A series of open family education classes "Family education should strike a balance between care and restraint" were broadcast. The following is a selection of the short essays of "Care and Restraint" 10, which I compiled for everyone, for reference only, and I like to collect and share them!

Family Education Open Class "Care and Restraint" Composition 1 A civil airliner was soaring in the blue sky and white clouds, and a mother leaned out of the cabin. Holding a big bowl of wonton in her hand, she shouted to Baiyun, "Son, mom has brought you wonton." Mother's eyebrows and eyes are full of joy, and her smile comes from the heart. This is the content of a cartoon.

I couldn't help laughing after reading the cartoon. Maybe the night before, the child who was studying abroad called his "good" mother and whispered, "Mom, I want to eat your own wonton." Mother wrapped wonton overnight and sent it to her. A bowl of wonton and two round-trip air tickets are all "golden" wonton! That's ridiculous, but is it love or harm?

Thinking of this, I can't help but think of a scene I saw in the supermarket the other day: a six-or seven-year-old child sitting in front of the counter crying. It turns out that he and his father came to play with toys. As a result, the child suddenly took a fancy to a Lego mindstorms worth several thousand yuan. His father disagreed at first. Later, when he saw the child crying in every way, he immediately went to the clerk, bought Lego mindstorms and took the child home.

How similar the father of the child is to the mother in the cartoon! As soon as the child has a request, he will be satisfied immediately, which is simply responsive! How affectionate! It is the nature of parents to love children, but if they love children too much, they will fall into the misunderstanding of doting. In this way, children will pretend to be "little emperors" and gradually develop the bad habit of "self-centeredness". Desire will be extremely inflated, and when you grow up, you will enter the society and easily slide to the edge of crime. So, isn't it harmful to children?

May all parents in the world not spoil their children, and even the best food of birds will fly high! How much independent space you give your child, how high and how far the child can fly! May all parents in the world understand this truth, doting is not love, but harm!

Recently, "Xiong Haizi" made trouble in public, and "Giant Baby" made trouble all over the country. Behind these frightening events are the endless doting figures of "bear parents". To this end, the voice of refusing to spoil the game is getting higher and higher.

I have never been spoiled by my parents because I have a dog at home. The balance of my parents' love seems to be more inclined to dogs. My sister keeps a dog at home, but the old man loves her more than dogs.

At first, she was not greatly affected. After a while, she began to play with the old man's mobile phone for a long time or watch TV crazily. Finally, when his heart was almost full of doting, he could no longer listen to the old man's preaching and became very stingy and selfish ... Up to now, she has been able to ruthlessly hit the old man's weak body with her eight-year-old hand. It seems that because of the birth of doting, she entered adolescence ahead of schedule.

At my birthday party, she drank a big bottle of orange juice from mouth to mouth, which made my classmates frown at me, but the old man said, "Nothing, keep drinking …"; When I blew out the candles, she blew out all the candles herself! I don't even know whose birthday it is today! But the old man even said, "Nothing, nothing, please count it again ..."; At her mother-in-law's birthday party, she grabbed the rice directly with her hands, which made the whole table stunned. The old man just reminded her affectionately: "Baby, don't get your hands dirty ..."

I seem to see that she is being pushed down the abyss by doting ... doting is a ruthless black hole that slowly devours the hearts of the doted. When they become very selfish and even inhuman, they will eventually be punished by law and eliminated by society. Refusing to spoil is something we must face and implement, otherwise bears will really haunt all over the country!

Refuse to spoil is to say "no, I can do it myself" when parents want to spoil you; Refusing to spoil is to say "no, you can't do that" when the child does something wrong; Refusing to coquetry is to resolve disputes decisively and reasonably when encountering Xiong Haizi; Refusing to spoil is to "wean" decisively when conditions permit.

Some people say that if you want to destroy your child, please give him or her a mobile phone. According to the present situation, it should be added: If you want your child to be a "Xiong Haizi" or a "giant baby", please give him (her) endless doting!

A boy sat on the ground and cried, pointing to the starry night sky, saying, "I want that one that can fly!" " "So my grandparents, my parents set up ladders and took nets to catch flying meteors ... After reading this cartoon, I couldn't help laughing. How did the stars fall? Stars are naturally hard to pick, but don't exaggerated cartoons profoundly reveal a realistic problem that cannot be ignored? Our elders spoil children too much.

