Because they believe in the old saying that "a stick makes a dutiful son" and "if you don't beat the weapon, you will lose it", some parents define themselves as "wolves"-being cruel to their children means being responsible for their future and giving them the best love. Businessman Xiao Baiyou was called "Wolf Dad of China" because he put forward the slogan "Every three days, children will enter Peking University". Xiao Baiyou relishes that "in my family, the greatest success of children is to be admitted to Peking University". However, the child's "wolf dad" is severely punished at every turn, and only the so-called "success" is pursued. Where is the child's mental health considered? Where is the concern for children's happiness? His son Xiao Yao once said: "Dad is undoubtedly successful, but we have also lost the happiness we should have in childhood." My daughter Mix once wrote in her diary that "I didn't have a happy childhood". You know, everyone has only one childhood. It is this "wolf dad" who insists that he is "the best dad in the world" and cruelly and arbitrarily deprives his children of a "happy childhood"! If success means being admitted to a prestigious university, do parents have to be "wolf fathers" if children want to succeed? Don't! According to media reports, after an open interview and evaluation by a group of experts, Junicheng 20 12 from the High School Attached to South Normal University was recommended by Peking University, and Shi 20 12 was recommended by Tsinghua. And their father, because he is equal and gentle to children, is called "sheep father" by the media. Shi's father said, "I never give orders to my son." On the contrary, I think we learn from each other. " Zhu Ni's father said: "We have a very equal relationship with our children and communicate frequently, just like friends." Who is happier, a child who grew up in an authoritarian and violent educational environment or a child who grew up in an educational environment of equality and respect? What kind of children are more active in learning? What kind of children have a positive sunshine mentality? The answer is self-evident. As parents, who doesn't want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed? Therefore, it is also appropriate to be strict with children. However, this "strictness" should be measured and based on respect for children. If you don't care about your child's self-esteem, it will undoubtedly bring psychological shadow to your child. Even if such a child is admitted to a famous university, it is not an educational success! Children are children. I don't think it's advisable for a "wolf dad" to put pressure on his children rudely regardless of their feelings. A "sheep father" who can understand and respect children is a good father! I wish there were fewer "wolf dads" and more "sheep dads"! Let us children who should have enjoyed a happy childhood grow up healthily.