Family education has a great influence on children's growth. Different family education methods directly affect children's future growth.

Mr. Wu opened a small hotel in Shenyang.

Once, two "young high school students" came to the store, carrying schoolbags and holding hands.

Ask for a room

Because there was no ID card, the staff found it and reported it to the boss.

Mr. Wu called the police for help, and the police rushed to bring the children back to the police station and called the parents of the two children.

Seeing her daughter being taken to check in, her mother burst into tears:

"I usually manage her very strictly and warned her not to play with boys. Who would have thought that as soon as she was a freshman, she learned to deal with objects and had to open a room! "

According to a detailed interview with a reporter from shenyang evening news, it turns out that this couple is puppy love.

In the afternoon, because of something at school, the boys suggested going out to get a room. The girl didn't think much and didn't object, so she followed.

Finally, under the persuasion of the police, the parents of both sides brought their children home and killed the possible consequences in the cradle.

A writer told two stories:

The first story is about girls:

A teenage high school girl didn't come home until the wee hours. A few days later, her father asked her out for a drink:

"Try drinking, get drunk, and dad will take you home."

That night, the girl fainted in the bar.

The next day, when she woke up, she saw a letter from her father:

"Do you remember how much wine you drank last night? That's two beers and a tall coin.

Remember, this is your limit.

There are many bad people in the world, so I can't always be there to protect you. So I'll let you know your limit. You must learn to protect yourself. "

The second story is about boys.

A boy of 14 years old saw a favorite book in the bookstore.

But I didn't have that much money with me, so I secretly hid the book in my arms.

Unexpectedly, the boss found out and sent him to the police station.

Soon, the father of the child arrived.

The boy hung his head and waited for his father's scolding.

But my father didn't scold him, but said to the bookstore owner:

"He must like this book very much, just because he doesn't have enough money.

What do you think? I'll pay three times as much for this book ... "

Out of the police station, the father said to the child:

"People will make mistakes in my life. Listen, forget it!

Don't let it leave a shadow in your heart, study hard and don't make the same mistake again. "

After telling these two stories, he said something I quite agree with:

"The best protection for daughters is bottom line education, and the best protection for sons is sunshine education."

The best protection for daughters is bottom line education.

The best protection for son is sunshine education.

About girls' bottom line education, four points are particularly important. I hope everyone can tell their daughters.

The first bottom line

Body bottom line

What is the bottom line education of physics? As a parent, you must warn your daughter: don't betray and hurt your body for anything.

The second bottom line

The bottom line of life

Economic independence.

A woman who is financially independent is the most dignified woman. If the economy is not independent, the personality will not be independent. Without independence of personality, love is not independent.

The third bottom line

Emotional bottom line

You can never touch someone who doesn't love you.

Don't waste time on people who don't love you. Don't sacrifice yourself for him, because you can never touch someone who doesn't love you.

The fourth bottom line

The bottom line of life

Life is above everything else, and nothing is more important than life. No matter how sad, you can't choose to end your life. Suicide is the stupidest way to solve the problem.

The best protection for sons is sunshine education, and four points about boys' sunshine education are particularly important.

The first ray of sunshine

Adventure education

A boy should be adventurous. Children who lack the spirit of adventure are often accustomed to ruts, weak in character and not good at innovation.

The second ray of sunshine

Rule education

On the basis of "adventure education", we must add a "rule education"

Balance risks with rules.

Whatever you do, you should think of the worst result. If the worst result is acceptable, you can try. If you can't bear it, don't do it.

The third ray of sunshine

frustration education

What knocks us down in life is definitely not setbacks, but a negative evasive attitude in the face of setbacks.

Life is like this. At the critical moment, you have to bite your teeth and rush forward. You can see the radiant light when you rush.

The fourth ray of sunshine

Independent education

Independence is the first and most important task for children to follow their own life path. Jiang Yang's father, Yang Yinhang, once said, "It is better to educate children to be independent than to be the first."