0 1 Teachers' forced intervention may make students more rebellious, but it will strengthen their love. Class 20 15, I teach in class 19, but I'm not the head teacher. In the first semester of senior one, a handsome boy in the class fell in love with a girl in Class 20 next door. I know this because that afternoon.
That afternoon, the last class was an activity class. I was alone in the office, and all the other teachers went home. I saw the head teacher of Class 20 bring in two students, a man and a woman. It happened that I still knew that boy, so I asked him: XX, what's the matter? ? He didn't say anything. The class teacher went to the seat and answered:? Look how handsome he is, running to my class to find girls. Are there no girls in their class? ?
The head teacher asked two students to stand in front of a bookcase against the wall, turned the chair to the students to sit down and began to ask questions. Come on, what are you looking for her in my class? ? Can you come in and out of our classroom at will? You are not a student in my class. ? XXX, if you are a girl, you should talk about self-esteem. Don't be nice to others just because their skin is good. ? How's it going? I'll call your parents tomorrow to discuss it. ? Today XX, you will be fined 500 squats. See how much energy you have to talk about friends. ?
Then, the boy began to do squats. The girl just stood by and watched spoonily.
I just smiled and added? Didn't you set them up on purpose? He does squats, and the girl doesn't feel bad. ? The head teacher became suspicious of sex and went out.
After a while, I heard the girl say, have a rest and I'll make it for you. ? The boy disagreed. After a while, I heard the girl crying. Crying and saying: Forget it, don't do it. ?
I look back. I don't know how many times that boy has been in prison. I saw him sweating, but he was still doing it. I'm just slow. I'm going to have a rest after crouching down, and then I'm going to stand up slowly and take a few deep breaths. I can't persuade him, knowing that he did it for girls on purpose. Sure enough, later the girl cried with the boy in her arms.
Later, I heard that the two parents were very satisfied with each other's children as soon as they met, and they decided on their in-laws.
Later, I graduated. On Teacher's Day, they both sent me messages to say hello.
When students fall in love, the teacher may not have a good way to curb the 20 18 class. The boys with the best grades in science class and the girls with the best grades in liberal arts class came together. It seems to be the road of strong alliance, which has attracted the envy of the whole grade students. The family is also agreed by both parents. What can a teacher do?
After the city's unified examination in May, a grade meeting will be held to award prizes. It's their turn to win the first prize, go on stage to receive the prize together, and be in the audience together? Shh? Sound. The grade director delivered the acceptance speech:? I don't need to introduce these two. Well, everyone knows that. ?
Later, in the college entrance examination, the boy didn't do well. Although he got more than 600 points, he was not satisfied. So, I decided to come back and repeat it. When he came back, he found that the boys who often took the second place were also repeating. I don't know what's the problem between them, or the strong will not give way to each other. The boy went to another high school to repeat his studies, but the class teacher and grade director failed to keep him.
This year's college entrance examination, the boy in our school retail got more than 700 points and was admitted to Tsinghua. I don't know the boy who went to another school to repeat his studies.
Whether high school students are in love or not is easy to find that when they are in love, people's emotions fluctuate greatly. The slightest movement of one of them will cause the emotion of the other party to fluctuate. Even if it is rational, it is difficult to control, and students' minds are not fully developed. So it is easy to find out whether students are in love or not.
During the period of love, my mood changes more violently than normal people, and my emotions are rich and varied, but I often feel normal. For example, students sometimes laugh unconsciously, sometimes they are inexplicably depressed, sometimes they suddenly lose their temper and are very upset, and sometimes they are silent for a long time.
Judging from the behavior, there are also anomalies. Students often become concerned about image, even if they wear student clothes, they have to look at it repeatedly in front of the mirror for half a day. And I always like to make various expressions in front of the mirror. Often in a period of time suddenly have a hobby, and continue this hobby. In addition, some people will unconsciously become unsociable, while others will become particularly gregarious. The frequency of use of mobile phones has increased significantly. I began to consciously avoid my parents. Wait a minute.
Does high school students' love affect their study? Because the emotional reaction of love is fierce, it will definitely have an impact on learning.
When you are in a good mood, it will promote learning; Being in a bad mood will hinder your study. And the mood is good and bad, and the students themselves can't control it. It depends on many accidental things on both sides.
