First, pay attention to strategies and methods, otherwise children will call you hypocritical or insincere. Therefore, praise should be sincere and not infinitely exaggerated. Let the advantages be more. The disadvantages of treating children should be moderation and moderation. Moderation means not to stare at children's shortcomings blindly, but to criticize them, which will make children feel useless. It is best to summarize for a period of time and classify them. Moderation means to criticize moderately and let him know that he is wrong. The key is to see the effect.

Second, don't make mistakes, find out all the previous ones and say them again. The child is disgusted. As parents, we must trust our children. Every child is upward, positive and kind at heart. The key is how to guide them to be upward and kind. This is the knowledge of parents.

What parents should do is to let him know where he is wrong and give him time to correct it slowly. And what kind of attitude should be used to let children know their mistakes and correct them? This is what parents need to learn: how to find their own advantages in their own mistakes.

Fourth, the key to educating children and making them themselves is that we should love their shortcomings so that their self-esteem will not be hurt. When we look at their shortcomings, we should look at them from another angle: there are no shortcomings, only the starting point, and any shortcomings are the starting point. Everyone grows up with mistakes and setbacks. Only by starting from children's shortcomings can this "mistake" be covered up by advantages and children can grow up happily.