1. Competition
Use games to develop children's abilities in all aspects. The best way to educate a 5-year-old child is to play games. The choice of the game should be decided by adults, but the content of the game should be suitable for the psychological characteristics of 5-year-old children. At this point, adults should choose carefully.
Take advantage of opportunities in life.
This makes 5-year-old children know more. If you live upstairs, you should tell them not to jump upstairs, otherwise it will affect the normal life downstairs. Children under five like to ask questions. Adults should be patient in this regard, and everyone should answer if possible. Only in this way can children develop the good habit of asking questions and understand more truth.
3. Provide conditions for children to do interesting and beneficial activities.
We are interested in 5-year-olds. When we find that children have certain interests, we should try our best to cultivate them. But only if these benefits are beneficial. If these interests are harmful, we should divert their attention and gradually dilute them. In order to satisfy their vanity, some parents let their children learn this and that and force them to learn. These are all incorrect practices.
establish/make rules
For children over 4 years old, we can make a list of rules for their most troublesome behaviors, such as fighting with children and being rude. Parenting experts suggest that there should be no more than five rules for children aged 4-8.
5. Determine the consequences of violations
Parents should clearly explain the consequences if they violate the rules, such as not enjoying certain "benefits" in the short term. Once the child violates the rules, immediately implement the behavioral consequences. At this time, there is no need for warning, no need for bargaining and no need for a second chance. If the little guys think it's negotiable, they won't take your rules seriously.
6. Do a good job in pre-school guidance
Six-year-old children are going to primary school. To give them preschool guidance, you can buy some educational toys and interesting stickers suitable for this age group, and you can teach them some basic knowledge, such as addition, subtraction, drawing and mathematics. I believe some parents are already doing this, so I won't say more. As a pre-school guide, children are not required to learn much knowledge, but to cultivate their interest in learning, so that they can keep up with the teachers when they go to school.
7. Cultivate children's manners
At this time, children focus on guidance, not education. If you tell her the truth all day, she probably won't remember it. So, it's not that you told him 1000 times who should be called uncle and who should be called grandpa. He doesn't know. How do I know who is an uncle and who is a grandfather? Therefore, educating children to be polite depends on what needs to be done, and teaching them to go out to play or greet them politely when they have guests.
Also, at this time, you must not physically punish your child, which will leave a shadow on your child. You should give priority to guidance. Do you remember?