In the face of children wrestling, parents can let their children try to stand up by themselves instead of helping them right away. Every child has his own ability to overcome difficulties, but some parents make their children feel dependent. If you encounter more terrible difficulties than falling in the future, parents must overcome them themselves and let their children overcome them themselves.

When cultivating children to overcome difficulties independently, the most important thing is that parents should overcome themselves. Some parents were so distressed to see their children fall and cry that they immediately ran to help them, cursing the earth while comforting them. In this way, the child will be more wronged, will be further spoiled and crying, and will have a strong dependence. I think that my mother will help me coax me anyway, so why should I get up by myself? It's like a joke: every time a child falls, he cries and beats, waiting for his mother to help him. Once he fell down and got up without crying. Others think it's strange. Asked why, he said it was no use crying because his mother was not at home.

It can be seen that every child has his own ability to overcome difficulties, but our parents let them have the idea of dependence. If they encounter more terrible difficulties than falling down in the future and have to overcome them by themselves, it is hard to imagine what kind of answer the child will hand over. Therefore, for the sake of children's future, parents should decide to be democratic or even cruel, and cultivate children's spirit and perseverance to overcome difficulties.

Parents should not only cultivate their children's ability to live and think independently, but also create opportunities to cultivate their children's ability to make their own choices and deal with problems. These seemingly trivial things in family education reflect the educational concept of cultivating children with modern quality.