Observe more and learn the modern education mode. Educating children no longer depends on fists, but on reform and charging. Only with conceptual knowledge can you be a good parent. Try to integrate into children's lives. Sometimes the generation gap appears because people have different world views and different living environments.

Try to integrate into their lives, see what they usually like and think about why they like it. You can also try to like it, so that he will think you are more like his friend, and he will tell you what he thinks, so that you can give him the right guidance instead of just guessing what happened to him.

Providing a platform for children, another feature of adolescent children is the imbalance of cognition and life experience. If parents don't let go and give their children a chance to practice, their children will be even less confident. When it comes to teenagers, we must let the children make decisions.

Many adolescent children are expressing why they have to make decisions for me and why they don't respect my ideas. As a parent, you can let your children touch the south wall and find their immaturity. When you have suffered several losses, your children will naturally have a new understanding of themselves.

Change the content as the child grows up.

As children grow up, the content of the chat will also change. When children are young, parents can often tell their children stories, the content of stories, the fate of characters in stories, the changes of plots and topics related to their lives. This is the milk of children's spiritual life. What parents want their children to learn and what kind of people they expect their children to become are naturally included in it.

Don't be complicated.

Parents and children chat, the content should not be too abstruse, and the children can't understand it. Parents should speak in a coherent tone, and the content should be gradual and simple. Don't solve all the problems in one conversation. Otherwise, children can't accept and understand what their parents say and can't achieve the purpose of education. When parents chat with their children, let them speak on their own initiative, pay attention to their emotional changes in the conversation, and stop in time or immediately.

Language should be lively.

Chatting with children should be in a language that the little guy can understand, and it will be very effective to use stories that the children know better in conversation. The lively and interesting language of parents will make the whole chat process full of fun, and children will often be educated through laughter. Parents should use encouraging language when praising their children and euphemistic tone when criticizing them. The correct tone will make children happy to accept it, and blunt or rude language will make children object and argue, making the conversation impossible to continue.

As parents, we must pay attention to the education and guidance of children's rebellious youth. When it comes to rebellion, parents think they just like to contradict their parents. In fact, there are many different representations of the rebellious period, representing different problems.