I believe that it is helpless for the class teacher to ban all the staff. The original intention of the class group is actually to inform the group news and gradually replace the school newsletter. Subsequently, the class group turned into a homework group, and the teacher sent the homework of the day to the group for parents to check.

With great teachers, there are great parents. As a parent, I have met many wonderful parents so far, and I am particularly disgusted with the behavior of some parents:

0 1, ask homework, ask homework in the group every day.

Some parents really don't know what to say about him. They have homework every day. There are several kinds of parents.

A, I just picked up the children after school. I don't even know if the teacher who just sent the road team back to the classroom, so I began to speak in the group: teacher, send homework, teacher, send today's homework, teacher ignores him and loves him desperately.

Once, a parent couldn't help it. When the teacher is busy, he will definitely hand out homework. I wonder if he walked back to school just after seeing the children off. Do you have time to watch your mobile phone? Besides, you don't ask yourself, son?

The parent who asked about homework also made sense. His children are in the remedial class, and the teacher in the remedial class asks a lot. He also criticized the teacher for not handing out homework in advance. It makes people particularly speechless.

Later, the teacher handed out homework in the group before school. Still continue to have parents asking.

B, this kind of parents will never know when starting a group to check the past news and ask the teacher what homework to do today. It is always those parents who ask. Even though the teacher handed out homework just before asking questions, he still asked with his eyes wide open, and some parents reminded him to look up. The teacher sent it, but the parents disappeared.

Later, the teacher said in the group: We trained our children to remember homework from the first grade, and it was always the parents who asked for homework. Should we find out the reason for the child? Why can't we remember our homework and ask it every day? I really can't remember whether I can write my homework with a small notebook, which is also cultivating and exercising children's independence!

Seeing the teacher, I think I should, should just go back. I'm tired of seeing parents like that. My baby wonders why they have to do homework every day. The teacher said at school that we should do our homework by ourselves.

02, like to reply to the teacher.

No matter what the teacher said, he thanked him. The teacher is hard, but the teacher is helpless. Every time a message is posted, a suffix is added. Please don't reply, so as not to affect other parents to see the notice.

Especially on holidays, the screen is overwhelming, not giving people away, worrying that teachers have a bad impression on children and have to follow the crowd, and so on.

I also met a parent who sent a bunch of flowers to the group on Teacher's Day, indicating that his children sent flowers to the teacher. Not to be outdone, some parents immediately ordered flowers and then took photos and sent them to the group. His family ordered more flowers than his family. ...

Poor parents, do you want to send or not? I was really annoyed with the parents who showed off for the first time. I believe that's not my parents' voice. How many parents have been thrown off the shelf like this?

03, should the class be silent?

Should the class stop talking? If there are such wonderful parents in the group, stop it! I am in favor of silence.

Fortunately, parents are now aware of the above disadvantages. At least in my baby's class group, we rarely see what we receive by swiping the screen. It's just three or five parents. Yes, it's always those three or five parents who reply in the group, ask homework and ask for leave. ...

Special thanks to the two teachers in Grade One, who are very responsible. Many good habits of the baby were developed from that time. The two teachers are not forbidden in the group, and sometimes they send some small videos of children's activities. Later, the teacher stopped sending it.

Why? Because some parents always ask, teacher, why don't you take pictures of my baby? Teacher, why don't you take pictures of my baby every time?

There are more than 60 children in a class. Could it all be filmed?

The two teachers in Grade Two didn't say anything. Compared with the two teachers in Grade One, the teachers in Grade Two are a little cold, and the class groups are basically the homework group and the notification group.

I wonder what the class will be like this year. As children grow older, there should be no more parents asking homework every day this year!

That's it.

Thank you for your invitation, Wukong. Very honored!

It is wrong for all the class members in the whole school to forbid speaking. Only the group owner (head teacher) can speak. This is because:

First, it is unscientific. Since it is a class group, when other group members, including teachers of various disciplines, family members and parents of other students, are forbidden to speak and have no right to speak, this class group will be one-sided and extreme, and this class group will undoubtedly become a task bar, a publicity column and a notice column. In this way, the original intention of the class group is lost, the authenticity of the class group is lost, and the communication on this platform is lost. Do subject teachers and parents become spectators in the group? As a group owner, will the class teacher become unsociable? Are the working ideas and methods of group owners single?

