China is a country of etiquette, and its 5,000-year cultural heritage has been deeply engraved in the hearts of the people of China. Every family has family precepts, rules and customs. As the saying goes, there is no Fiona Fang without rules. The following is a selection of essays on the theme of family style and family instruction that I have compiled. Welcome to read!
Essays on Family Style and Family Instructions
Family is the cell of society, and the status of family civilization is not only the epitome of social civilization, but also can influence and change social atmosphere and create new social atmosphere. Therefore, the construction and inheritance of a good family style is not a trivial matter. A good family style benefits the country and the people. On the contrary, it harms people and society.
Good family style is the accumulation and inheritance of good quality in the family, and it is a valuable spiritual wealth left by the family to each member. In ancient times, there were benevolence, wisdom, courtesy and faith, but now there are diligence, filial piety, modesty and thinking. A good family style has its own advantages and disadvantages due to different backgrounds: kindness and generosity, filial piety to parents, brotherhood and friendly neighborhood; Or thrift, always cherish the hard-won idea of a porridge and a meal, rely on thrift to gather business, talk about thrift, and be careful; Still be a man, do not seek wealth, be conscientious, be respectful and treat others with sincerity. All of the above invisibly affect family members and make children benefit for life, and its value is inexhaustible.
The formation of a good family style is by no means achieved overnight, and it needs long-term edification and accumulation. To strengthen education, repeated training, pay attention to training, and become the conscious consciousness and behavior of each member.
One is to cultivate consciously. We should understand that it is not only family fortune and status that have been passed down from generation to generation, but also the connotation and spirit. Passing on the fine moral character and style left by the older generation is a great event that benefits the country and the people. With the baton in hand, I have my own responsibility to let the good family style be passed down from generation to generation and carried forward.
The second is to create an atmosphere of advocating learning in the family. The ancients said, "If you don't learn, your ambition will be unclear, and if you don't learn, you will be broad." Only when you know books can you be polite and your knowledge be sublimated. Let the family smell more books. After dinner, read books, newspapers and talk about things, so that family members can get more enlightenment and enlightenment. Of course, family study is different from organization, and there is no need to carry out any activities in a planned way. However, cultivating family members' interest in reading in a quiet family environment and swimming in the sea of books can always give people a bleak mood, which makes people gain something and feel something.
Three elders should do a good job of passing the belt. Parents are the invisible forces that shape children, and their influence on the formation of children's world outlook. Your clothes, manners, opinions and the way you treat people and things all have a subtle influence on children, and their behavior is superior to others. Everyone should understand this morality.
Fourth, we should create a harmonious and civilized family environment. The home is clean, bright, neat and orderly. Visiting friends' homes, some families also attach great importance to family style and family education culture, and hang up inspiring and touching family precepts, such as "It is better to accumulate gold and jade than to accumulate books and teach children, and be lenient with others", "Diligence is far from blessing" and "Everything goes well at home", which makes people feel in it, resulting in a good psychological state and a fresh and elegant feeling.
A good family style is a good school, and educational methods permeate all aspects of close contact. Enthusiastic induction, cordial teaching, enthusiastic encouragement and strict requirements all affect every member of the family, the neighborhood and the society. Let everyone pay attention to the construction of family civilization and leave a harmonious and warm society.
Essays on Family Style and Family Instructions
The reason why the grass can grow sturdily now is that the hard-working land keeps sending nutrients to the grass, the dedicated rain and dew do not hesitate to send moisture to the grass, and the loving sun sends sunshine to the grass without asking for anything in return. Spring breeze touches it, lightning tests it, and stones beat him ... after a few months, the grass has become a strong grass, and even if passers-by step on it, he remains green and energetic. Because he was nourished by the environment from childhood, he laid the most solid foundation. We are not like grass. Only under the influence of a good family style can we be outstanding and take fewer detours on the road of life. The Chinese nation is an ancient civilization with a long history. Since ancient times, it has had the reputation of "a country of etiquette", so it pays more attention to family style and family training. And if I want to talk about my family style and family precepts, I have to talk about it in a few hours.
