One or two ways to educate children We often hear the difference between China education and British education, and the difference between the rigor of China education and the openness of British education. China's parents look at other people's children around them, then compare their own children and encourage them to compete.

Not that the competition is not good. Competition is a person's best motivation. Provided that this person is willing to compete. Some children are indifferent, while others are introverted; Some children are very calm; These children have no intention of competing, at least they don't regard others as competitors.

Education in China pays attention to exams, so parents or teachers in China attach great importance to grades and ask their children to get high marks in exams, not to be partial to subjects, and so on. Parents have enrolled their children in cram schools. The elders think that playing with friends after class, some recreational activities and extracurricular books are not rigorous, unnecessary, and should not be serious about learning. Children under Chinese education are neglected in physical and mental education, their physical curiosity and thirst for knowledge are ignored and covered up, and their psychological problems are ignored or even ridiculed.

British education has never neglected physical and mental education, and they are also relaxed in educating their children, hoping that children can arrange their own time for study and entertainment. They will take their children's physical knowledge and curiosity seriously, and they will also pay attention to and care about their psychological problems.

Children's ideas China-educated children have gone into a misunderstanding, and their physical and mental desires have been ignored, so they can only stick to their elders? For your own good? About the stiffness of the body.

Whenever a child wants to go out to play with friends after finishing his homework, he is faced with parents who think that playing is a waste of study and is not rigorous; The child hopes that parents can listen to their own voices, respect their own ideas, and try to trust the child to arrange his own study and entertainment reasonably and independently. Whenever a child says that he may have psychological problems, he will face the impossibility? What do children know? Or ridicule parents; This child hopes that parents can understand it seriously or not, but don't use their own views to suppress ridicule. It's really hard for children to face such a scene. Every strict and controlling elder and child wants to slow himself down.