Education for students includes family education, school education and social education. But to tell the truth, our social education situation is worrying at present. An expert once wrote, "Five plus two equals zero." What do you mean? That is to say, the school family spent five days in positive education, and in one weekend, the students returned to society and learned everything. For example, video games, a person playing at home, but addicted, and then bring three or four to play together, have a lot of negative things. As a school, we can't eliminate these things that are not good for educating children. When we have no other choice, only the joint efforts of schools and families can create a good educational environment.
Below, I will talk with you about the problems that parents are concerned about and confused about, hoping to help you. Many parents place all their expectations on teachers, thinking that children only listen to their teachers' words, not their own. But I don't totally agree with this view. It is true that a person's growth and knowledge accumulation mainly depend on teachers, but he can't leave home, because home is the initial living environment of people, and parents are also the earliest teachers of children. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children. Family atmosphere plays an important role in children's physical and mental development. Suhomlinski, a famous educator in the former Soviet Union, once compared a child to a marble. He said that it takes six sculptors to shape this marble into a statue: 1 family; 2 schools; 3 the masses where the children are located; 4 children themselves; 5 books; 6 accidental factors. Judging from the arrangement order, the family ranks first, which shows that the family plays an important role in shaping children and occupies a considerable position in the minds of educators. Experience tells us that there is always a shadow of a warm and harmonious family behind excellent children and talents; Similarly, a person who constitutes an imperfect personality can also find factors full of conflicts and contradictions from his family. Therefore, our school education needs more support and participation from parents.