Bitterness and sweetness of reading
In the golden age of children's growth, reading is the key to acquiring knowledge and ability. Although reading is bitter, it is for the sake of sweetness in the future. Parents should guide their children to form a good habit of reading from childhood, not afraid of hardship, and can better cope with the challenges of life when they grow up.
Criticism and growth
Children's mistakes are the only way to grow up. Parents should not indulge, but should guide. Criticism is not hurting, but helping children understand mistakes and grow up. Parents should guide their children correctly and don't let "he is still young" become an excuse to escape. This is the real concern.
Rules and freedom
You can't be a Fiona Fang without rules, and so can educating children. Rules are made to make them better adapt to society. Parents should set an example and let their children know what is right and wrong. Rules are not constraints, but growth AIDS to help children develop good behavior habits.
Loss and wisdom
Eating "small losses" in interpersonal communication is the tempering of growth. It does not involve the loss of dignity and security, so that children can learn to face setbacks and interpersonal communication. The ancestors said that "losing is a blessing", because those who are willing to lose will eventually get more. Taking advantage of small things is often not worth the loss.