If your family is a baby, she is probably ignorant, and parents will feel helpless and uneasy when they see that their children love to hit people.

But don't worry too much, this is the performance of the child's normal growth and development. I have seen many children have similar experiences.

Especially children over one year old. Beating people, biting people and smashing things are all emotional manifestations.

So at this time, the attitude of parents is particularly important, and it must be corrected in time, otherwise it will be more difficult to correct when the children are older.

Don't worry that the baby is too young to understand. At the same time, no matter how old the baby is, you must tell the baby seriously: "No". This is not right, and mom and dad will be sad. "

Don't say it out loud with a smile on your face, it will make your baby confused about your true attitude.

After you yell at your baby loudly, your baby may choose to cry, so don't be in a hurry to reason with your baby.

You can choose a relatively closed room, just you and the baby, holding her. When her mood is stable, close the door and patiently explain the truth to her.

Don't fight violence with violence, hit children. Instead, it gave the children a wrong demonstration and taught them that "they can also hit people, because mom and dad do the same."

But to tell her that no one likes hitting children, so we should get rid of this bad habit. If the child makes progress, don't hit people, remember to praise and encourage.

2. Understand the reasons why children beat people and meet their needs.

Encourage children to tell the reason why they beat grandma, and then tell her the correct way. Generally speaking, when children beat people as children, most of them are not attacking others, but out of curiosity, unable to control their body movements or unable to properly express their feelings and needs.

At this time, parents and other adults need correct guidance to let children learn how to express their emotions correctly.

At the same time, we should also recognize the demands expressed by the baby and satisfy her at the first time, such as irritability caused by hunger, heat and thirst.

3. Adult self-examination and reflection:

Adults examine whether their actions bring illusions or adverse effects to children, which are divided into the following three aspects:

1) Does the beaten grandmother still laugh when the child is beaten? If so, it will give the baby an illusion that grandma likes it and acquiesces. Therefore, the beaten person must take a correct attitude towards the child's beating behavior and stop it.

2) Are there any scenes where parents or other family members beat and scold in front of their children, even if they are joking, because the child's discrimination ability is not perfect, which will mislead the child.

Of course, if it is really beating and cursing, it is not allowed. It is said that parents are a mirror for children, because children like to look in the mirror.

3) Don't show your baby violent movies and TV: Sometimes adults don't shy away from their children when watching some violent clips. In fact, children will imitate quietly under the influence of language and pictures. Therefore, children must watch movies and TV dramas that suit them, and at the same time control their time.

4. Let children learn to apologize for their wrong behavior.

If the baby has learned to speak, you can teach the child to apologize to grandma. If the baby can't speak yet, you can also ask the child to express his apology in body language.

For example, touching the place where grandma was beaten with cute little hands, or blowing the place where grandma was beaten with her mouth. Grandma should also give a positive response at this time.

Finally, to sum up: in the face of children hitting people, adults need to do these four things:

1. Stop re-education after opening;

2. Understand the reasons why children beat people and meet their needs;

3. Adult introspection;

4. Let children learn to apologize.