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How to guide children Xiu De to be a man?
Guide parents to strengthen moral cultivation and play the role of moral example = put' Xiu De as a person' in the first place and strengthen children's moral awareness. So, how should parents guide their children to be Xiu De?

moral education

Moral education is considered as the most important educational content. Take giving birth to a child as an example. First of all, having children is inseparable from virtue. A person who has virtue and speaks "benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and faith" can always maintain the five internal organs, and only when the five internal organs are reconciled can he have children. If you can't have children, it depends on whether you are behaving improperly. If you lack virtue and don't correct your wrong behavior, childlessness is doomed to be a kind of retribution. In addition to having children, godchildren can't live without virtue.

Xiu De and being a man.

The ancients also believed that Xiu De and being a man were a process of spring breeze and rain, which accumulated over time. In the golden age of children's growth, in the critical period of personality cultivation, when their hearts are purest and their memories are best, they can receive the most valuable moral education, develop good behavior habits and remember eternal truths, which will surely benefit them for life.

Self, family, country and the world

As early as 2,500 years ago, Xiu De and his life were described by the sages as "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world". Morality plays an important role in Chinese traditional culture.

Always take care of your heart.

What about Xiu De? According to the ancients, first of all, we should always care for our hearts and constantly improve our quality. Good and evil in an instant, thinking about good in the heart, behavior will be good; If you think evil, even if you help others do good things, you don't really mean it. Therefore, we must always take care of our inner thoughts. For everything, we should examine our intentions and ask ourselves why we say and do this. what do you think? If you find bad ideas, you must correct them in time.

Confess, repent.

Secondly, we should always repent and be cautious everywhere. The so-called "don't use small goodness, don't use small evils." Whether it is good or not, you can't think that you won't do it just because you are young. For bad things and evil things, we can't think that things can be trivial.