People with AB blood don't take half from type A blood and type B blood, but transform the temperament of type A blood and type B blood to produce a brand-new personality. For example, in sports and intelligence, children with AB blood are as bold and keen as children with B blood. But if we look deeper, we will find that its way of thinking is exactly like a person with type A blood. After the action, people with AB blood will constantly reflect on themselves, worry about this and that, and regret the mistakes in their actions. Although they are often unhappy afterwards, they are often very careful and have an objective view of things when facing practical problems. Before taking action, we will observe, calculate and then put it into action from various angles. So people with AB blood are very cautious. Children with AB blood are also quite confident. They always have a sense of superiority and a strong desire for expression when they get along with others, but they often hesitate at the last minute, so they often give up halfway and it is difficult to gain the trust of people around them. Parents and teachers evaluate AB blood children like this: "Your child is really pie, has a good brain and can do anything. What a good boy!" "Outside, although he is brave, he is always cautious and sometimes timid ... The school teacher said that he is' careful as silk'!" From the words of parents and teachers who know their children well, we can see that children with AB blood are particularly sensitive. However, people with AB blood sometimes have the confusion between A blood and B blood. For example, a child who is always shy and timid sometimes smiles at everyone; Children who are always slow to do things sometimes put away their toys quickly; Children who are usually quiet, conservative and cautious sometimes like to be lively, talkative and cheerful. It can be seen that it is unclear from the appearance what AB people think in their hearts. Children with AB blood are very sensitive. When encountering difficulties, they are often more unstable and angry than people of other blood types. At this time, if parents use "why are you so impatient!" ""nothing can be done well! "Words such as accusing him can only aggravate his rebellion against sensitive AB blood children. If you use "come", what's the matter! "Tell me about it." "It's good to be like this!" "Not simple! Well done! " It is wise to wait for a gentle and positive tone to talk to him. Calm down, take a long-term view, and let the children with AB blood stabilize their emotions and do it with peace of mind. ◆AB blood children's reaction to rewards and punishments (1) AB blood children's reaction to rewards, no matter what obstacles they encounter, when AB blood children can't overcome difficulties, they will be emotional immediately. He himself knows that this behavior is wrong, but he still can't help it. When things go wrong, you will lose your temper impatiently. Adults are like this, and children are more intense. "what! This little thing is also angry and inexplicable! " Don't expect to have any effect by scolding him like this. "What's the matter! Tell mom. " "It is very good to be able to do this. You are really good! " At this time, if parents listen patiently and gently persuade, especially when AB blood children are prone to lose their temper, seize the opportunity and gently ask him: "There seems to be something wrong today! What's the matter! " This kind of reward and encouragement is the most needed and acceptable way for AB blood children. Children with AB blood are also very upset that they can't control their emotions. Treating him with a gentle attitude can calm the child's excited mood, and saying some words of praise and encouragement when his mood is stable can call back his confidence. Self-boasting and superiority is another feature of AB blood children. I have a strong temperament since I was a child. In order to impress others, they often do something unconventional. For example, when painting, draw the background with big red; In class, the teacher asks questions, whether he understands or not, and immediately raises his hand and is called to answer, even if he can't. If children with AB blood have this kind of behavior to attract attention, educators should follow the trend and say, "Great! How did you come up with it? " Then give timely guidance. For children with AB blood, timely praise is not only necessary, but also can stimulate his super creativity. The so-called creativity refers to the ability to survive and solve problems in the face of crisis. In this way, he will not only be satisfied with what he is doing, but also plan his next move happily. If a child with AB blood deliberately does something, but his parents don't care at all and let it go, then he can do anything naughty. Therefore, as parents, we must take the initiative to care for and return the children with AB blood with a positive attitude. The reaction of AB blood children to punishment can be roughly divided into introversion and extroversion. According to blood type, both type A and AB belong to introversion type; Both type O and type B are extroverted. Children with AB blood are as fragile and sensitive as children with A blood. If you say to him, "What's the matter with you, son?" ! I'm telling you, it's no use. You got it? "You reprimand him like this, not only can't let him reflect, but it will make him avoid everywhere because he is afraid of the pressure of his parents; On the other hand, they may repeat the same mistakes because they don't know their own mistakes. Children's sensory