Introduction: In the past, when educating children, there was an idea that children would not succeed if they didn't fight. It is also the same idea that some parents will be cruel to their children. If the children are disobedient and the tasks completed are not good enough, they will often be solved by fighting. Many children were also beaten.

As we pay more and more attention to children's education, we will be more inclined not to use rude methods of beating and cursing in children's family education. It will also be repeatedly proved that mentally healthy children can not be cultivated by beating and cursing.

There is such a regrettable thing. The reason is that the eldest of two children, a 9-year-old girl, had an argument while playing with the younger brother of two children. The little girl didn't give her toy to her brother, which made him cry. It was this situation that attracted the mother. She saw her 9-year-old daughter holding a toy in her hand, while her brother was crying and didn't listen. The mother was in a hurry and slapped her daughter.

It was this slap that caused my daughter's health problems. The girl was foaming at the mouth and had difficulty breathing. The whole person was in a very bad state. Seeing this situation, the mother quickly called the emergency number and sent the child to the hospital for rescue. The only great pity is that the 9-year-old girl passed away instead of being rescued. This result makes the child's mother regret and blame herself, which is really painful.

In fact, any part of the child's body is subject to excessive impact. Just some parts can't collide. As parents, we should pay attention. Now, let's talk about four topics that children can't "fight"

First, the back of the brain

The little girl in the story was slapped on the back of the head by her mother. The back of the head is not what everyone thinks. It's good not to hit people in the face. The back of the head is not easy to break and disfigure.

In fact, the back of the child's head is quite fragile, and a large number of cranial nerves will be distributed. If the force is improper, it will hurt the brain, leading to concussion and cerebral hemorrhage. If you hit the child on the back of the head in an impatient situation, it is not simply teaching the child, and it is likely to endanger the child's life.

Second, the temple of the head.

The temple of the child's head can be said to be the most vulnerable place on the child's body. When our minds are dizzy, we will naturally press our temples, thinking that this can relieve the discomfort of our heads.

The existence of the temple is very important, and the location of the temple is very thin, which requires more protection. This requires parents not only not to hurt their children's temples, but also to tell them to protect them.

Third, the child's ass.

In families that believe in filial sons, some children will be spanked, and some will be beaten for several days and dare not sit down. This lesson is painful, and I really won't offend my parents again next time.

However, the child's ass is not so easy to hit, so you can hit it if you want. There will be a lot of sciatic nerves here. When you spank your child violently, not all the handles will work without the child's fault, which is likely to have a bad influence on the child's future physical development.

Fourth, pull the child's ear hard.

Our ears are very fragile, covered with slender blood vessels, and some of them are very sensitive, which can easily cause ear allergies. Not only will it hurt to be yanked, but careless protection will also hurt it.

Key Tip: Children are for nurturing. Here, we don't approve of educating children by beating, cursing, threatening and conniving. Parents need to keep up with their children's growth, instead of solving the problem of educating their children in a simple and rude way.