Adolescence is the second peak of human growth, and education is particularly important. The psychology of this period is a little locked, that is, the feeling of self-righteousness The communication between parents and children should be more thoughtful. Don't be too straightforward. On the premise of fully taking care of children's self-esteem, announce parents' judgments on things. The psychological counseling teacher of Chenfeng Education told us that we should be strict with the bottom line of basic norms and pay attention to methods.

Respect for children

It needs to be respected, otherwise it will confront and despise authority. At the same time, parents need to set an example and tell their children what respect is.

establish/make rules

With the increase of time away from home, adults need to discuss and communicate with their children, establish good family rules, and then follow them, such as going home before 9 pm, such as not allowing parents to enter their children's rooms and knock on the door, and not allowing them to look through their belongings without their permission.

♀? Don't nag

Allow children to make mistakes, don't hold on to their own mistakes, and don't nag the same question.

Unconditional love

Tell your child that mom and dad love and support you unconditionally, give necessary encouragement and praise on some things, affirm the positive side of your child's thoughts, and point out the negative side of your child's thoughts when necessary.

♀? Care about physical development

Take proper care of your child's physical development and ask him if he needs some help if necessary.

Brief introduction of rebellious period

Teenagers are in the psychological transition period, and their sense of independence and self-awareness is increasing day by day, and they are eager to get rid of the guardianship of adults (especially parents). They object to parents treating themselves as children and pretending to be adults. In order to show that they are "different", they tend to be critical of everything. Although rebellious psychology is not unhealthy psychology, it is abnormal psychology when it reacts strongly.