Parents who don't love their children? However, it is wrong to blindly accommodate and do everything and not let the children do it. I also have this kind of excessive love, which makes me really uncomfortable. In the manual labor class, the teacher asked us to go home and make a ball of wool. I took out my needle and thread and did it carefully. My mother suddenly pushed the door in and sent me pears to eat. Seeing that I was threading a needle, she quickly put down the pear and took my hand to touch and look. She said affectionately, "Oh, my dear baby, how can you do such rough work?" I'll do it, I'll do it ... "Then I picked up my unfinished wool ball and made it. My handiwork has been praised by the teacher and won the envy of my classmates, but I hope I can dig a hole in it.

I know my mother loves me, but doting is harmful. The school organized a charity sale for students on Sunday, and I signed up. When I told my mother, she strongly objected:

"This how line? What if it's abducted by a bad guy? What if I get lost? " My god, my mother said a dozen "what to do" in one breath, and almost all the bad things in the world reminded her! If she takes part in the imaginary composition competition, she will win the first prize. At school, the students talked happily about selling newspapers. The teacher asked me with concern why I didn't sell newspapers. I don't know what to say, but I feel ashamed.

We respect the love of our elders, but we don't need to spoil them, because it will ruin our children. I hope the elders will stop doing stupid things like picking meteors for crying children.

When I was 4 years old, I especially liked cartoons. I have read countless cartoons. It draws a beautiful picture with simple lines, which makes me laugh with relish. But I read a cartoon today, which made me laugh and couldn't say it.

The content of the painting is like this: a little boy is crossing his legs, holding the remote control in one hand and holding his head in the other, playing around and watching cartoons with great interest. Maybe it's time to eat, because the cartoon is not over yet, so the little boy doesn't want to leave the TV. His parents were worried that he was hungry, so a servant stood respectfully with fruit and water.

Maybe you think this child has a good life and a happy family. I just want to say to you: "You are wrong, this is a criticism and irony of parents doting on their children!" " "

Look, I really think this child is "mouth to mouth, clothes reach out." Parents treat their children like emperors. So do many parents. They help their children carry their schoolbags after school, tie their shoelaces for senior children, wash their feet and faces, peel eggs for their children ... Is it wrong to love children? Yes, it's right to love children, but you can't spoil them. But the flowers in the greenhouse will leave the greenhouse sooner or later. Facing the ups and downs, setbacks and difficulties in society.

This reminds me of a story: once upon a time, there was a child who was in his twenties and couldn't eat by himself. He let his mother do everything. One day, his mother went to a distant place to attend a wedding. She was afraid that her son would starve to death, so she made a big cake on her head and left. Two days later, she came back to find that her son had starved to death. It turned out that he ate half a cake on the first day, because his mother didn't help him turn it over, and he starved to death. Why? It is because of doting that children become particularly lazy!

We can't learn from the starving man above, learn to do things by ourselves and listen to our parents. Don't rely on your parents, and don't indulge in doting. That's the best.

Let parents love their children in another way. Children are the flowers of the motherland, they should grow up in the sunshine and rain, and should not wither in doting!

There are many kinds of love in the world, but one kind of love is selfless, that is, parents love their children. Love can help their children grow up healthily, but doting will prevent them from growing up.

Children are parents' treasures, and loving children is parents' instinct. In our family education in China, China's parents are among the best in doting on their children. Spoiling is the abnormal psychology of human nature, a shackle, a trap, a rope and a signal of danger.

In our family in China, every parent dotes on their children. Children are really born in honeypots and grow in honeypots. It is parents' nature to love children. However, it is parents' dereliction of duty to spoil and indulge their children too much. Elders are always worried that their grandchildren will suffer, and they always refuse to let their children learn to walk and fall to the ground. Grandchildren are spoiled, their clothes are stretched and their mouths are full of food. Children can't do housework at all. The child does nothing at all. You see, even in the school mountaineering competition, parents followed, rented a sedan chair to carry their children up the mountain, fearing that something would happen to them, and people would take care of them everywhere. If this goes on, how can children grow up! When a child becomes an adult, it is easy to slide to the edge of crime.

However, not every parent, like the previous parents, knows how to educate their children, let them form the habit of doing things by themselves from an early age, and let them stand up and use their brains to solve difficulties when they fall. This has cultivated their determination, analytical ability and adaptability. Even if their parents are not around, they will do better, succeed step by step and become the pillars of society.

It is the wish of many parents that their children become dragons and their daughters become phoenixes. But if you want to realize these wishes, you can't spoil them too much. Young parents and respected elders, if you want to cultivate your child into a useful talent, a healthy and mentally sound person, please listen to my advice: please stop doting on your child!