nerves are thinner and more sensitive than adults. This is especially true for children with AB blood. Blindly scolding doesn't suit him, it will only make him shrink back. It's best to listen to his reasons first, and then communicate with him calmly. This can not only convince children, but also stimulate their enthusiasm for thinking and thinking, urge them to think of new ways themselves, and really let them understand and correct their own shortcomings. However, when encountering setbacks and failures, most AB-type children refuse to admit their mistakes and even put the blame on others. This is not only because he lacks introspection, but always tries his best to save the situation of failure. If children with AB blood have this mentality, parents should patiently help correct it. ◆ Appropriate education methods for children with AB blood (⑴A blood (mom and dad) →AB blood (children) The appropriate education method is: try to avoid criticizing shortcomings, but fully praise advantages. In the discipline and education of children, even children who are not AB blood need considerable patience, warm consideration and thoughtful care. The most important thing is to stimulate the child's desire and courage to do things and try to stimulate his interest in things, so as to ignite the consciousness and enthusiasm of creation. Children with AB blood are easily manipulated in the eyes of parents with A blood, and can generally be regarded as "good children". Children will obey and obey the orders and instructions of adults, and generally will not refute and resist. I never doubt the correctness of my parents' words, nor do I criticize my parents. I always do what Nuo Nuo says. However, if the parents of type A blood unconsciously relax their vigilance and mistakenly think that their children will develop as expected according to past experience, in addition, because things seem to develop as expected, they can't find that the children of type A blood are trying to express their true feelings through their own attitudes and language, hoping to get the understanding of adults, which makes it easy for parents of type A blood to miss the opportunity to know the children of type A blood. People with AB blood, whether adults or children, have a characteristic, that is, once they feel that they can't convince each other, they are discouraged and don't want to make any efforts to convince each other. That is, they don't insist on making their own decisions. When certain requirements are put forward, once they are rejected by type A blood parents, they immediately fall into a self-loathing situation instead of sticking to their own opinions. According to these characteristics of AB blood type people, parents of A blood type must create opportunities to communicate with their children as much as possible. We must try our best to understand children, what they are thinking and doing. Don't be too picky about children, don't talk too much about their manners and clothes, and don't force them to say things they don't want to say to others at present. Wait patiently and calmly. Because children will tell their parents. ⑵ Type O blood (mom and dad) → Type AB blood (children) The appropriate education method is: don't impose your ideals on children. If you want to paint an ideal blueprint for children, you should give them the objects of AB blood worship from the beginning, thinking that not all children will regard Sheva Yicha, Hideki Noguchi and Edison as their ideal idols. For parents with type O blood, children with type AB blood are difficult to discipline. However, if the unique efforts of O-type blood people are exerted, the effect will be more optimistic. ⑶ Type B blood (mom and dad) → Type AB blood (children) Appropriate education method: effective use of concentration. People with type B blood generally lack the ability of logical thinking, and their thinking is often fragmented and unsystematic, so their judgments are also contradictory. However, people with AB blood have excellent concentration ability. Therefore, once children have formed certain opinions and put them into action, there is no need for adults to over-correct children's contradictory and changeable temperament. One of the characteristics of AB blood children is that once they focus on one thing, they will forget everything else. When children are in a good mood at school, or when their studies are full, they often forget many things. This is favorable evidence that people with AB blood are highly concentrated. Of course, people with AB blood are forgetful and have many strange words and deeds, so we must fully cherish the child's determination before criticizing his changeable temperament. It should be pointed out that parents with type B blood are most worried about their whimsy, not their children's capriciousness. If we adopt a fragmented and unsystematic education method, I am afraid that children will not understand and become their intimate friends. (4) AB blood (mom and dad) →AB blood (children) The appropriate way of education is to cultivate trustworthy people. In any part of the world, people with AB blood are a minority. Therefore, people always look at people with AB blood with special eyes. What do you mean "too eye-catching", eccentric personality, reckless behavior, difficult to understand, etc. There are many comments. Parents with AB blood should never scold their children in a sarcastic tone in front of others, let alone maliciously accuse and hurt their children. Otherwise, children will really feel different from others and become particularly timid children.