Second, it is unreasonable. I would like to ask, when the class group loses the meaning of sharing and communication, and becomes a group where the group owner (head teacher) gives orders and only tells the members of the group the school information and class information, I would like to ask again, how can the parent committee carry out its work? How can teachers from other disciplines communicate and interact with parents in a reasonable and effective time? How does the head teacher share the students' gains and losses in class activities? How do parents know about students' learning activities and life activities at school for the first time? How to share these wonderful moments? Do you share?

Third, undemocratic. As a class group, when members of other groups, including teachers, parents' committee members and parents of students, are forbidden to speak and become the only words of the group owner (head teacher), if the head teacher fails to communicate effectively with teachers of other disciplines in some class decisions and activities and becomes the only words, is it too arbitrary for the head teacher? Too arbitrary? And lose the truth as a group? Lost ad hoc information sharing?

Fourth, disharmony. As a group, we should let the subject teachers, family committee members and parents of students outside the group owner speak freely, communicate effectively, communicate reasonably, and answer questions within a reasonable and effective time, focusing on class management, student learning, student activities, student life, parents' confusion and so on (note: what is said here must be within an effective time). This will increase the transparency of class management and improve the class teacher's ability to carry out class management through the suggestions of all team members.

It is true that the establishment of class exchange groups will increase the workload of class teachers and affect their work to some extent. However, since the group has been established, it is necessary to make an agreement in advance and make three chapters, so that each group member can understand that this group is not a chat group, an entertainment group, a leisure group, a criticism of individual parents and children by the group owner, a show group of individual parents and children, or an attack group of individual parents on class teachers and teachers. It is an exchange group for the healthy growth of children, a kind and upward sharing group for children, and a cohesive group for children's bright future.

As a family member, please criticize and correct me.

Ruoshui-2019-03-11

The class has become a place of right and wrong. There are so many moths around the class group that not talking is the best way. Although there may be problems, it can be solved if you think about it carefully.

1. Make sure the teacher's notice is not overwhelmed.

The biggest role of the class group is that the teacher sends a notice to let parents know about their children's situation at school. Also, when students are at home on holiday, it is convenient for teachers to assign tasks or homework. In short, it is to ensure the smooth flow of home and school.

In the class group, all parents said "received" what notice the teacher sent, which drowned the teacher's notice in an instant, resulting in some parents not seeing the notice. Sometimes there will be group chats, advertisements and videos, which are in a mess. Forbidden words can keep the group fresh and clean, and you won't miss the teacher's notice.

2. Avoid flatterers.

In each class, there are always several parents who are especially good at filming. They not only said "thank you, teacher, you have worked hard!" " "Every holiday will send a blessing to WeChat, please" copy and keep up. "

What's more, in the group, it is suggested to buy gifts for teachers, send things and invite them to dinner. You said that the teacher was watching and listening in the group, who dared not respond?

3. Avoid unnecessary disputes.

Some parents, for whatever reason, sometimes beat and scold in the group for a little trivial matter, which has a very bad influence. The teacher looked unhappy, and other parents looked unhappy.

It is not uncommon for parents to fight in groups, and sometimes the opportunity is not available because of a little thing. If all the staff are forbidden to speak, there will be less trouble in this regard.

4. Solutions to inconveniences.

Some parents may find it inconvenient to ask the teacher any questions or communicate in time. In fact, this problem is very easy to solve. It is ok to talk to the teacher in private, not in the group. Moreover, it is better to talk about some sensitive issues in private, saving face for teachers and themselves.

If there is anything you need to reply, just ask. After that, you can stop talking and master it flexibly.

Thank you for inviting me!

Regarding what you said, only the group owner (class teacher) speaks, and group friends (parents) are forbidden to speak. Personally, I think the group owner (class teacher) thinks like this:

There are 40-50 people in a class. If all the people in the group are chatting, the class teacher has classes every day, class management, school affairs and so on. And the class teacher has no time to reply and is easily misunderstood by parents.

