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A few days ago, a story about M&; I have done some sorting and writing here, and I want to make a record for myself. I also want to share some experiences with you. I hope everyone can learn something.

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Hello, everyone. I'm glad to share some lessons with you. Time flies, and our course is coming to an end. I also take this opportunity to share it as my own staged learning recovery.

So I want to share with you some personal understanding, or some knowledge of the course, and some learning methods. Of course, I still need to learn more. I hope you can give me more advice.

Actually, when I first heard about this course, I was very curious. I don't know if you're curious, but that's:

Why is the course called Money and You?

Of course, we later learned the name through learning and understanding, which can also be said to include the purpose of the course.

"money" can be something that represents our work, social life and property, or it can be an external thing; "You" can represent our life, our family, or ourselves, something inside.

Basically, this can be said to constitute two major themes of a person's life. How to correctly develop and balance the relationship between them is particularly important.

Therefore, as teachers Lin and Tian Feng often say, they also hope to lead more people to live a balanced and happy life.

I gradually understood what the teacher said. This is not only a course, but also a lifestyle worth promoting, which is worth learning by all of us.

So I think we can learn something just from the name of the course "Money and You". Or in the future, because the course is coming to an end, we can often be reminded, just like a sentence in the poster says:

Knowing doesn't mean you can do it. People don't need education, but they need reminders.

Always remind us of two important words in life:

Balance.

I want to understand it as two ends of a horizontal coordinate axis, one end is "money" and the other end is "you".

Or, just like the two boards in Kanekin's Law, the barrel is filled with happiness in our life. And to have a more complete and happy life, both "money" and "you" are indispensable, right?

So for me, it is also a new understanding? Learn how to balance the relationship between "money" and "you".

I think this is also a very important gain for myself in this learning process.

Indeed, for us modern people, anxiety and busyness are the daily themes of each of us. Making a living, surviving, living, being chased by time, slowly, many times, we will live in an inertial state of life, or an inertial way of thinking.

Many people, like the teacher's poster, Lao Wang, whose hands and feet were caught by him, of course, we all know what is holding him back: in the embrace of some social values, he had to be driven away from the fast-paced life until our family relationship went wrong, or our mood and body went wrong.

Although some people don't work so hard, they don't have much enthusiasm and enthusiasm for life, or the whole life, lack initiative and have a negative attitude towards life. Many times, too conceited, or too self-centered, too muddle along.

Either live too hard or live too Buddha and find your own balance, but it doesn't seem so easy.

But it is precisely because of this that we need to keep introspection and consciously break some bad negative cycles.

Just like there is a book called Scarcity, which explains why the poor are poor.

I am busy because I am poor; Because I am busy, I have no time to learn to think; Because there is no time to learn to think, I am poorer and fall into an infinite loop.

What we need to believe is that thinking can change behavior and behavior will bring results. Therefore, we should actively welcome some changes, improve our cognition, and consciously start from ourselves to break this negative cycle.

In fact, the above said so much, but also want to express:

A lot of things, with the right attitude and cognition, the result will come slowly.

Then, some sharing about the course content and experience.

It reminds me that, just like now in my spare time, I am also developing some recording habits, such as learning to write. After learning to write slowly, I found several problems, which are actually the same as our feelings when listening to the class.

The first feeling is that many times, we are more forgetful than we think.

We need to deal with work and receive a lot of information every day, and the result of distraction is easy to forget things. I think you said something many times, and then you turned your head and forgot it.

And a lot of truth in the course, I thought I understood it at that time, but I may forget a lot before long.

Therefore, as Teacher Lin once said, "If you learn more, you need to review". Many truths in the course are pure dry goods, which are very refined. Like myself, I think I need more time to digest and remember, and use time to practice.

If a person does not persist in learning, he will soon and easily fall into the cognitive trap of thinking that he knows everything and remembers everything. Here, we should also believe that there is such a sentence:

Only those who keep learning can change.

The second feeling is: many things, in fact, we don't understand as much as we thought.

Just like some truths in the course, I believe you have heard some in other places, but why, as the saying goes, after listening to many truths, you still have a hard time?

In my opinion, I still don't hear much. Of course, the reason why I say this is also a reflection on myself.

Because I think:

When a truth is really listened to, listened to in the heart, and really understood, it will definitely have some subtle influence on our way of thinking or behavior habits, including the implementation of execution, and affect some key points of our work. ?

Like, we all know that exercise is good, but why are we still too lazy to exercise? Maybe we haven't realized or really realized the benefits of sports.

For example, exercise can reduce the incidence of senile Alzheimer's disease, which is commonly known as Alzheimer's Harmo's disease.

For another example, sitting for a long time hurts your knees more than running, because in fact, we sit most of the time except sleeping.

For example, there is a saying related to money that we all care about, "Every step you take now is saving money for your future health and medical investment", and so on.

So, I think, if we really listen to these words and keep them in mind, will we be more motivated to exercise?

In fact, it is easy for people to become a little arrogant and self-righteous in the face of listening to the vernacular and small truths too many times, or:

We are all used to going in one ear and out the other.

The above two feelings, when I have some more and more profound experience, a lot of words, when I see them again, or listen to others, I will have more patience to listen, and I will also think more about whether I have more reflection and understanding.

Then, if I am lucky in the future, I also want to meet Mr. Lin offline and feel his energy and charm on the spot. As far as the course experience is concerned, Mr. Lin's lecture style is quite similar. The teacher with great affinity makes people listen with relish.

Here I also want to say that many stories in the course cases are very good, very convenient for us to understand and very useful.

For example, the story of "barber, laundryman and shoemaker" made me understand the significance of value exchange. Value is created in the process of exchange. Just as there is a proverb:

The loved one is back, and the blessed one is back.

Therefore, in the future, I will always remind myself to actively create links, practice altruism and build "trust", which is the most important asset in life.

For another example, the story of "launching a rocket from the earth to the moon" tells us that the best way to achieve the goal is:

Aim 3% of the time and get it right 97% of the time.

Because I am a little perfectionist myself, I actually often reflect on myself and tell myself that I meditate on important things three times:

Completion is more important than perfection.

Completion is more important than perfection.

Completion is more important than perfection.

Don't think too much, do it first, like a rocket, and slowly correct it during the flight. And if you don't take off, no matter how well prepared you are, you will never reach your destination.

It's like making a product, small steps of trial and error, rapid iteration, and running through your MVP as soon as possible.

Also because too much experience in the past told me:

Perfectionism is the enemy that hinders execution.

Moreover, I think the poster of curriculum knowledge is a good form, and visually speaking, it is a good form to help us remember. It is also convenient for us to learn to browse by ourselves when we are free in the future.

Of course, many times, we don't have to rush to expect great changes, because the eagerness to achieve success often makes us more anxious. All the processes of change are not achieved overnight, just like our study of courses.

Establish some habits of reflection in life, and then if there are some community activities in the later period, you can actively participate and gradually integrate these principles into your daily life.

Just like launching a rocket, aim at what you want to achieve in 3% time. After doing it, the remaining 97% will be corrected bit by bit. Little by little, through the empowerment given to us by the community, the impact on us, such as the sharing of classmates, such as the video number of teachers, or the influence of offline friends, feel the positive energy of others, learn from high-frequency people, and slowly change yourself.

Finally, I want to share with you a sentence that I often remind myself:

Time is the best teacher.

On the way of growing up, I also hope to make friends with more friends at the same time.

The above is sharing, thank you.