Love is not love, but harm to his life.

At the school gate, after school, many students push their schoolbags into their parents' arms; Tie the child's shoelaces as soon as he sees that his shoes are not fastened.

Today, I saw a cartoon: there is a little boy whose parents carry him to school. They said, "As long as children can go to key schools, that's all!" Grandma carried his schoolbag, took a glass of water and fed him water. Grandpa gave him an umbrella and fanned him. They seem very happy. The "father, mother, grandfather and grandmother" in the painting must want to give all their love to the boy in the text, but you don't know that you are hurting him. If he leaves you when he grows up, how will he live? What will happen to you if he doesn't remember you? Grandparents, parents, it's time for you to reflect.

From this cartoon, I can't help thinking of one thing: On the first day of school, Little A in our class put all the food and drink in the desk hall. He himself said, "This is a grape box, which has been aged for thousands of years." It took me three weeks to take it out. The desk hall has become a stinking garbage bin. This is the evil consequence of doting.

I hope our parents can learn from Jack's father. Once upon a time, Jack wanted to buy a red bike. Jack asked his father for money to buy it, but his father didn't give it to him and let him earn it himself. Jack went to earn enough money to buy a car and found his bike missing. Ask the boss that no one bought the bike, and the boss put it in the garage. After jack asked, he didn't have enough money. 2 yuan, discuss whether the boss can sell it to him. The boss agreed. Jack didn't know that his father was helping him in secret.

Mom, you can put your hand down now. I want to be a young eagle growing up in adversity, let me fly freely, let me find knowledge by myself, and let me fly freely in the ocean of knowledge. I don't want to be spoiled. I don't want to be the little boy in the picture.

With the passage of time, a new life was born. There were cries in the room, and the mother quickly picked up her son and said happily, "You are really my darling. You are so cute, just call you Bao Xiao! "

Gradually, Bao Xiao grew up. Under the careful care of his mother, Bao Xiao learned to speak and walk. One day, my mother was doing housework in the kitchen, and Bao Xiao was playing alone in the room. Suddenly, there was a "plop" in my mother's ear. She went straight into the bedroom. It turned out that Bao Xiao accidentally fell down. My mother quickly helped Bao Xiao up and said angrily, "This floor is disgusting. My Bao Xiao actually fell." Say that finish, stamping the floor angrily.

How time flies! In a blink of an eye, Bao Xiao will go to kindergarten. My mother is worried at home every day. Finally, one day, she couldn't help it and wanted to go to the kindergarten. As soon as I entered the gate, my mother saw all the other children playing happily there, except Bao Xiao. She hurried to the classroom and finally saw her son. Mother saw Bao Xiao saying nothing and asked, "Son, what's wrong with you?" Bao Xiao slowly raised his head and said sadly, "Children, don't play with me." Mother listened and said angrily, "whose children don't play with my son, mother will settle accounts with them now." Say that finish, tightly around the small treasure.

A few years later, Bao Xiao went to primary school. On this day, the final exam papers have just been handed out. Bao Xiaofei ran home quickly, rushed into the bedroom, and cried with his 30-minute test paper in his arms. The mother felt very strange, so she went into her son's bedroom and asked, "Bao Xiao, how was the exam?" Bao Xiao said falteringly, "I only got 30 points in the exam." Instead, my mother said, "Who wrote this paper? It is so difficult that it hurts my son's self-confidence. Ignore him, let's go eat delicious food. " Say that finish, pull Bao Xiao out of the bedroom.

Suddenly, Bao Xiao went to junior high school. But he didn't study well, so he went to school soon and found a job immediately, but nobody wanted him after running for several companies. As soon as he entered the house, his mother asked him, "Bao Xiao, have you found a job?" Bao Xiao said gloomily, "There are swift horses without bole, and no company appreciates me."

Parents, this is the result of doting on children.

There are many kinds of love in the world, but one kind of love is selfless, and that is the love of parents for their children. Love can help children grow up healthily, but doting hinders their growth.

Children are parents' treasures, and loving children is parents' instinct. In our family education in China, China's parents are among the best in doting on their children. Spoiling is the abnormal psychology of human nature, a shackle, a trap, a rope and a signal of danger.

