In study, work or life, everyone will inevitably come into contact with short writing. With the help of short writing, people can reflect objective things, express their thoughts and feelings, and transmit knowledge and information. What is the composition you have read? The following are my excellent essays for parents with good parenting skills. Welcome to share.
Children are the continuation of our lives and the hope and sustenance of our parents. The growth of children affects our hearts and the happiness of the whole family. How to train children? This problem also makes us full of melancholy and deeply aware of the great responsibility. I'm not very good at this. I know that educating children should have "patience, perseverance, love and confidence". This sentence is simple to say, but it is not simple to do.
It's really a taste to think back on your parenting experience. As the saying goes, it is better to give children a rich talent than a good habit. So we attach great importance to the cultivation of children's good behavior habits.
Some people say: "teach without teaching" in family education. This statement is not accurate enough, but it makes sense that family education mainly depends on examples rather than words. The biggest feature of family education is subtle influence. Our parents often unconsciously influence their children in their daily lives. Children, in particular, have the characteristics of visualization and imitation. Imitation is the main way for them to learn to be human, and in the family, parents become their main goal of imitation. Parents' behavior habits, standards of right and wrong, attitudes towards others, moral concepts and many other aspects are affecting children all the time. Parents are children's mirrors. If you want your child to be what kind of person, parents should be like that first. Honest parents can cultivate honest children; Parents who swear can't cultivate civilized children; Selfish parents cannot raise selfless children. Therefore, our parents should set a good example for their children when educating them!
As parents, it is also a pleasure to grow up with children. In the process of teaching children, we have also gained a lot of knowledge. It takes three generations to make a gentleman. We should try our best to be the first teacher of our children!
One day, my mother and I were wandering in the street. The weather is hot and thirsty. A "scene" came into view. A big dustbin, a foul smell, a dirty storefront, a brand that has remained unchanged for a hundred years. The antique refrigerator is covered with a shiny green military quilt. There are two tanned people standing next to me. I dragged my mother aside and didn't want to pass this place, let alone buy popsicles here. Mom said, "just buy this one. Look how hard they sell it!" " "My heart seems to have been hit by something. Yes! Is it selfish to ignore other people's feelings just because of the store? Hey! Don't I have any kindness? I'm still reading sage books! I was deeply moved by my mother. My mother's life experience is richer than mine, and she is more thoughtful than mine. I really can't do this well! How touching! You must learn more from your mother in the future. Consider other people's feelings, come on!
Jiao zi you Fang
Once my mother and I went to Hekou by bus. There are many people on the bus. Mother went in and found an empty seat. An uncle next to me wanted to give up my seat. My mother and the people next to me motioned me to do it, but I saw a gray-haired grandmother standing next to me and gave her my seat. My mother complained a little about me and said to me, "We still have a long way to go. We can sit down first. My aunt next to me picked up my little sister. Go and sit down. " There was an aunt next to me who didn't sit in, so I went in. After making love's face turned red. It turns out that my aunt is pregnant and can't get in. When they arrived at the hotel, a large group of people got off the bus. It turns out that they are all going to drink. My mother came over and sat next to me. She was very angry. I cried and whispered, "Mom, that aunt was pregnant." Mother stopped talking and turned to look out of the window. When I got off the bus, my mother said to me, "It's all my mother's fault. My mother didn't know it was a pregnant woman. My mother was wrong ... "My mother's greatest advantage is to correct her mistakes as soon as she knows them. I must learn from her. It's so happy to have such a good mother. Learn from your mother and correct your mistakes.
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The purpose of setting up the subject of "Ideology and Morality" in our country is to make our teenagers happy and healthy, have a correct mind, and grow into pillars of the country and useful people to society. But now many parents can't carry out ideological and moral education for their children, so "having a seat" has become a problem. Although children are fulfilling their moral obligations and supported by ideology and morality, parents must do a good job in their children's family education, otherwise what is the role of "ideology and morality" we learn? To the city, but, no practical significance!
What do you say, teacher?
After reading the book All the way to Peking University, I thought of all kinds of stories about education in the past, which gave me a lot of inspiration. The author's education method for Aiko is a more comprehensive and humanized education beyond the general education, which will cause many parents and educators to think seriously. When he was a child, Ding Yu was bathed by his parents, just like all children, but because of his different early education, he got extraordinary growth. It can be said that he won the starting line. In the era of network flooding, when parents are afraid that their children will fall into online games and take pains to stifle their children's online dreams, Yu Ding enjoys learning and exploring computers, thus achieving one of his "specialties" recommended by Peking University ... It is the soul of successful family education to know his children in time and guide them to do whatever they can, which is the first: the importance of timely education. Second, there is no fixed method for learning and no fixed formula for teaching. One hundred families will have one hundred teaching methods. Family education will never have a unified, scientific and perfect scheme and method. Just like the definition of limit, the most scientific and perfect family education method can only be approached continuously, but it will never be reached.
The education in Ding Yu is an all-round education with the highest interest, and at the same time it is entertaining. It is a personalized education that suits him and inspires him to keep forging ahead and achieve today's achievements. Third: EQ education. In other words, it puts the cultivation of children how to be human in the first place, grasps the leading role of education, grasps the foundation of education and respects the origin of education. This is a far-sighted educational spirit and an advanced scientific education concept. Children can learn to be moved and grateful, to care and cherish, to be tolerant and generous, to discover and appreciate, to cooperate and win-win, and to let the originally ignorant children know what responsibility is, not to mention how excellent their studies will be in the future. More importantly, it can promote the growth and maturity of children's minds and make them truly become the pillars of the future. In the information and communication society, children are not destined to be like caged birds, but soaring eagles. If we can explore these new educational elements, give them proper guidance, take their essence and discard their dross, we may be able to take the opportunity to cultivate children's emotional intelligence. After all, children can only become excellent people if they have both emotional intelligence and IQ.
In addition, the author of this book has repeatedly stressed that parents' subtle education permeates children's growth and even affects their life. Perhaps out of an instinctive herd mentality, curious children are always good at imitating the actions of adults, the way parents express their feelings, the attitude towards others, the principle of treating right and wrong, and the values of life are all "textbooks" that children read all the time every day, and their nature is formed in reading this textbook. To sum up, the book "Go All the Way to Peking University" undoubtedly provides us with valuable experiences and lessons for reference in the exploration of parenting methods.
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