(2) Class group, mainly the class teacher sends a notice to the parents of the students, such as spring schedule and reasonable fees. ; Parents need to know about the important events and activities of the school, as long as they know, they don't need to ask too many questions, which will affect the normal education and teaching work of the class teacher.

(3) If the class teacher sends homework in the group, parents can ask questions. It is wrong for the class teacher to forbid words. Parents have the right to ask, and they have the right to know and ask about the affairs of the group. The head teacher of the group leader answers the parents' questions correctly and timely. But now the Ministry of Education does not allow students to assign homework online, and this parent must be clear.

(4) There are some problems in the class group, and parents will put forward their views on the problems and express their views, which will affect the class teacher and the school, so the group owner is forbidden to speak.

All class members in the school are forbidden to speak, and only the group owner (head teacher) can speak. This practice is really too high. In this way, the class group has really become a notification group, and even if some parents have problems, they will talk to the class teacher privately. Private chat can make the problem spread and expand and reduce the adverse effects as little as possible.

Last year, a parent in the first grade of our primary school questioned the teacher for leaving too much homework in the class group, which made the child cry. The teacher was very helpless and said, "I didn't leave so much homework at all." I just wrote the new words once and read the group words twice. How can it be too much? " Parents stubbornly said, "That's not what the child said. It's eight o'clock now, and he's still copying the text and doesn't eat. " The teacher said, "Then tell the children that the teacher has never left this homework, so don't write it." Parents still disagreed and said, "Your teacher left homework and didn't make it clear to the children. Now you say you don't have to write, but the children are afraid of you and dare not finish their homework. " He also said, "You are my child's first teacher. What if you don't treat your child well and your child is tired of learning? " ..... This sentence made the teacher almost vomit blood. It can be seen that if this WeChat group has such a stunned parent, it is really enough for the teacher to drink a pot.

When I checked my homework in class the next day, I found that it was really the little girl who misremembered her homework. Only she copied the text in class. As a result, the teacher was robbed by the parents of the children in the group. After this incident, the teacher was really heartbroken. I didn't expect my sincere heart for my students to make my parents so miserable. If parents are not extremely dissatisfied with the teacher, how can they make it difficult for the teacher in class?

In fact, the establishment of the parent group is really not the teacher's will. I can't wait to dissolve or not talk as soon as possible, because there are fifty or sixty students in a class, and parents of any quality may meet them, especially those who spoil their children too much. The first thing they do when they go home every day is not to ask, "What did you learn at school today?" Instead, I asked, "Did the teacher bully you today?" "Did the teacher adjust your seat?" "Did the students bully you?" Wait a minute. Originally, children are naive and simple. As soon as they are guided by their parents, the good things that happen in school turn into bad things. There are many examples of finding the school gate just by listening to children, abusing teachers or suing teachers. Once the parents of WeChat parents lose their trust and respect for their teachers, this group will become a distribution center for contradictions and fermentation.

Another time, in the second grade of our primary school, a parent directly scolded another student's parents in the monitor group, saying that his child pushed his own child and fell down, causing back pain. The parent did not show weakness, and after a few words, they scolded each other in the group. Later, he scolded the teacher for not taking care of the children after class and let them make a scene ... Alas, is it necessary to look at these smoky parents?

Having said that, we can't help asking, with so many problems in the parent group, why do teachers need to build a group? Why not dissolve or shut up? In fact, it is not that the teacher has to build a group, nor that the teacher does not want to shut up. Really helpless.

A few years ago, there were no parents at all. If there is any problem, parents can talk to the teacher directly at school, or the teacher can call them to the school to solve the problem. But because the teacher's responsibility is infinitely magnified, I am afraid that some things can't be notified to parents. For example, in rainy days, have parents informed them that they must pick up their children in person? Have parents been reminded to be responsible for the safety of students on Saturday and Sunday? Are parents informed of the above safety education information in time? Wait, if these notices are not notified to parents at the first time, then once something happens, the teacher can't leave.

Some parents think that the parent group is the place where teachers give orders to their parents, not the place where teachers are burdened. Therefore, parents cannot be silent or dissolved. After silence, how can we know that every parent has received some important notices? After dissolution, how to prove that teachers' safety education is in place?