In our family in China, every parent dotes on their children. Children are really born in honeypots and grow in honeypots. It is parents' nature to love children. However, it is parents' dereliction of duty to spoil and indulge their children too much. Elders are always worried that their grandchildren will suffer, and they always refuse to let their children learn to walk and fall to the ground. Grandchildren are spoiled, their clothes are stretched and their mouths are full of food. Children can't do housework at all. The child does nothing at all. You see, even in the school mountaineering competition, parents followed, rented a sedan chair to carry their children up the mountain, fearing that something would happen to them, and people would take care of them everywhere. If this goes on, how can children grow up! When a child becomes an adult, it is easy to slide to the edge of crime.

However, not every parent knows how to educate their children and let them form the habit of doing it themselves from an early age, just like their previous parents. If the child falls, don't help him, let him stand up and solve the problem with his brain. This has cultivated their judgment, analytical ability and adaptability. Even if their parents are not around, they will do better, succeed step by step and become the pillars of society.

It is the wish of many parents that their children become dragons and their daughters become phoenixes. But if you want to realize these wishes, you can't spoil them too much. Young parents and respected elders, if you want to train your child into a useful talent, a healthy and beautiful person, please listen to my advice: please stop doting on your child!

The world of love makes people feel lucky. The companionship of love is more desirable. This world is a world of love. It is because of love that it becomes rich and colorful! This is the life we yearn for! Similarly, there will be demons in the world of love. That will be the back of doting. The same is love, one is doting and the other is doting. But it means a lot. I want to ask, if you had to choose, which one would you choose? I hope you made the right choice. I hope love can come to your life soon! Always with you, never leave!

spoil

Pets, if pets can. I can spoil you for life. But not the pet I imagined. Because then you'll think I should do this to you. I deserve your love! This belt will be white without dependence! I don't spoil you for a while, and then I start to feel uncomfortable. But if you look at it from another angle, that person will be very boring, pampering you every day and accompanying you 24 hours a day. Everyone will have their own things, don't let your little temper go. Spoil, just right. Just don't go too far!

corruption

Pet, if pet can solve all problems. Then I'll abandon it. Because AIDS, which grew up in doting, has developed addiction withdrawal. I don't know the hardships of making money and don't understand the hardships of my parents! I don't know how hard life is. It's just clothes and hands, food and mouth. Reach for the money. But I don't know where the money comes from. Even if I do something wrong, I don't know that I am wrong. But parents always spoil their children. If you are wrong, don't educate, encourage. You are stupid, but you don't know that you are wrong. But they all think they are right. Until you do something really wrong, your parents can't help you because they can't save you. Everything will be regretted then. Because in the world of drowning, I have fallen deep into it. It's time to wake up in the world you love, because this world is not for you. You want to live a good life, then find true love!

Spoiling and indulging will be a bad habit. I hope there is more love in this world. Because what you need is true love, not a false world. It's not hypocrisy! I hope we are all well, I hope that love will come soon, and I hope that love will be passed down all the time!

Family Education Open Class Composition 10 Love and Restraint is only one word apart, but it has a completely different meaning.

I once heard a story that a little classmate went to a small restaurant for breakfast and ordered an egg and a bowl of porridge. When the egg came, he said in surprise, "Why are the eggs here different from mine?" But he picked it up and ate it willy-nilly, and said in surprise, "My egg is white. Why are the eggs here yellow? " My eggs are soft. Why are the eggs here hard? ""Ha ha ha ha-"a burst of laughter broke out in the restaurant. It turns out that the child's mother peels off the eggshell for the child to eat every day. Children don't know that eggs have shells. Isn't this story caused by mother's doting?

Nowadays, most children are only children and are spoiled by their parents. They don't realize that their excessive love is an obstacle to their growth! They think they love their children and are responsible for them. In fact, they are harming their children!

There is also a story about a family of three walking in the park. One day, a family of three went for a walk in the park. The child is only five years old. He is very naughty and likes to jump. The child rushed to the front, but accidentally tripped over his loosened shoelaces and fell to the ground. When the mother saw it, she immediately wanted to help the child, but was stopped by the child's father. He said calmly, "Let the child get up by himself and exercise his ability. The child lay on the ground for a while and saw that no one was helping him, so he had to support himself on his own. This is the expression of love!

Maybe some parents will tell this story and say, "This father doesn't love children at all!" " "And I want to say, you are wrong, he exercised the child's will. Instead of helping him, I hope that the child can stand on his own feet in this society in the future. He really cares and loves the child!

There is nothing wrong with caring for children, but you can't go too far. Although the children will be safe and well-fed, they will have no place in society in the future, and it is you who will be condemned by conscience. Give up doting, but the child has a bright future!