I think the best family education is not to spoil children too much. Children should be taught to be independent, not to rely on adults for everything, to do their own things, to learn, to admit their mistakes, to correct them, and to be an honest person. I think the best family education is a harmonious relationship between parents and husband and a gentle and reasonable attitude towards children. They can educate their children from an early age to be honest, responsible and strong, and respect their opinions. They can't compare with others in education and encourage their children to become confident people.
Practice and guide children to correct their behavior. In her works, the teacher once described how she guided her daughter to form the habit of reciting Tang poetry and Song poetry. She said that she would recite and study with her daughter. They will also record Tang poetry and Song poetry together in a small book and recite them together on the way to school every day. This not only increases the affection between mother and daughter, but also takes the lead in growing up with children. Under such guidance, children feel happy and friendly, not bored and stressed. Not only set an example to cultivate children's habit of reciting Tang poetry and Song poetry, but also cultivate children's habit of reading and dealing with problems themselves. In the toxic family system, parents not only fail to guide their children to develop good living habits and study habits, but also have a great influence on their character and future behavior.
Zen master educates people. The Zen master accepted a stubborn disciple. This disciple often escapes from the Buddhist temple. One day, the Zen master discovered the disciple's whereabouts and quietly waited for the disciple to make a mistake and bump into him. The apprentice really gave in. When the Zen master scolded him, the Zen master said it was cool at night. Go put on more clothes. Reflection: How do we educate our children now and give them the best we can? You useless thing? . In fact, it is not children but parents who fundamentally change the nature and purpose of education. They no longer want their children to be safe, but want them to be able to? Glory? And then what? Glory? Myself.