The teacher who appears in the topic thinks that even if it is forbidden, it is forbidden, and it is not necessary for every parent to reply "received". Otherwise, once something happens, the teacher's responsibility will be great.

What do you think of the problem of parents? Welcome to supplement communication.

If all class members are forbidden to speak, something must have happened, which makes the head teacher as the group owner very passive and will only take such extreme measures if there is no way. If it is right, I think it should be analyzed from several aspects.

Look at the silence of the whole group from the negative side first. As a small social occasion, the main function of the class group is to strengthen the communication between home and school, with the focus on establishing the connection between parents and teachers. If all class members are forbidden to speak, the communication between home and school will be cut off artificially, so that parents can only watch the performance of the head teacher alone. This kind of monologue is boring, which can easily make parents very disgusted and even create contradictions artificially.

Second, look at the silence of the whole group from the front. Under normal circumstances, if parents consciously abide by the class group management rules, do not post boring WeChat business promotion links or pictures in the group, do not ramble, or even spread some gossip and create some rumors, the class teacher will definitely not stop talking in the group, nor will he repeatedly remind them. For some parents with poor quality, sometimes it is really unbearable for teachers, so there is nothing wrong with being angry.

Third, silence is not the best choice. A rational head teacher will never cut off the communication between home and school, but is good at management and making use of parents with high quality and prestige to be the administrators of class groups. The advantage of this is that parents as administrators can specifically coordinate and manage some parents' behaviors that do not comply with the group rules, and can kick them out of the group if necessary. This avoids the direct contradiction between parents and class teachers.

Finally, I would like to remind my friends in the parents' WeChat group that the management of WeChat group is becoming more and more strict, and whoever establishes WeChat group will bear legal responsibility. If you are in the attitude of supporting and cooperating with the work of the class teacher, then honestly abide by the league rules and don't mess around there and pollute a pure land. Otherwise, because of you personally, the whole group will be banned, and parents will directly point the finger at you. What makes you a target? People want face, trees want skin, which is related to self-esteem, please respect yourself.

All the class members are forbidden to speak, which I have always done. I think this is very good and the most sensible way for teachers, which is worth popularizing!

However, I can't keep silent 24 hours a day, which is a bit too much. I usually put it for a while at noon, not very long, half an hour at most. In this way, parents will pick out important things and say that teachers can get more useful information from them.

Some parents also have opinions on this matter, but as a teacher, I can only stick to my own practice, because I know best that the purpose of building this group is not to collect anger or flattery, not to quarrel or make trouble, but to issue important notices.

I never need any exchange group, because all kinds of people's exchanges have no good results, and the exchanges are all carried out by one person, so there is no need to make a hullabaloo about in the group.

Are there still few things happening in the parent-teacher meeting in the class group? Sending an ancient poem silently hurts students' hearts (I know it very well, so students' hearts are basically parents' faces. The mobile phone is in the hands of parents, and the students can't see it. How can it hurt from a distance? ) I was forced to apologize and resign!

If you are not careful, your parents will ask you trivial things in the group. If you haven't seen them for a while, you can't reply in time. Teachers are not full-time group owners and can't stare at mobile phones all day. This will also be a disaster from the sky, being insulted, being slapped, being slapped!

A parent didn't accompany his child to do his homework. Look at 1 1: 30 and ask the teacher if he is sleeping in the group. The teacher said he did it, so the parents became angry: My child is still doing his homework. Why did you sleep? Even if the teacher assigns an assignment, parents will stay until the next day, which will also make the teacher very angry!

Recently, there have been new situations among parents. What kind of class teacher's children want to go abroad, get married and buy a house must be shared by parents through crowdfunding. The head teacher who only exists on Mars can't do it himself, so why take the blame for the best head teacher!

Due to the above reasons, of course, there are various reasons not listed. Of course, I choose to ban all members, which will bring many benefits, direct notice, no trouble, no backbiting!

At the beginning of this semester, I officially banned speaking in the class. Only administrators can speak, that is to say, the head teacher, the head teacher and the director of the family Committee can speak in the group.

