently supported him behind his back, letting him concentrate on pursuing his dreams and soaring in the wider world.

06? Take you from young to old.

? Xu Zijun's wings are full day by day, while Milla and xu feng are getting old day by day.

They watched their sons get married and have children, and then watched their grandchildren grow up day by day. Today, my son is also the grandfather of a one-year-old child.

It is the blood in the body that gurgles. People connected by blood are also aging with the passage of time.

Take you, slowly but quickly, from young to old.

Lao Xu Feng and Milla are sitting in the yard basking in the sun, and they can't help recalling the past, from Xu Zijun's childhood to the present.

Milla: Zijun, my son, with you, slowly but quickly, I went from youth to aging. Mom only wishes you peace and joy!

Xu feng: Zijun, my son, thank you for choosing us as parents among thousands of people. Let me live up to my time and grow up with you!