As the saying goes: "be brave and things will succeed;" Work hard and happiness will come. "Of course, hard work is the first priority of our family. Grandma and mom are the most hardworking people in the family. We live in the country. They know that only one pair of hands can provide education for my sister and me. Diligence and thrift have unconsciously become our family style.
I remember that summer, it was the peak of wheat harvest, but it happened to catch my grandfather's birthday and my family was very busy. My father is cooking at home, and only my mother and grandmother take me to cut wheat. At that time, the current wheat harvester had not been popularized, and it was only harvested with a sickle.
From morning till noon, I never stopped for a moment. My mother and grandmother are both sweaty. Mom's white shirt looks washed, and grandma's slim figure is even more bleak. They haven't eaten, so drinking water is a kind of rest for them. In the afternoon, we went home one after another. Mom and grandma didn't stop, but washed clothes and wiped the table together, regardless of the sweat on their heads. Eat in a hurry and go to bed early. In the middle of the night, a beam of light came through the door. I looked dimly along the light and saw my mother trying to clean up the luncheon. Wipe the left, another reason, go on. I saw sweat dripping down my mother's cheek. Mother's back is a little hunched. She used to be proud of her straight back. Why do you have a hunchback today? I'm wide awake, and the light in the living room is still on. ...
Under the influence of grandma and mom, I learned to work hard. Although grandma passed away, her diligence will always be remembered in my heart. I am the captain of the health team now. I do my duty on duty every day and am praised by my teacher. Efforts are not only for yourself, but also for others. This sentence comes to my mind from time to time.
How difficult it is to "give up yourself for others" in reality. He's not just impulsive, he's not just excited about thinking, he's not just impulsive, he's not temporarily out of his mind, he needs a noble spirit, he needs a great feeling that he has others in his eyes and is willing to sacrifice himself to help others. This is not only the focus of public opinion in the society now, but also the focus of praise in my family's behavior.
Dad is an ordinary worker, and his family is not very rich, but he won the praise of everyone in the village with his skillful hands. Dad knows everything, such as repairing electricity, repairing cars, repairing water pipes, repairing bicycles and repairing microwave ovens ... In short, he is the most exquisite in my memory.
When something is broken and people come to him, he will accept it without hesitation. One day I went to the warehouse to look for something, and found that it was full of rigs, automatic chargers and some tools I didn't know. I rushed to ask my mother, and my mother told me that these parts and tools were bought by my father with his own money in order to repair the broken things for the villagers. I froze. Is this true self-sacrifice? In this way, I deeply impressed my father's spirit in my heart. In spring, everyone in the village helps us sow seeds. In summer, they all help us peel corn. In autumn, they all send apples to our family. But dad refused. Dad said, "What we really gain is not other people's things, but other people's hearts …" Right! Self-sacrifice is a flower that never fades, not only in life, but also in people's hearts. ...
My father's practical actions subtly infected me. I always remember that there is a reward for giving. At school, although I work hard to organize my notebook, I still lend it to others for reference. If you give others a help, others will give you a help; You give others a love, and others will give you a love. Isn't this the essence of standing in a rapidly changing society? I don't worship stars, I don't worship rich people, I only worship my self-sacrificing father and Lei Feng. Dad is a flower that never fades, always blooming in our hearts, forever. ...
As the saying goes, "filial piety is the first virtue", and we have always regarded "filial piety" as the core of family style. People in ancient China were very filial, such as Huang Xiang of Saint Amethyst. His mother died when he was 9 years old, and he was very sad. But his mother didn't survive, so he decided to dedicate all his thoughts and love to his father. It's very cold in winter. When sleeping at night, Huang Xiang lies in his father's quilt first, and then returns to his cold quilt when the quilt is hot. This is the famous story "Incense lasts for a long time and can warm the mat", which gave me a preliminary understanding of filial piety, which I learned from my father. ...
