While the baby was away, I woke up early in the morning and intensively read Chi Li's Growing Up with My Daughter. As a mother, who doesn't feel proud and envious of having a daughter like Lv Yichi who is all-round developed morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically, has ideas and opinions, and is happy, healthy and happy?

At the same time of envy, we must clearly realize that Chi Li has cultivated such an excellent daughter because she is not trapped by the big stream, can withstand pressure and adheres to the educational concept of "happiness, health and happiness". The most admirable thing in the book is that when Lv Yichi was in elementary school and junior high school in China, she was still playing happily when the children around her were constantly brushing questions and making up lessons on the ground. The author insists that her daughter should learn in play, learn in life, learn wisdom, ability and attitude towards life.

The author says that she stubbornly adheres to three educational principles in children's education: First, let children get along with her children and have fun. Chi Li said, "What a person needs to learn most is to get along with others", "My child should not be a lonely person, she should feel at home in the crowd and get more gains and happiness"; The second is to obey the child's innate nature and let her accept the natural enlightenment in the most open state. Play, study and educate in nature; Learn to fear, respect and pity nature. The third is to tell stories and read them to children. It is these three educational ideas that other parents don't understand and recognize (especially the first two) that make the author's daughter different.

After reading this book, I have the following feelings:

1. As parents, we should keep learning and improving. The premise of educating children is to educate themselves.

The earlier children read, the better. To form a reading atmosphere in the family, words and deeds are better than all requirements and orders.

3. In children's education, we should have our own ideas, persist and pursue, and not follow the trend.

Children's learning is very important, but any measures about learning can't dampen children's interest, self-confidence and physical and mental health.

5. Give children full trust and respect, don't force them, don't be authoritarian parents.

Studying hard, practicing hard, giving children high-quality companionship and education, and growing up with children are easier said than done. Come on!