1, treat congenital diseases correctly:
People can't choose their own birth, and they can't choose their own looks. Some people are born handsome and beautiful, and some people are born with disabilities and congenital defects. We can't change the congenital conditions. We can only treat them correctly to encourage and educate our children, let them accept these innate conditions, and let them feel happy and individual.
2. Create excellent tutors:
We can't change the innate conditions, but the acquired education and the influence of the external environment can also change a person's personality. As the saying goes, environment shapes people. In order to make children have a good personality, we must strive to create a good family education and environment for children. Parents are harmonious, families are harmonious, and families understand each other and care for each other. When children grow up in such an environment, their personality will naturally be much better.
3. Let children read more books:
Reading can change and influence a person's personality. Reading more books can broaden children's horizons, increase their knowledge, increase their self-confidence, and make their hearts stronger and able to withstand failures and setbacks. Reading can also make up for some shortcomings of children. Parents should accompany their children to study more, tell inspirational stories to their children when they are young, and let them establish a strong and optimistic attitude from an early age.
4. Good school education:
Choosing a good school education for children, especially primary school and junior high school, is the golden age of a person's character formation. During this period, it is best to choose a better school for children, not only by looking at the school's teaching achievements, but also by looking at the relationship between teachers and students, the relationship between classmates, the psychological state of students, whether there is sunshine, confidence and optimism.
5, cultivate children's good interpersonal relationships:
Parents should encourage their children to communicate with others, not control their children's communication and freedom, and encourage their children to communicate with their parents and friends when they encounter difficulties, not to take it to heart. Children with more friends and harmonious interpersonal relationships have better personalities. Parents should not let their children study all day and have no friends for the sake of their children's study.
6, cultivate hobbies:
Parents should cultivate their children's hobbies. Children with a wide range of interests and hobbies have better personalities, which can help them gain self-confidence and live a rich and happy life. When cultivating children's hobbies, we should respect children's ideas, and we should not force children to learn anything, nor should we have too high requirements, so happiness comes first.
7. Make children optimistic and happy:
Children's self-confidence, optimism and happiness are more important than anything else. Such children are more likely to succeed. Children are unhappy and in a bad mood all day and always live under the supervision of their parents. They have no free and optimistic attitude towards life and dare not face the difficulties in life and study. That child is timid and has no opinion. This character is obviously flawed. Let children hone more and cultivate their resilience and optimism.