The most important phenomenon in family education is the delay effect. The influence of this talent has become a blessing for children and society, avoiding the profound opposition and even lifelong confrontation between parents and children.

In fact, since childhood, the influence of parents on their children is immeasurable. Some people have been opposed to their parents all their lives, which just proves the great influence of their parents from the opposite side, but this influence is presented in a destructive way. It can be seen that the interaction of authority and time factors has produced the delayed effect of family education.

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Tip 1: The delay starts in one minute.

To cultivate children's self-control ability, we should follow the principle of gradual progress from childhood. In other words, don't expect your child to wait for 20 minutes from the beginning. As long as the child can wait for a short time and not cry or make trouble during the waiting time, it is self-control. The initial delay should not be too long, otherwise the child will be discouraged and give up the goals and confidence he pursues.

Tip 2: Don't care too much when waiting.

Delayed gratification is a kind of self-discipline behavior, but children are still young and often need heteronomy to realize delayed gratification. As children get older, they can also try to supervise themselves. While the child is waiting, parents can do their own thing and don't let the child feel that he is watching him.

Tip 3: delay satisfaction with token method.

Token method is also one of the good ways to delay satisfaction. When the child is older, mom and dad can make an agreement with the child that if they buy a new toy, they will exchange it with the "five-pointed star" they usually accumulate. Every time a child gets a "reward", it is a kind of waiting. Every time mom and dad give rewards, the standards must be unified and the principles must not be lost.

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