For example, which classmate said a sentence, and one party in love heard it, and might wonder if it was about her? Or a few people who are having fun together go out together, but they are not called the one in love. Even after reading a sentence or an event in a novel or magazine, you may doubt whether it will happen to the other person for a long time.
In fact, students' love may promote learning rather than hinder it. Because people in love are often full of positive energy, full of passion and dreams for life, and positive and optimistic. So it often promotes learning (unless two broken cans are together). Great successful people in Chinese and foreign history often make great achievements during their love, especially writers.
What really has a negative impact on learning is lovelorn. Losing love often has a great influence on students, making them become negative, unconfident and distrustful of others. At this time, students lose their inner motivation, and learning may be indifferent to them, leading to a rapid decline in their grades.
Is the final grade getting better or worse? It's hard to say. But in terms of probability, most students have regressed and a few have improved. Because most high school students' love ends in lovelorn.
It is common for high school students to fall in love, but most of them end in lovelorn love. High school is a special period, with intense study, depressed life, great emotional needs but little satisfaction, and it is easy to produce love.
It is also the particularity of this period that makes emotions change quickly and disillusion. When this special period has passed and life can be more controlled by yourself, everything often has to start again. This often does not correspond to liking the new and hating the old, and has a bad personality.
Class 20 18, a girl and a boy are talking about friends. Both of them got good grades. After the results of the college entrance examination came out, the girls only scored more than 560 points, just over a line 10. Ask me whether to repeat or go? I said repeat. Boys were admitted to Northeast Normal University.
10, the girl cried to me in QQ: that boy dumped her, that boy changed his mind so easily, that boy chased her at first, that boy was so cruel that he repeatedly begged him to meet him, and she must see him again when she came back from vacation in 2008, saying that she was unwilling and her heart ached like a needle. Said a lot. I can't convince her. What she may need is just to vent her emotions. I just said to her: the environment will change people. At the beginning, he said that he loved you is true, and now he says that he doesn't love you is also true. Now, no matter how much I try to persuade you, you may not listen. When the time is up, you will naturally face it calmly. But you must be careful not to let this affect your study. Now, for you, only learning is real, and you control it. ?
This year's college entrance examination, girls got 604 points. Send me a message the other day to report good news. Then he told me that the boy came to see her again, but she refused. I said you were right to refuse, and you will find more interesting people in college.
Every year after high school, boys and girls break up.
I remember when I was in Class 20 15, I wrote a series of articles to commemorate my classmates this year. The fifth article is "Holding Your Hand", which is about the couples in the class. At that time, I also considered privacy issues when writing, only writing that the relationship between lovers has been made public among my classmates. As a result, a week later, his secret diary was reported. Haha, I just deleted it later. I feel it is really inappropriate to write it out. After all, everyone's personality is different.
High school students' love is a normal physiological and emotional response, and teachers can only guide them from the senior grade of primary school, when sex begins to develop. By junior high school, students' sexual awareness has been obvious, but at this time students are in a rebellious period, generally between the same sex and the opposite sex. In the high school stage, the psychological and physical maturity is further, which is the attraction period, and students are more willing or even interested in interacting with the opposite sex.
Teachers can only guide them and analyze their advantages and disadvantages. In fact, they all understand, but what they lack is control. Therefore, teachers should be full of emotions and speak for themselves from the perspective of students in order to activate their inner rationality.
I think the best way is to promote the correct concept of love: natural, sincere, moderate and rational. Nature is taken for granted. You can't pursue it deliberately, and it is likely to hurt each other. Sincerity is to communicate with each other the truest thoughts in your current life and your thoughts about the future, so that you can be together properly. The doctrine of the mean means that high school is the developmental period of life, and everything has not yet been finalized. It will be better to keep a little pure emotion and yearning for each other, and don't develop too fast. Many things may not be affordable now. Rationality is learning to analyze what are the main and secondary contradictions in life and how to allocate time and energy in high school.
Then, in the form of holding lectures or letting students discuss, let students really understand and think: how to talk about a love?
Students are not wood and stone, it is normal to be affectionate and salty, and they are also complete people.
I think teachers should educate students to understand love and let them look at it rationally.