Therefore, in this period, it is particularly important for parents to pay attention to and guide their children.
Today, I will popularize the eight golden rules for you, hoping to help your education at this stage.
Golden Rule 1: Don't bother children with "talking too much"
First of all, parents must accept the phenomenon that children are talkative at this stage. The development of language is bound to go through the stage of "listening and speaking", so it is necessary to establish correct speaking patterns for children and be their active listeners wholeheartedly.
It is very harmful to suppress children's desire to speak. Parents should show concern for their words and create a more pleasant atmosphere than saying "so that's it". How interesting. "And pay attention to their eyes, let him know that you are responsive to his words.
Golden Rule 2: It's normal for children to talk to themselves.
Parents who understand children's psychological development know that this kind of soliloquy is a normal phenomenon of children's psychological development, also known as "egocentric speech", which is an important stage of children's language development.
When the child is talking to himself, parents should not rush to interrupt or ask the child to "stop mumbling", but should carefully consider their own words and pay attention to give some inspiration to the child's incomprehension and doubts; When children can overcome difficulties independently, they should be encouraged to develop their inner language and learn to create independent thinking.
Golden Rule 3: Pay attention to children's music education.
Children can find pleasure in learning music, develop intelligence, cultivate sentiment, learn to discover beauty and feel beauty. Especially when playing musical instruments, children need to use their hands and brains and use a variety of sensory organs to develop their observation, memory, understanding and creativity.
Encourage children to participate in singing activities, dancing activities, rhythmic activities and listening appreciation activities in kindergartens, and propose to kindergartens to organize some interesting music games and use multimedia technology to let children play their talents in the world of music.
Golden Rule 4: Focus on cultivating children's perseverance and patience.
Children aged 3-6 are interested in everything. A word, a picture and a little fresh excitement from the outside world will attract his attention, so it is easy to form the habit of changing interests quickly and being impatient. If you want to succeed in your career, you need not only wisdom, but also perseverance. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's spirit of overcoming difficulties and perseverance.
Children can be allowed to play with a toy in a specified time, or play a game with children in a specified time, or play various games and competitions with children in a specified time to exercise their attention.
Golden Rule 5: Let children learn to "look at pictures and talk"
Looking at pictures and talking can enrich children's knowledge and cultivate their language expression ability, which is a good way to exercise their language expression ability.
When telling a story to a child, be familiar with the plot first. When telling a story, the language should be as vivid as possible. You can add some actions appropriately, and don't talk too much at a time, lest the child lose interest.
When children tell their own stories, you can let them observe the pictures first, and then encourage them to tell you what they see in words. The teacher can ask, "What's in this picture?" Wait a minute. From easy to difficult, be more patient, give children a correct demonstration, let them imitate, and remind them to think before speaking.
Golden Rule 6: Playing games is also a kind of learning.
Games are a way for children to communicate with the outside world, and the process of games is the process of children's exploration and experiment. In the game, the relationship between people and the outside world is gradually understood and established. Children's play process is the growth process of their body, sociality, wisdom and creativity.
Playing games is not fooling around. Different types of games can be made according to different educational goals, such as mathematical games to develop children's logical thinking and balanced games to develop children's coordination ability.
Golden Rule 7: Guide children into the scientific environment.
Children aged 3-6 are curious, studious and like sports and games. Correct and scientific enlightenment education can not only open children's intelligence, cultivate children's observation, imagination and creativity, but also cultivate children's good personality.
Children's interest in science often comes from accidental discoveries. Teachers' intentional arrangement and guidance in daily work can stimulate children's interest in exploring the mysteries of the scientific world and help them master the basic methods of exploring science, which is conducive to the development of children's logical thinking ability.
Golden Rule 8: Cultivate the ability of classification and coping.
Classification is the grouping and classification of items according to certain standards, which is the basis for children to master concepts such as number, space and rules. Correspondence is to coordinate related things. These activities provide rich perceptual experience for mastering the concept of numbers.
It is also an effective way to use various situations and activities in daily life to help children learn to master classification and corresponding concepts, such as letting children classify vegetables and fruits and corresponding the left and right feet of each pair of shoes.
3-6 years old is an important "journey" in children's growth. Parents must be patient and empathetic to their children, so that they can really enjoy their parents' company.