The first is to love children too much. The biggest failure of such parents is that they love too much. Because of love, it does everything, depriving children of the opportunity and ability to create their own actions, and children are highly dependent and cannot live independently; In a person's growth process, parents' education is very important. However, we find that in many families, parents' education is a failure, among which the most failure is to have a mother who takes care of everything and a father who lets go.
1. Parents spoil their children too much and cultivate selfish character for them. 2. The family atmosphere is poor, the relationship between parents is tense, the child's growth is restrained, and the child's personality is not cheerful. 3. Parents don't set an example and don't set a good example. Overindulgence, overindulgence. Don't give the child a chance to grow up by himself, help him get everything ready, and give him whatever he wants. Afraid that children will be wronged a little, they will only be trained as disabled people.
Parents' expectations do not match their children's own conditions. Parents expect too much from their children and their own level is not enough. Note that this is not the same as mother tiger and mother wolf. Tiger father and wolf mother are encouraging children to develop their potential. Mom does everything. Dad's shopkeeper of cutting. I saw my father's doting and unprincipled tolerance, which led to their dependence and nothing now; I also saw my father's passivity and reluctance in those years, which hindered their development and creation. The most backward and failed way of family education I have ever seen is to beat, scold and ignore ridicule. Don't respect children, treat children as objects and accessories; The concept of education is seriously distorted and does not respect life; I can't do it myself, but I ask my children to do it, which is obviously double standard.