Since the year I was born, my grandfather's heart is not good, and my grandmother can't take care of him alone. Because my father's brother is away for a long time, it naturally becomes his responsibility to take care of him. During the day, my father goes to work and my mother takes care of it. At night, dad will sleep with grandpa. Because grandpa always coughs and drinks water in the middle of the night, and because this father always can't sleep, he takes care of it wholeheartedly without complaining. Whenever my father has a holiday, he always takes his grandfather to see the nearby scenery and goes to the fields to breathe fresh air with him. Although it's a little troublesome, dad hopes to see grandpa's smile more. Grandpa always takes a nap at noon, and my father always asks me to cover him with a quilt from time to time to avoid catching cold. Although it is a simple exhortation and an action, it reveals dad's indescribable and delicate love for grandpa.
"A little greeting is a great love for my parents" has taken root in my heart and I have learned filial piety since I was a child. I am not good at words, and I will not say anything sweet to my parents. I just wash dishes and chopsticks after meals, fold the quilt after sleep, do my own laundry and do my own thing. I only have my parents now, and my parents will only be us in the future. I will repay them with my present achievements and future love, and let them live a simple and happy life.
Inherit the family style, inherit the family style. May the wind of hard work, self-sacrifice and filial piety float over my family, this society and the Chinese nation forever! With warmth, it floats into the hearts of thousands of families and everyone. ...
Essays on Family Style and Family Instructions
During the Spring Festival, the visit to Jiafeng Street launched by CCTV aroused social resonance. "Family style is not allowed to bully your wife", "Family style is to educate children to learn to study hard and be a good person" ... Ordinary people interpret family style with simple words, and at the same time convey a kind positive energy to people.
Family is the cell of society, and family style embodies the pursuit and inheritance of family values. Family style is also the source of social atmosphere and civic morality. A word, a story and a memory are all carriers of family style, which affect children's hearts and shape their personality in every bit of life, thus driving the development of the whole society and even the whole country.
Home is the child's first class, and parents are the child's first teacher. Some people vividly compare their parents to mountains and rivers, providing a good ecological environment for their children's healthy growth. Undoubtedly, some parents around us show two sides, which makes children feel anxious and confused when facing some social phenomena. The essay "Help or Not Help" in the Spring Festival Evening outlines the ambivalence of choosing "Help" or "Not Help" when the old man falls. "People can get up when they fall, but they can't get up when their hearts fall!" I believe more people will choose conscience before money and conscience. At the same time, it also appeals that when people ignore the fallen old man because they have not been wronged, and when society is unable to help him, the law should lend a helping hand so that good people can get a good reward.
As I was born in the 1960s, I was influenced by my family and parents since I was a child. I take "diligence, hard work, frugality, integrity and kindness" as my family style to regulate my behavior and values, which has influenced my family and children. Although my husband and wife are ordinary oil workers, we are conscientious in our posts and interpret the wonderful life in the ordinary with our own efforts and dedication. When we regard the "score" as supreme, lest the children lose at the starting line, our view is to respect the children's choices and stimulate their interest. Our son who entered high school is very nervous about his studies. However, when my son proposed to "participate in the competition for the appointment of cadres in the student union", we chose to respect him and remind him to arrange his time reasonably and properly handle the relationship between study and activities. After a semester, when the son of the president of the student union performed well in school activities, he also achieved excellent results.
In front of the TV, at the dinner table, we also talked about some hot news and interesting things on campus, such as "Class * * cheated in the tug-of-war competition, which led to a war between two classes", "Class * * was expelled for falling in love" ... Sometimes we talked with our son about "boys were harassed by female classmates at school, and their grades dropped because their parents mistakenly thought they were talking" and "girls were suspended because they hated English teachers". "As a parent, my opinion is ..." Talking about my views from different angles solidified the family style of equality and respect in communication and enhanced the relationship between mother and child.
"The cold family style is good, and the teenager becomes a talent early." As ordinary people, we may not be able to give our children rich material conditions and broad interpersonal relationships, but we will try our best to pass on the fine family style of our parents and make it a potential and invisible force, which will influence and lead children to grow up healthily.
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