Keywords: family education is not enough, the first grade of primary school
This article applies to: the first grade of primary school.
Composition source:
This composition is about 500 words in the first grade of primary school. The topic is: "Family education, love alone is not enough". Everyone is welcome to contribute enthusiastically.
In the first week of school, Xiaoshi came home and told me, Mom, the pencil box at my deskmate is very good, with an eraser, a ruler and a pen. You can drive here and there. But he didn't ask me to buy it for him.
We made a shopping list this Saturday and planned to go shopping. I suggest Xiaoshi make a shopping list to see if he can write a pencil box. I didn't expect people to write "ball" and "equally delicious" in pinyin.
When we arrived at the supermarket, we went to the stationery section to look after what we bought. I picked up a hard box-shaped pencil case, opened it and closed it, feeling no sound. Just ask him if he likes it. He picked up Pleasant Goat and Big Big Wolf's and couldn't put it down. But I still didn't want it.
So I said: today, Xiaoshi took care of the things in the supermarket, put them down gently, put the poured things in order, and sent the messy things back to his home. Mom decided to reward you with a pencil box. Choose one. My son naturally put the pencil box in the shopping cart.
Xiaoshi's performance in the supermarket that day was perfect. In all the exhibition areas we passed, only the untidy items were carefully rearranged by our son. When something is misplaced, my son will say, I'll take it home. I chose two cleaning balls when I bought them, and then I saw a better one, so I put it aside. Small stone immediately said loudly: mom, take it home!
What a great book. Praising children with descriptive language is a trick I just learned in the book "How to talk, children will listen, how to listen, children will talk". Xiaoshi's performance today proves its magic. I also realize that I have said no to Xiaoshi too many times before, but this descriptive compliment is obviously rare. I told you you were great. You were great. He must have fainted.
After returning home, Xiaoshi used the pencil sharpener on the pencil case to sharpen the pencils for the whole afternoon and packed six pencils. Later, at my suggestion, it was changed to four. He also found his new eraser and ruler and classified them. While tidying up, he said, Oh, I have a new pencil case. Never use that purse pencil case again. I am sorry to hear that. Xiaoshi must have longed for it for a long time, but why not ask his mother to buy it for him?
Before my son asked me for a pencil case, I would definitely say: The teacher said to be simple and silent. Besides, that's enough. This is not good. But that book taught me to pay attention to my son's needs and try to adapt. This simple concern has brought great happiness to my son and really made me feel ashamed of everything before.
Before eating in the morning, I always kept urging him: hurry up, hurry up, why are you so slow? If you don't eat, you will be late. . . . After reading that book, I began to change my strategy: Xiaoshi, eating the meal within the specified time is called punctuality. I wonder if Xiaoshi is a punctual and trustworthy child? You and dad are going to school in 30 minutes. See if you can finish your meal in 30 minutes. Then rinse your mouth, wash your face and do your own thing. Twenty minutes later, the small stone stood neatly in front of us. I can't believe it.
I feel more and more that love alone is not enough for family education. Love, there are many arts to talk about. After so many years, some things are hard to change. It's still some empty preaching to blurt out words that hurt children. It needs to be corrected slowly. I hope my children and I can move forward slowly but persistently like the clock in the movie McDull.
The computer at home is really going to break down. Always turn off automatically, and then don't turn it on. The log cannot be published. It seems that the computer, like me, needs overhaul. Ha ha.