The reason why a total ban is implemented is considered from the following aspects.

1. The notice should have been known. The main purpose of class group is to facilitate class work, so that parents can know some documents and notices of the school in time and cooperate with the school work. But almost every time the class teacher sends a notice, he will follow a lot of "received". In a short time, the notice will be submerged in a lot of information. If you want to read the teacher's notice, you must turn over a few pages. Some parents are very busy with their work, so they seldom log in and buckle, and it is easy to miss the information. Therefore, parents are advised not to brush the screen, and it is best to ban all words.

2. Reduce unnecessary disputes. There was a parent dispute in the group. Once, a child's parents accused another child in the group and tore up the child's notebook. The other parent did not show weakness and denied it in public, so the parent asked the child to send a message to prove that his notebook was indeed torn by the child. Another child also voiced, saying that he was full of nonsense and didn't tear it himself. So the two sides were angry and the smell of gunpowder was too strong. I have to stand up and calm down.

Some parents are opinion leaders, and they will express their opinions on any activities arranged by the school, which leads to some parents complaining, and the class teacher just follows them and has no choice, but this will bring great passivity to class management.

If you are forbidden to talk in a group, it is more conducive to solving the problem by talking to the teacher in private.

Teachers in the department also advocate silence. It is undeniable that the quality of dozens of parents in a class is also uneven, and some people's performance is really not up to standard. For example, some teachers in the department also arrange some things that need to be prepared for class in the group, or send some notices. Some parents react when they see a teacher in a certain subject. However, some teachers seldom reply to their notices. No matter what the purpose of parents is, this phenomenon has greatly hurt the hearts of teachers. Some teachers ask their parents to send them on their behalf, while others simply stop sending them. It doesn't matter if the students fail the exam. Students with strict management are excellent teachers, and some parents are often more likely to have opinions. Someone suggested turning off group chat altogether.

There are QQ group and WeChat group in our class. QQ group is the main occasion for teachers to send notices. This is forbidden. However, the WeChat group is still open, and parents can speak freely in it. If you have anything to communicate, just say it on WeChat. Therefore, parents do not feel deprived of the right to speak.

I don't think this question is right or wrong, it depends on the original intention of the class teacher to build a group. If the class group is only a notification group, not an exchange group, it is certainly understandable; If the class group is an exchange group, it is a bit inappropriate for the class teacher to block all the words. As a class teacher who has many years of experience and is deeply troubled by the information of parents in the class group, I still quite agree with this practice of the class teacher. Let me talk about my reasons from my own feelings.

There are many parents in the class. No matter what information the teacher sends, they will respond positively, with all kinds of praise words such as "The teacher has worked hard" and "Thank you". Of course, parents sincerely thank the teacher, but when they reply, other parents feel that they will not reply, and they will worry that the teacher will have a bad impression on them and have to reply against their will. In this way, the screen will be refreshed soon, and once there is any valuable information, it may be missed.

Parents of class groups have different educational levels and understanding abilities. Failure to understand some notices or requirements sent by teachers will also affect the function of class groups. For example, once our school participated in any selection activity and asked to forward it to the class group, asking parents to help vote. Obviously, there is no need to vote, not to mention that parents reply to "vote" every day. But there are still parents who forward "voting" to the group every day.

Class groups sometimes let the class teacher act as a megaphone. Parents have everything, such as whether the child has taken medicine, whether to change the quilt, when to call people back, when to pick up books for others, when to ask for leave for grandpa's birthday and so on. All kinds of chores need to be said by the class teacher. Obviously, students should carefully check their belongings when they return to school, and there should be no omissions. However, just after returning to school, parents will ask the class teacher to send messages to their children and let them pick up various items.

So I support the practice of banning all class teachers from speaking. Majors can give full play to the role of class collectives, so that the work of class teachers is not affected. Moreover, this will not affect the communication between parents and the class teacher, because parents can trust the class teacher privately if they have any questions, which can also protect privacy. Of course, I don't think it is necessary for the class teacher to remain silent, but to make adjustments according to the actual situation. In short, the principle is to let the class collective play its role of serving the family and school to the maximum extent and become a bridge between parents and schools.