Dialectical reasons:
The direction of children's education must start with knowing themselves.
From the initial cognition of right and wrong things, we know what is right and what is wrong. Only by knowing good or bad from the beginning and distinguishing right from wrong can we fully understand ourselves. Only by doing away with evil and regulating righteousness can we make better choices. I don't know right or wrong, and there is no standard to judge things. How can I describe what is integrity and selflessness? Unlike anything, I can't describe it.
In order to popularize education, from the first day of study, the first Chinese textbook is: ancient Greek literature, know yourself.
Why not take teaching you how to be honest and selfless and how to be sophisticated as the training theme? There is a deeper meaning that people often ignore after reading it.
To a certain extent, integrity and selflessness are not available to everyone. Integrity and selflessness are the power engraved in the bones. Honesty and selflessness are not easy to embody, but only in extremely special circumstances. Most people don't, and it's even harder! Focusing on what you think is a broad concept, it is better to teach children how to recognize: knowing right and wrong, knowing honor and disgrace, and the direction of training is integrity and selflessness.
How many people in today's era know that there is a personality. On the premise of knowing yourself, establish and improve your personality. Only those who know what personality and dignity are can have it. Give full play to the brilliance of human nature and the great love under integrity and selflessness.
Knowing a bad thing must be a bad thing?
Give a simple example:
Take the drug police as an example, he must think from the other side's point of view. Knowing that it is not good, we must try our best to integrate into that environment. What determines its quality. What is the last thing that upholds and demonstrates justice? It is the power engraved in the bones after the cognitive height.
The times are changing, and the cognition of two generations is different; Teach children to know, and they will make better choices.
Even if you think that's good, will the child do as you say? Can you still walk like that?
Suggestion:
Everyone comes into the world to live for himself. As you planned, that is to go your way and live for you. I thought you lived a second you! You are enough in the world. Don't try to turn another person into someone like you. This is a tragedy.