Your daughter 14 years old. After all, she will grow up and have her own life in the future. Let her go out more to adapt to the school environment and get in touch with her classmates. She is still young, and there are some things that she may not tell you. High school girls have their own cognition. When she has classmates and good girlfriends, she can share them. Don't worry too much about her being a loner. Sooner or later, she will be divorced from society. It's impossible for her not to work and communicate with people just because she doesn't fit in, is it? In short, people adapt to society, not to whom society adapts. As parents, we should guide our children correctly, not let them walk because they are afraid of falling. Introversion can change over time. Here are some ways I can help you change your child's introverted personality. You can refer to them:

First, communicate with peers more.

If parents are the first influencers of children's personality, then peers are the best teachers for children to form a good personality and learn to communicate with others. Because, when interacting with peers, children will relax freely, and it is easy to form and maintain good emotions. When children are good at communication, parents should encourage and strengthen them in time, which will help children form a cheerful personality. For introverted children, parents should encourage them to "go out" and visit more children of the same age. You can also "please come in" for your children and invite their friends to play at home. Children are usually very excited and happy when they taste the taste of being a small master. They will take the initiative to show their friends around the house and are busy greeting small guests. In this way, they unconsciously enhanced their self-confidence and shaped a cheerful personality.

Second, create a harmonious atmosphere.

In a harmonious and civilized family environment, children will be emotionally stable, cheerful, emotional and confident. Therefore, parents should first create a warm and safe family atmosphere for their children. Secondly, we should satisfy children's sense of belonging, let them feel love and respect, do not blindly arrange activities according to their own wishes, and reserve the right to choose reasonable demands. In such an environment, children will feel relaxed and happy, speak freely, dare to communicate with their parents, and easily form a lively and cheerful personality.

Third, let children exercise independently.

Parents should create conditions for their children to do things independently, such as shopping and borrowing things from neighbors. After a period of time, the child's personality will be much more cheerful than before, which can make the child dare to contact something he is interested in, and the child's introversion will also change.

Fourth, protect children's self-esteem

Parents should protect their children's self-esteem, care about their behavior, encourage their children to speak freely, and don't take rude and simple education methods to easily deprive their children of their "right to speak." Parents should also consciously cultivate their children's ability to cope with difficulties, educate their children to learn to be patient and happy-go-lucky, maintain a positive and optimistic mood, and forget the temporary depression.

Five, the good influence of parents

In the process of adapting to the family environment, children often take their parents as the most direct imitation objects and form their own psychological model and personality characteristics. Parents' words and deeds are enough to affect children's emotions, will and behavior, and will be internalized into children's character over time. When parents laugh, children will dance with joy; When parents are angry, children get scared. Therefore, parents should maintain a normal and stable mood, even if they are in a bad mood, they should be optimistic and open-minded in front of their children, so as to have a subtle and benign influence on their children.