2. Keep a calm attitude towards people. Many reasons for children's rebellious psychological state are related to parents' and teachers' education methods, and some do bad things with good intentions so that children don't understand. Parents and teachers should have a good psychological state of culture and education, give priority to caring, loving and attaching importance to children, and put them in a fair position. When children have excessive behavior, they should learn to control anger, be good at using educational wit and countermeasures, and properly resolve various differences and contradictions. Parents will be dissatisfied when children are rebellious. So in order to mold their authority, they will use noise to suppress their children. Impetuous parents should remind themselves to stay calm and wait for their children to be rational before communicating. When children are in a rebellious state, language and personal behavior will be like a storm. You can't manage yourself right away. But parents are perfect and should know when to stay calm.
3. Find favorable teaching methods. When teaching children, sometimes you have to ask others for advice. For example, ask basin friends who have children of the same age around them how to deal with similar problems, or ask college counselors for help, and consult children's teachers. , so as to broaden their thinking.
4, clearly put forward in line with the actual provisions. Excessive regulations and heavy burden of study and training are one of the key reasons for children's rebellious psychological state. Therefore, when setting goals and regulations for him, we should implement them in a simple way according to their requirements, resolutely put an end to impatience and success, and try our best to weaken children's rebellious psychology.
5. Create an excellent and comfortable scene. There must be proper public opinion guidance, a style of striving for strength, a democratic atmosphere, colorful theme activities and a clean environment for study, training and living.
6. Make effective use of appropriate reversals. When reasoning with children and saying things, we should be good at speaking from both positive and negative angles, avoid bias, and correctly guide children to carry out appropriate rebellious logical thinking. And encourage children to clearly put forward different views and special plans.
7. Pay attention to unblocking negative inversion. The negative rebellious psychological state of children should be carefully channeled, and the method of restraint and forced instruction cannot be used. Because they lack practical experience and the ability to distinguish right from wrong, it is easy to look at difficult problems simply and unilaterally, but they are conservative, simple and straightforward, and dare to think, speak and do. Therefore, it is very important to dredge carefully and communicate sincerely.
8. Master the child's spiritual world. When parents see that their children's hobbies will endanger their study and training, they will generally ban them immediately. In fact, when carrying out parent-child activities with children, discuss with them the super idol in his heart and remind them what to learn from the side. You shouldn't learn anything. Only by entering the children's spiritual world can we communicate more harmoniously. If you live in harmony with your parents, your child's rebellious state will certainly be removed.
9. Change the method of dual communication. Many times, the way of educating children should be changed frequently. If you are a child, you can only talk to your parents and listen to your child. After learning, children should try to communicate with each other and listen to their suggestions attentively. Once it is found that a certain way is difficult to realize, change the way anytime and anywhere, continue the experiment and find a reasonable and concrete method.