First, let children lack the ability to take care of themselves independently. At home, parents do everything for children. Gradually, she will get into the habit of coquetry and don't want to move. Parents thought the child was too young and began to help her. This makes children feel very dependent and feel that their parents can help them solve anything. I don't even want to do simple things when I get to school.
Second, let children develop the habit of arrogance and feel that they are right when they make mistakes. At home, parents often don't punish their children's mistakes, and sometimes there will be a little reward, which will make children feel that they can go anywhere, but it is not. At school, it will affect others. So we should educate our children well.
Third, make children lack the courage to face difficulties. When she meets a problem, she will cry and feel that someone can solve it for herself and help herself. She has a sense of dependence and lacks courage and self-confidence. Let her know that what she gets is her own, and what she gets through others will always be others'.
Tell dad that you should care and educate your sister in the right way.
1, don't always do things for children.
Look at the child's practice first, and then plan to help him. However, this does not mean that parents don't care at all. As a responsible parent, when a child is ready to do something unfamiliar, it is best for parents to watch, not interfere, but just watch.
This is mainly to prevent accidents, and secondly to lend a helping hand to children at an appropriate time. This helping hand is not to let parents directly accomplish what their children can't do, but to discuss feasible methods with their children and guide them to find and complete themselves.
Simply put, it is to be good at guiding, not directly replacing children.
2, learn to encourage correctly, rather than praise blindly.
When a child finishes something independently, don't just praise the child's characteristics, such as being really smart, really good and really obedient. Such praise is best removed as much as possible.
Because these compliments have nothing to do with the child's behavior, they are more about the evaluation of a certain attribute of the child. This kind of judgment will only deepen children's concern about their own image, rather than thinking about their own behavior.
I'm sure your father will understand your pain and won't spoil your sister any more.